Oldcels/former mentalcels of .org please give me advice

[Dorogi]

Ive been trying to better myself for over a year so i could have a life worth living for but the more i try the harder everything becomes, first i got fired from my job, than after a year i started being less consistent with the gym and i have already switched 3 schools from 2024 to 2025 and my academics are pretty much unrecoverable (went from vwo to mbo1) and my attendence got me in trouble with the law a couple of times. Ive tried to rope twice because i knew it wouldnt get better but was to much of a pus to get smth lethal so i failed.

i know that even if i achieve something i cant hold it for a long time because im too ND to fit into society and my best option is really just commiting suicide because i feel miserable all the time anyway and it only keeps getting worse, i havent brushed my teeth in like a week i skipped gym again today and i bedrotted all day which i know is fucking loser behaviour but longest i last at living normally is a few weeks untill i fall back into the same pattern.

If anyone has had something like this please give advice on how i get out of it as long ad it isnt the usual "man up" i get from parents and government workers because i tried to man up and that didnt fucking work

 

[Dorogi]

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[2026ceI]

try eating raw meat

 

[Dorogi]

try eating raw meat

Tbh at this point why not try

 

[Deleted member 178409]

Ive been trying to better myself for over a year so i could have a life worth living for but the more i try the harder everything becomes, first i got fired from my job, than after a year i started being less consistent with the gym and i have already switched 3 schools from 2024 to 2025 and my academics are pretty much unrecoverable (went from vwo to mbo1) and my attendence got me in trouble with the law a couple of times. Ive tried to rope twice because i knew it wouldnt get better but was to much of a pus to get smth lethal so i failed.

i know that even if i achieve something i cant hold it for a long time because im too ND to fit into society and my best option is really just commiting suicide because i feel miserable all the time anyway and it only keeps getting worse, i havent brushed my teeth in like a week i skipped gym again today and i bedrotted all day which i know is fucking loser behaviour but longest i last at living normally is a few weeks untill i fall back into the same pattern.

If anyone has had something like this please give advice on how i get out of it as long ad it isnt the usual "man up" i get from parents and government workers because i tried to man up and that didnt fucking work

Try using the search feature on incel.is, or the same thing here. There are a ton of people who suffer from the same stuff you do, and you could probably find a couple of posts about it and some decent advice.

 

[Dorogi]

Try using the search feature on incel.is, or the same thing here. There are a ton of people who suffer from the same stuff you do, and you could probably find a couple of posts about it and some decent advice.

Alright thanks ill try to apply again since i got rejected last time

 

[Deleted member 178409]

Alright thanks ill try to apply again since i got rejected last time

Dont think you need an account to look at posts, not sure tho, Goodluck with it either way bro

 

[tarkdriad33]

shut up nigga ur 16

 

[2026ceI]

Tbh at this point why not try

read diogenes, eat raw meat, then u will prob be happy

 

[tarkdriad33]

read diogenes, eat raw meat, then u will prob be happy

take this raw meat lil nigga

 

[Dorogi]

shut up nigga ur 16

what do you want me to do bro

 

[Dorogi]

read diogenes, eat raw meat, then u will prob be happy

Diogenes lived in a barrel

 

[tarkdriad33]

what do you want me to do bro

just wait until ur 20 to rope

 

[2026ceI]

Diogenes lived in a barrel

maybe thats what u gotta do

 

[Dorogi]

just wait until ur 20 to rope

Jfl i can rope rn with a diy exit bag but i still hope i can make smth out of my life

 

[imontheloose]

Put the cat ears on

 

[IronMike]

You have bad grades, switch schools often, can't keep a part time job, can't brush your fucking TEETH, and your parents probably regret having you due to your inability to act normal. You ruined your bloodline. Two Options for you buddy

A.

B. Open a life insurance policy on yourself then commit suicide to help your family and not die a worthless piece of shit

 

[DrunkenSailor]

The advice is as simple and boring as to keep trying because there’s no alternative. I mean there is, to live miserably for the rest of your life which is probably tons worse than trying, failing and trying again. Also I won’t even talk about roping except it’s such a dumb fucking thing to do.

