Numbers Game

[eduardkoopman]

Numbers game. Is mocked in blackpill. The "rejection lifestyle". Or "cringe". Or etc...

Numbers game is okay, when one is at least normie looking.

It's rejection and cringe lifestyle. But it's also the way to increase dating life. It's just mathematics.
Lets say:
- 2 high tier normie dudes, both fancie 1000 women they come across in daily life, each year.
- And 2% of these women find him attractive/bangeable also and are single/available.

*The extravarted/Low inhib dude. Chats up 200 of them (1000, and let the other 800 slide) in a year, and gets to lay 4 women. Yet he gets laughed at by blackpiller, the 196 times he got rejected/excused/etc.. And they say it's over, and he should had never tried. But than these blackpillers admire him when he has a double digits laycount. WTF?
* The high inhib dude, coping with the blackpill believe that women will approach him if they find him hot. Chats up 20 of them in a year, and gets to lay 0 women.

2 equally attractive men. Different laycount. And NOT because of one being more attractive than the other.
Just because equal "success rate" but more swings means higher amount of success scores.


Here 2 videos.

*1 blackpill video mocking a pua guy (whom meets the looks threshold imo, to do this) doing numbers game. (i must say, he's to intense regularly and topushy in style)>


*2 Homeless man from New York, doing numbers game (so he he has a place to sleep). (i must say, I really like his laid back style of talking with peoples.)

 

[genetictrash]

its legit if you're normie looking.
dont even think about it if you're 5'2 balding Indian janitor

 

[Deleted member 6856]

Cringe.

 

[Deleted member 275]

Since when does laycount matter though?

If you have to approach 1000 women to get laid 4 times, I doubt you are getting much enjoyment out of that lifestyle. Anyone can get a high laycount by going for unattractive women btw.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Cringe.

it's an unavoidable part/aspect of dating, as a man below Chad looks levels. it's gonna "cringe" from time to time.
Also, cringe is unpleasant. Yet, it's not the worst pain out there. It's something liefeable imo

Since when does laycount matter though?

I think it matters for plenty dudes feelings about themself.
Obviously, for a virgin whom want to los the v-card. His zero laycount matters. Adn can makehim feel undesireable or loser in that aspect.

Obvioulsy for people on a long dry streak it matters.

And I guess it matters for dudes. that want to have high lay count, because they need/want that validation factor.

 

[TheChosenChad]

JFL if your decent looking and not running numbers game. When woman say there waiting for the right one to come along, they can say that. But no women will ever come up to you and want to date you even Gandy didnt slay much due to his inhibiton. But we have psl 3-4 narcys that think will will date them if they get a bimax lol.

 

[Deleted member 4106]

That's why being Nt is so important

 

[eduardkoopman]

JFL if your decent looking and not running numbers game. When woman say there waiting for the right one to come along, they can say that. But no women will ever come up to you and want to date you even Gandy didnt slay much due to his inhibiton. But we have psl 3-4 narcys that think will will date them if they get a bimax lol.
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Nice Ghandy article. And in line with muh observation.

You can be a little passive as a man. but not to passive.
You need: decent or better than that looks. PLUS, having a system/way of meeting enough new women regularly that you feel out about her being willing to see you in romantic/sexual/dating context. There are alot of ways to do that, and imo. It matters some (the way/context it happens in), but not as much as most think. It matters most, how attractive you are (not the situation/location/context).

Actually, for Ghandy being lower inhib, and running numbers game. Would give insane results.
The better looking a man is; the more he can benifit (in quantity and even quality imo) from number game approach to life.

It sucks though, rejection, cringe, getting ignored, etc... But I guess unavoidable.

 

[eduardkoopman]

That's why being Nt is so important

Although imo, being introverted and/or a bit shy/socially nervous(anxious). These people, are often still fully in the spectrum of being NT.
But most introverts or shy people (aka a little nervous socially); can push themselfes a bit out of that zone for some duration on time. So to behave more social, communicative.

 

[TheChosenChad]

Although imo, being introverted and/or a bit shy/socially nervous(anxious). These people, are often still fully in the spectrum of being NT.
But most introverts or shy people (aka a little nervous socially); can push themselfes a bit out of that zone for some duration on time. So to behave more social, communicative.

Its from

on his old IG story i have the screenshots to the rest. Will post em if you want.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Its from

on his old IG story i have the screenshots to the rest. Will post em if you want.

What's the point you try to make, by this?

I agee, 100% btw, that good looking people get good treatments

 

[TheChosenChad]

What's the point you try to make, by this?

I agee, 100% btw, that good looking people get good treatments

No i just tagged hi ig so you could see more of his posts.

