On dates, do you ever call the girl beautiful or compliment her looks?

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

When i meet a girl, i might make a comment on her outfit if there's something notable or she comments on my outfit.

But i don't give any compliments on her looks, even if she is fire, i just find it cringe.

If the convo leads that way you might mention she has nice eyes or hair etc but only when its relevant to what your talking about, not out of the blue.
I will however always try to shoehorn something about her personality some generic bullshit

Like if she's uptight making fun of her of being stubborn/having a stick up her butt but you like that she's not afraid to stick up for herself and that you're not one of those guys who's afraid of a empowered woman. Can follow up with some bullshit about being a power couple, modern women eat this shit up.

Or if she's quiet or laid back say something about how she's emotionally smart and how so many people these days are narcistic and over compensate because they are unhappy and weak internally. You love that she's comfortable in her own skin etc.

But i never go on about her appearance. I think its best to escalate through your eye contact and touch. Like even holding eye contact like an autist is better than "oh you're sooo beautiful"


Interested to see what other guys think.

 

[Br0sk1]

I think I only ever complimented my landwhale ex's looks to cheer her up.

Other than that, I don't think I've ever said anything to a woman about her looks, at least not in person.

 

[hebbewem]

I don't

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

@Xangsane how many dates have you been on?
What do you comment on their appearance?

 

[Deleted member 20327]

Never. You need to dark triad maxx and make them question themselves at all time. Low self-esteem and confidence for them equals control for you

 

[Vermilioncore]

Only ever had one date with my pure virgin angel sent from God. I said she’s beautiful. We both complimented each other. One of the greatest days of my life. I look back with fondness

 

[Xangsane]

@Xangsane how many dates have you been on?
What do you comment on their appearance?

just a few with my ex-girlfriend. I said she was pretty on the first date, then I started complimenting her personality traits, the way she presented herself, her actions, way of thinking and her individual features as time went by (she was LARPing as HQNP before we became official).

I haven't dated anyone else.

 

[Deleted member 20327]

This is blackpill and PSL basics and you niggers are giving out compliments to foids like it's candy? Wtf

 

[Deleted member 20056]

I usually do it before I lean in for a kiss to gauge the reaction, it's very cringe but it helps me to escalate

 

[Deleted member 17311]

Yeah sometimes but you gotta make it seem natural and suave and not simpy/desperate yk

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Never compliment a hottie. If you know for a fact she's the most seductive you've been with, reverse psychology. Such as, "Ugh. Was your mother in her 50s when she had you?"

If she questions that, for example, "Um. What are you indicating? I'm retarded looking or something?"

"You said it. I would never use such a hateful term in describing your appearance. I see you, people, as a model for bravery. I'm rooting for you!"

If she's fire, she already knows that shit. So reminding her what she already knows is creepy. That's like someone wearing a blue shirt and you say, "Wow! That shirt is blue." Smh.

 

[ItsOVERBuddyBoyos]

Never. You need to dark triad maxx and make them question themselves at all time. Low self-esteem and confidence for them equals control for you

I don't really think of it like negging or trying to bring her down.

its more of a case of act like you've been there before, if she's pretty she's been told that already plenty of times, i feel like it comes across as simpy or cringy.