obstacle in ntmaxxing

[xlefort]

i hate the way i look, and whenever i become aware of how other people might perceive me or where i stand in the hierarchy of genetics/social dominance, i immediately become self-conscious and start dissociating, overthinking everything, plus my inhibition shoots up and im completely locked out of socializing in an entertaining manner. how do i stop this from happening and immerse myself into a constant, laidback state? because i've noticed that i easily enter this state and maintain it when i believe i truly have some leverage in a social setting, and confidence comes extremely naturally.

i also havent had real friends for about 5 years and im a bit socially stunted, im 16 years of age

 

[khazarianmafia73]

Stop hating yourself

 

[AgentAngularity]

i hate the way i look, and whenever i become aware of how other people might perceive me or where i stand in the hierarchy of genetics/social dominance, i immediately become self-conscious and start dissociating, overthinking everything, plus my inhibition shoots up and im completely locked out of socializing in an entertaining manner. how do i stop this from happening and immerse myself into a constant, laidback state? because i've noticed that i easily enter this state and maintain it when i believe i truly have some leverage in a social setting, and confidence comes extremely naturally.

i also havent had real friends for about 5 years and im a bit socially stunted, im 16 years of age

"NT maxing"

Just do us a favor and delete your account.

 

[xlefort]

"NT maxing"

Just do us a favor and delete your account.

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[xlefort]

Stop hating yourself

i dont really hate myself, i hate the feeling of being aged by my physical appearance

 

[cpedy]

Honestly it would help you you rlly could make some friends that go to partys or something get drunk and then interact with girls there. You will get positive feedback so it will help lower your inhibition. But even then you still have to fight it the only way your gonna improve is to put your self in the situations where you can grow

 

[mangotimer]

cuck stfu

 

[khazarianmafia73]

i dont really hate myself, i hate the feeling of being aged by my physical appearance

Either improve it or don’t bitch about it

 

[xlefort]

Honestly it would help you you rlly could make some friends that go to partys or something get drunk and then interact with girls there. You will get positive feedback so it will help lower your inhibition. But even then you still have to fight it the only way your gonna improve is to put your self in the situations where you can grow

yeah great advice, i think exposure is the best solution

what makes you sure ill get positive feedback though? and how do you suggest i combat my inhib while im sober?

 

[xlefort]

Either improve it or don’t bitch about it

"improve it" yeah ill just pray for another skull bro

 

[xlefort]

cuck stfu

who shit in ur cereal

 

[mangotimer]

who shit in ur cereal

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[xlefort]

A BETA MALE LIKE YOU

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[cpedy]

yeah great advice, i think exposure is the best solution

what makes you sure ill get positive feedback though? and how do you suggest i combat my inhib while im sober?

You will get positive feedback if your just having fun while ur drunk like looks matter but truly inhibition is way more important imo

But to combat it when your sober honesty is just exposure and doing stuff that makes you feel more confident like the gym or smthing or dressing a style. But it’s easier said than done

 

[xlefort]

You will get positive feedback if your just having fun while ur drunk like looks matter but truly inhibition is way more important imo

i dont think a subhuman would receive positive feedback
the quality of feedback i get, assuming my inhibition is 0, is contingent on how good i look

But to combat it when your sober honesty is just exposure and doing stuff that makes you feel more confident like the gym or smthing or dressing a style. But it’s easier said than done

yeah ill probably stop complaining once i actually get my boots on the ground
do you recommend i try my hardest to fit into an archetype or spend the majority of my time with a specific type of clique?

 

[cpedy]

i dont think a subhuman would receive positive feedback
the quality of feedback i get, assuming my inhibition is 0, is contingent on how good i look

yeah ill probably stop complaining once i actually get my boots on the ground
do you recommend i try my hardest to fit into an archetype or spend the majority of my time with a specific type of clique?

I wouldn’t say try to change yourself to a certain group just find one that suits you like idk if you smoke or not but that genuinely would be an easy ass way to make connections.

Like just from vaping in the bathroom and hitting the yart and sharing jt with ppl in there I’ve talked and became friends with dudes I never thought I would. This isn’t liek advice to start smoking either but it’s a really easy way to make connections

 

[xlefort]

I wouldn’t say try to change yourself to a certain group just find one that suits you like idk if you smoke or not but that genuinely would be an easy ass way to make connections.

i really want to start, i feel so happy and relaxed when im intoxicated and my inhib becomes negative, wish i could be in that state all the time
i only ever drink and smoke socially, so i do it extremely rarely and dont have any dependence on it

Like just from vaping in the bathroom and hitting the yart and sharing jt with ppl in there I’ve talked and became friends with dudes I never thought I would. This isn’t liek advice to start smoking either but it’s a really easy way to make connections

how old are you?