Also you are a teen there are way bigger problems in life you could be facing than what you described jfl.

 

[Wexilarious]

less consistent with the gym

Looksmin maxxed and then think what's wrong type shit

If you was nd you couldn't work at ordinary job and go to school

 

[Dorogi]

The advice is as simple and boring as to keep trying because there’s no alternative. I mean there is, to live miserably for the rest of your life which is probably tons worse than trying, failing and trying again. Also I won’t even talk about roping except it’s such a dumb fucking thing to do.

Also you are a teen there are way bigger problems in life you could be facing than what you described jfl.

I never once heard someone explain exactly why roping is a bad idea. People keep telling me theres bigger problems and things will get worse but at that fucking point isnt it the only option?

 

[Deleted member 133415]

I was in the same exact situation one year ago

They way to get up is to realize that no one is coming for you and the clock keeps ticking, you will waste your youth you will become a fucking looser if you don’t move now I don’t want this to sound like fucking Andrew Tate bs motivational talk but seriously you don’t do shit because you don’t “feel like doing it “

Force yourself to do it seriously that’s the only way out keep forcing yourself for long enough until you get out of this loop remember each time you will stop forcing yourself to do shit you’ll go back and we don’t want that.

Just force yourself everyday until being disciplined becomes a habit

 

[Dorogi]

You have bad grades, switch schools often, can't keep a part time job, can't brush your fucking TEETH, and your parents probably regret having you due to your inability to act normal. You ruined your bloodline. Two Options for you buddy

A.

B. Open a life insurance policy on yourself then commit suicide to help your family and not die a worthless piece of shit

Fuck you im asking for people who can give me avtual fucking arvice its clear you havent been through shit if you could just "man up" your way through it. If you dont want to believe me you can just fuck of ive tried EVERYTHING to even get a single ounce of respect and make my life worth living and it all ended up to shit, my family already hated me and saw me as the piece of shit off the family before i even learned how to fucking read.

 

[Dorogi]

I was in the same exact situation one year ago

They way to get up is to realize that no one is coming for you and the clock keeps ticking, you will waste your youth you will become a fucking looser if you don’t move now I don’t want this to sound like fucking Andrew Tate bs motivational talk but seriously you don’t do shit because you “feel like doing it “

Force yourself to do it seriously that’s the only way out keep forcing yourself for long enough until you get out of this loop remember each time you will stop forcing yourself to do shit you’ll go back and we don’t want that.

Just force yourself everyday until being disciplined becomes a habit

Yes i know exactly what you mean and i HAVE done that but it didnt work did it? After a whole year wouldnt i have forced dicipline with the gym? I have been consistent, trained hard and everything and yes i technically got results in muscle but not my life or discipline at all. If thats not forcing dicipline i dont get it??

 

[puff]

Tbh at this point why not try

dont it tastes ass

 

[DrunkenSailor]

I never once heard someone explain exactly why roping is a bad idea. People keep telling me theres bigger problems and things will get worse but at that fucking point isnt it the only option?

I won’t explain because it’s pointless, we all have different views on life and what is logical to me might make no sense for you.

If there is one more thing I could add to my initial post is that everything in life is temporary. The misery you suffer right now, it’ll pass. There are better days coming your way and sometimes it’s when you expect the least. For that simple reason you should be patient and do your best to bring those good days your way.

 

[puff]

read diogenes, eat raw meat, then u will prob be happy

this nigga is retarded

 

[DrunkenSailor]

I was in the same exact situation one year ago

They way to get up is to realize that no one is coming for you and the clock keeps ticking, you will waste your youth you will become a fucking looser if you don’t move now I don’t want this to sound like fucking Andrew Tate bs motivational talk but seriously you don’t do shit because you don’t “feel like doing it “

Force yourself to do it seriously that’s the only way out keep forcing yourself for long enough until you get out of this loop remember each time you will stop forcing yourself to do shit you’ll go back and we don’t want that.

Just force yourself everyday until being disciplined becomes a habit

Also good advice right here.

