Obsession or infatuation is caused by lack of purpose bro...

[Deleted member 3573]

Always heard PUAs or redpillers say this. "you don't have a purpose in life bro." OK, let's take a look at this. What purpose do you as a human being have deep in your core? Your main purpose in life is to have offspring aka reproduce. Other purposes like business or sports or whatever are basically secondary to this one (and can be cope). Reproduction starts by finding a mate. In the beginning of a relationship, infatuation is natural and SHOULD occur because you are bonding with this mate. So if this is supposed to end in reproduction which is your true main purpose, isn't it normal to be infatuated in the beginning in order to bond with and secure this mate?

 

[Deleted member 13409]

It’s the Freudians who believe everything we do as humans is for the purpose of recreation, it’s a really base but often accurate world view of humanity and our motivations, redpillers act with “non sexual purpose” except that they are still acting on the reproductive line of thinking, except acting against that instinct

people with actual “purpose” outside of sexual reproduction are not redpill and do it directly to get status or money and then reproduce, or sometimes someone is entirely fulfilled in that sense and then experiences the dullness of the void that is existence and finds purpose in hobbies etc. that fill the challenge completed and lost by reproducing etc.

so it’s perfectly reasonable to be attached to someone early on, it’s part of reproduction strategy, “get on your purpose” is the dumbest redpill thing, at its core it’s very incel and most people “on their purpose” are MGTOW aka either divorced husbands with kids or incels who are ugly