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Krakencel
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Ffs go get laid bro. Please tell me you don’t sound like this irl.Au contraire, it is you who are repeating yourself in a failed attempt to debunk my points.
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Ffs go get laid bro. Please tell me you don’t sound like this irl.Au contraire, it is you who are repeating yourself in a failed attempt to debunk my points.
I like this perspective. However, simultaneously, that you have few responsibilities or social obligations, means rotting and whiling away the days and hours shitposting and aimlessly consuming youtube/vidya gaems is all the more easy, as you face little accountability from others. Unlike when you were younger, your potential for improvement rests wholly in your hands, with an hour glass that is nearly used up.its this mindset that is most destructive to your life-quality.
I am guilty of this too.
What are the facts for my life right now:
29yo, never had a real relationship, no family, no career, no friends, no good childhood or good past experiences.
Ropefuel, depression, suicide, innit?
But what if you look at it from a different perspective?
I am 29yo, healthy with no physical issues at all, not bound to anyone or anything, can do whatever I want.
I wake up every day as a physically healthy 29yo man without any responsibilities or social-connection whatsoever. You can see that as pain, or you can see that as opportunity.
The one thing I am not grateful enough for is how well my body still functions despite the mental-issues. How I have 0 physical/health issues and am in good shape physically.
You will never be good enough with the wrong mindset, life will always be suffering.
Is this how you run away from an argument?Ffs go get laid bro. Please tell me you don’t sound like this irl.
Sure, but this applies to anything. Gl people fear being mogged. Talented people fear getting mogged in their field. So on and so on.People who value their carreer so much and excell in it, still risk feeling mogged by people who are in a better social/financial/carreer position than themselves. And there will ALWAYS be these people. You will never be comfortably at the top.
You can get a better career to avoid being mogged as often by people better than you, mostly coming across people which you mog, but in the end it's just your insecurities which you are avoiding here. Insecurities which are still present in the background of your mind.
Just because you aren't being exposed to your insecurities as often anymore by changing your lifestyle/environment/career, doesn't mean they don't still exist.
Mental-Health needs to be a top focus for anyone traumatized enough to end up on this forum. And that stuff ain't easy, ain't straight-forward.
Why does it matter at allImagine you just turned 30. you have nothing to show for it, no girl, no friends, no hobbies. All you have to your name is endless hours lonely, scrolling, suffering. you're thinking in your head why didn't I just talk to that one girl" "why didn't I just try make friends" "why didn't I just leave my comfort zone" but Its too late. you spent your BEST years at home, by yourself. while others laughed, partied, did stupid shit. but you're 30 now, the parties over, the friends are over, you missed your only chance. at least you have your org account, right?
Yes, this lack of social connection, lack of social-accountability, easily leads to rotting and pissing away time, opportunities.I like this perspective. However, simultaneously, that you have few responsibilities or social obligations, means rotting and whiling away the days and hours shitposting and aimlessly consuming youtube/vidya gaems is all the more easy, as you face little accountability from others. Unlike when you were younger, your potential for improvement rests wholly in your hands, with an hour glass that is nearly used up.
Is this how you run away from an argument?
Pretty low and childish for your age I must say.