 

[Eskorbutin]

read diogenes, eat raw meat, then u will prob be happy

diogenes woud've thought ur a fucking idiot LOL

 

[IronMike]

Fuck you im asking for people who can give me avtual fucking arvice its clear you havent been through shit if you could just "man up" your way through it. If you dont want to believe me you can just fuck of ive tried EVERYTHING to even get a single ounce of respect and make my life worth living and it all ended up to shit, my family already hated me and saw me as the piece of shit off the family before i even learned how to fucking read.

You can't brush your teeth, no advice will help you. Even guys with Down Syndrome can do that on their own.

 

[Arbuscular]

-brush ur teeth
-take a hot bath
-sleep
-jerk off
-play minecraft
-be happy

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Ive been trying to better myself for over a year so i could have a life worth living for but the more i try the harder everything becomes, first i got fired from my job, than after a year i started being less consistent with the gym and i have already switched 3 schools from 2024 to 2025 and my academics are pretty much unrecoverable (went from vwo to mbo1) and my attendence got me in trouble with the law a couple of times. Ive tried to rope twice because i knew it wouldnt get better but was to much of a pus to get smth lethal so i failed.

i know that even if i achieve something i cant hold it for a long time because im too ND to fit into society and my best option is really just commiting suicide because i feel miserable all the time anyway and it only keeps getting worse, i havent brushed my teeth in like a week i skipped gym again today and i bedrotted all day which i know is fucking loser behaviour but longest i last at living normally is a few weeks untill i fall back into the same pattern.

If anyone has had something like this please give advice on how i get out of it as long ad it isnt the usual "man up" i get from parents and government workers because i tried to man up and that didnt fucking work

Would you kill yourself if you were given the oppurtunity?

 

[Dorogi]

You can't brush your teeth, no advice will help you. Even guys with Down Syndrome can do that on their own.

Nigga there is no reason to be an asshole here to some random incel. Yeah nigga i know im a loser but there were definatly parts of my life i didnt dread getting out of bed everyday and was more functional thats why im looking for advice

 

[Deleted member 133415]

Yes i know exactly what you mean and i HAVE done that but it didnt work did it? After a whole year wouldnt i have forced dicipline with the gym? I have been consistent, trained hard and everything and yes i technically got results in muscle but not my life or discipline at all. If thats not forcing dicipline i dont get it??

Going to the gym is just one aspect of forcing yourself,

you have to force yourself through everything in the daily basis, everything you feel like you don’t wanna do say no I’m gonna get up and do it NOW.

That’s how I got over this sad state I can’t believe I wasted a whole year of my life being like that tbh very sad. Once you’re over that state you will realize how stupid you were to waste such a crucial time of your life , your youth.

Ofc you will get some strong urges it’s literally like some sort of drug withdrawals or a symbiote that doesn’t wanna leave you but if you keep pushing for long enough you’ll get out of it certainly

 

[enchanted_elixir]

-brush ur teeth
-take a hot bath
-sleep
-jerk off
-play minecraft
-be happy

@Master I want a dislike react so bad.

 

[Dorogi]

Would you kill yourself if you were given the oppurtunity?

i dont know ive been thinking how itd be if i lived a happy life but if even people here dont advice i think ill have to kill myself so yes

 

[IronMike]

Nigga there is no reason to be an asshole here to some random incel. Yeah nigga i know im a loser but there were definatly parts of my life i didnt dread getting out of bed everyday and was more functional thats why im looking for advice

I'm not being an asshole. I'm literally just repeating the stuff YOU admitted to doing yourself. You know you are unsat yet refuse to do anything about it.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

i dont know ive been thinking how itd be if i lived a happy life but if even people here dont advice i think ill have to kill myself so yes

Do you think that if you genuinely tried, you'd be able to have a life that is much better, or at the very least, much less worse than where you are currently at?

 

[Dorogi]

I'm not being an asshole. I'm literally just repeating the stuff YOU admitted to doing yourself. You know you are unsat yet refuse to do anything about it.

