Obsessively asking for rates made me depressed

[suicidemonkey]

Never ask for rates, you'll go insane.

 

[Deleted member 128803]

dont ask then?

 

[Deleted member 110192]

Legit went out to clubs and bars a few times and actually had some success, I started gaining some confidence and wanted to confirm that I was gl so I started asking users for rates.

It became a borderline obsession but the general consensus was that I was a MTN, and the more I was rated, the harder it became to find the will to go out. It was even worse though because I'd also been going to the gym for nearly one year, I started obsessively asking about my physique like an aspie and according to users, you wouldn't even be able to tell I lift weights at all.

I don't know why I subjected myself to the autism on this site, I wonder what would have happened if in an alternate reality I never asked for anyone here's opinion. I would unironically probably be slaying some stacy, but instead I'm rotting in my room with no motivation to the go to the gym or do anything.

I also started university and have crippling social anxiety, I wonder how much of that has to do with this site.

ok

 

[Setif]

I'll rate u

 

[Evgeniy291]

Never ask for rates, you'll go insane.

Ofc because no one here rates accurately, they’ll purposefully underrate you so you will get insecure