 

[xlefort]

i really think its an nd mind barrier thing ngl
ive never had one bad social experience when im intoxicated, i become so socially amicable

 

[cpedy]

i really want to start, i feel so happy and relaxed when im intoxicated and my inhib becomes negative, wish i could be in that state all the time
i only ever drink and smoke socially, so i do it extremely rarely and dont have any dependence on it

how old are you?

I’m 16 also I would stay away from smoking weed at school it kinda makes you retarded but nic wouldn’t be bad but it fs fucks your lungs up more and it’s obv more addictive. Honestly if I could I prob wouldn’t start nic but I don’t rlly regret it

Also weed will make you way higher inhib if you smoke it frequently

You really just gotta expose yourself to more situations idk what helped me was thinking like this feeling that I have (social anxiety/anxiety) was made to keep me alive in like primal days so it’s unreasonable for me to feel that extreme over simple social interactions. Idk if that makes sense but I can rephrase it and explain it better

But also just stop consuming bp/lm content because that will lower your own self confidence making you higher inhib

 

[cpedy]

i really want to start, i feel so happy and relaxed when im intoxicated and my inhib becomes negative, wish i could be in that state all the time
i only ever drink and smoke socially, so i do it extremely rarely and dont have any dependence on it

how old are you?

I’m nd also but I feel like at this point I can really hide it only like close relationships realize/pointing stuff out

 

[slendermanmax]

i hate the way i look, and whenever i become aware of how other people might perceive me or where i stand in the hierarchy of genetics/social dominance, i immediately become self-conscious and start dissociating, overthinking everything, plus my inhibition shoots up and im completely locked out of socializing in an entertaining manner. how do i stop this from happening and immerse myself into a constant, laidback state? because i've noticed that i easily enter this state and maintain it when i believe i truly have some leverage in a social setting, and confidence comes extremely naturally.

i also havent had real friends for about 5 years and im a bit socially stunted, im 16 years of age

tales from dhaka nigger fuck

 

[xlefort]

tales from dhaka nigger fuck

I’m 16 also I would stay away from smoking weed at school it kinda makes you retarded but nic wouldn’t be bad but it fs fucks your lungs up more and it’s obv more addictive. Honestly if I could I prob wouldn’t start nic but I don’t rlly regret it

ill just do weed, and only outside of school, in social environments with ppl my age when theres no stakes

You really just gotta expose yourself to more situations idk what helped me was thinking like this feeling that I have (social anxiety/anxiety) was made to keep me alive in like primal days so it’s unreasonable for me to feel that extreme over simple social interactions. Idk if that makes sense but I can rephrase it and explain it better

nah i get that, i have to internalize the fact that stress is just irrational
at the end of the day ill only fully internalize this idea if i receive positive social reinforcement from people lol, so all i can do is hope
im 6'2 now so i think that helps, for all my life when i socialized i was always the smallest but puberty saved me

But also just stop consuming bp/lm content because that will lower your own self confidence making you higher inhib

ive had low self confidence for my entire life, way before i started consuming bp content
i dont even fully agree with it

 

[cpedy]

ill just do weed, and only outside of school, in social environments with ppl my age when theres no stakes

nah i get that, i have to internalize the fact that stress is just irrational
at the end of the day ill only fully internalize this idea if i receive positive social reinforcement from people lol, so all i can do is hope
im 6'2 now so i think that helps, for all my life when i socialized i was always the smallest but puberty saved me

ive had low self confidence for my entire life, way before i started consuming bp content
i dont even fully agree with it

Ok we’re the same height lmao this is gonna sound retarded but like at school bro just observe how many people you heightmog

But genuinely I think what would help you and has helped me really is just find nt friends/friendgroup it really helped me like learn everything it felt like I had to but you’ll learn fast

 

[xlefort]

Ok we’re the same height lmao this is gonna sound retarded but like at school bro just observe how many people you heightmog

not even that crazy tbh, im also a weak 6'2, only in the morning
id be satisfied with one more inch but whatever its autistic as shit

But genuinely I think what would help you and has helped me really is just find nt friends/friendgroup it really helped me like learn everything it felt like I had to but you’ll learn fast

what exactly are you referring to