What do you mean refuse to do anything about it? I do its just that shit gets harder every fucking day i doubt you know what its like to want to kill yourself every fucking day and randomly think theres fucking demons in your room when you wake up

 

[Arbuscular]

@Master I want a dislike react so bad.

Its what worked for me when i was depressed brahim

 

[Dorogi]

Going to the gym is just one aspect of forcing yourself,

you have to force yourself through everything in the daily basis, everything you feel like you don’t wanna do say no I’m gonna get up and do it NOW.

That’s how I got over this sad state I can’t believe I wasted a whole year of my life being like that tbh very sad. Once you’re over that state you will realize how stupid you were to waste such a crucial time of your life , your youth.

Ofc you will get some strong urges it’s literally like some sort of drug withdrawals or a symbiote that doesn’t wanna leave you but if you keep pushing for long enough you’ll get out of it certainly

man ill do it, monday i am getting all the shit to make an exit bag and ill do what everything ill have to for 6 months and if by the end of that nothing changes ill kill myself

 

[Dorogi]

Do you think that if you genuinely tried, you'd be able to have a life that is much better, or at the very least, much less worse than where you are currently at?

I thought that last year and i did what i wanted to do and it only got worse

 

[Deleted member 178409]

-brush ur teeth
-take a hot bath
-sleep
-jerk off
-play minecraft
-be happy

This is like forcefully laughing at a retards joke, your just gonna make him feel like shit

 

[IronMike]

What do you mean refuse to do anything about it? I do its just that shit gets harder every fucking day i doubt you know what its like to want to kill yourself every fucking day and randomly think theres fucking demons in your room when you wake up

Whatever dude, you're weak and disgust me

 

[2026ceI]

this nigga is retarded

diogenes woud've thought ur a fucking idiot LOL

he is unhealthy + stressed due to unnatural dependencies

 

[Deleted member 133415]

man ill do it, monday i am getting all the shit to make an exit bag and ill do what everything ill have to for 6 months and if by the end of that nothing changes ill kill myself

Great, if you wanna talk I’m here for you

 

[puff]

he is unhealthy + stressed due to unnatural dependencies

ur a retarded tiktokcel who watched fagtis without researching anything dietary, raw meat isn't saving u lil bro u prob don't even know who aajonus vonderplanitz is and u suggested "reading diogenes" while u prob haven't opened up a single one of his books larper

 

[Deleted member 291098]

I just dmed you extremely gatekept advice

 

[puff]

I just dmed you extremely gatekept advice

did u send him a dick pick in dms

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Ive been trying to better myself for over a year so i could have a life worth living for but the more i try the harder everything becomes, first i got fired from my job, than after a year i started being less consistent with the gym and i have already switched 3 schools from 2024 to 2025 and my academics are pretty much unrecoverable (went from vwo to mbo1) and my attendence got me in trouble with the law a couple of times. Ive tried to rope twice because i knew it wouldnt get better but was to much of a pus to get smth lethal so i failed.

i know that even if i achieve something i cant hold it for a long time because im too ND to fit into society and my best option is really just commiting suicide because i feel miserable all the time anyway and it only keeps getting worse, i havent brushed my teeth in like a week i skipped gym again today and i bedrotted all day which i know is fucking loser behaviour but longest i last at living normally is a few weeks untill i fall back into the same pattern.

If anyone has had something like this please give advice on how i get out of it as long ad it isnt the usual "man up" i get from parents and government workers because i tried to man up and that didnt fucking work

Challenge your body. Get into the best shape of your life! Keep pushing until you become:

 

[2026ceI]

ur a retarded tiktokcel who watched fagtis without researching anything dietary, raw meat isn't saving u lil bro u prob don't even know who aajonus vonderplanitz is and u suggested "reading diogenes" while u prob haven't opened up a single one of his books larper

u dont know who ur talking to lil boy, ive been preaching aajonus's teachings since 2023

and of course i havent read any of diogenes books, because he didnt write any, but u can read about his philosophy through anecdotes

kill yourself retard and never question me again

my advice is the best out of anyones in this thread