The rest of the screenshots:

https://looksmax.org/threads/the-importance-of-low-inhibition.271493/

 

[TheChosenChad]

These people have no concept of reality man

Meanwhile puas go EE to slay
, sex industry is big there so women are more open to sex.

Then this

Polish women who move to the UK 'become more promiscuous'

The research suggests that young Polish women enjoyed four times as much sex after moving to the UK than they did in their strict Catholic homeland.

www.dailymail.co.uk

 

[eduardkoopman]

These people have no concept of reality man
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Meanwhile puas go EE to slay
, sex industry is big there so women are more open to sex.

Then this

Polish women who move to the UK 'become more promiscuous'

The research suggests that young Polish women enjoyed four times as much sex after moving to the UK than they did in their strict Catholic homeland.

www.dailymail.co.uk

I can't handle this cope anymore either.

All this talk about: talking with women during day = bad timing. Talking with women in nightclub = bad timing. Try to hit up women online = sucks due to gender ratio. Talking to women first = cringe.

While the reality is.
All above depends largely on.
* Are you attractive?
* Are you unnatractive?

It's MOSTLY not the when and where. BUt the WHO.
Dudes, always go ramble off first and immediately about: this location sucks, that timing sucks. While the first STEP/POINT is always imo. How attractive if the man in question? And that decides everything. NOTHING, no location and no timing works if you're unattractive dude.

these 2 memes, are the best. To end the cope of: where and when being a point of big matters. And not adressing the who.

 

[Deleted member 2854]

The whole thing is a massive numbers game.

I had 23 lays in 2020 but also many many many rejections. I swiped thousands of girls & cold approached 40+ of them. I was repeatedly ghosted, blocked on whatsapp, insulted by 2 girls about my looks (she said I had a small cock and was ugly after I unmatched her) and was rejected by 5-6 girls after a first date, even after they showed me IOIs, & got rejected while trying to undress girls on my bed (2-3 times). I even spent money on cab fare because 1 girl on tinder implied I might get a threesome, but once in the cab on the way to hers she blocked my number.

There's no way around it - you cannot avoid the brutality of the market as a sub7. If you want to fuck girls badly enough you need to invest time, energy & emotion into this stuff & play the numbers game BIG time. This is reality if you have facial flaws.

 

[jordan56]

Dude is a 40 year old weirdo trying to pick up college aged eastern european girls how delusional can you be

 

[eduardkoopman]

The whole thing is a massive numbers game.

I had 23 lays in 2020 but also many many many rejections. I swiped thousands of girls & cold approached 40+ of them. I was repeatedly ghosted, blocked on whatsapp, insulted by 2 girls about my looks (she said I had a small cock and was ugly after I unmatched her) and was rejected by 5-6 girls after a first date, even after they showed me IOIs, & got rejected while trying to undress girls on my bed (2-3 times). I even spent money on cab fare because 1 girl on tinder implied I might get a threesome, but once in the cab on the way to hers she blocked my number.

There's no way around it - you cannot avoid the brutality of the market as a sub7. If you want to fuck girls badly enough you need to invest time, energy & emotion into this stuff & play the numbers game BIG time. This is reality if you have facial flaws.

Mirin the effort and laycount.


Reality, for sub 7 men.
Numbersgame.
100's / 1000's of swipes.
Dates
Chat-ups
etc..

And getting brutally rejected, ignored, getting mocked, etc.. most of the times.

That's the reality.
Of a sub 7 men. That tries to not die, with a normie lifetime laycount of 6 women.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Dude is a 40 year old weirdo trying to pick up college aged eastern european girls how delusional can you be

I don't dogg a dude for trying.
if that's what a person wants. he still good looking enough though, to be able to pull 20's aged women, with high effort and so on.

 

[eduardkoopman]

The whole thing is a massive numbers game.

I had 23 lays in 2020 but also many many many rejections. I swiped thousands of girls & cold approached 40+ of them. I was repeatedly ghosted, blocked on whatsapp, insulted by 2 girls about my looks (she said I had a small cock and was ugly after I unmatched her) and was rejected by 5-6 girls after a first date, even after they showed me IOIs, & got rejected while trying to undress girls on my bed (2-3 times). I even spent money on cab fare because 1 girl on tinder implied I might get a threesome, but once in the cab on the way to hers she blocked my number.

There's no way around it - you cannot avoid the brutality of the market as a sub7. If you want to fuck girls badly enough you need to invest time, energy & emotion into this stuff & play the numbers game BIG time. This is reality if you have facial flaws.

An opinion video on numbersgame. What you thinking?