Once you’re 21+ you can’t meet girls IRL without cold approach

[Deleted member 2854]

It’s either that or tinder, no other options.
HS and college is great because you’ll have social circle game, but once that’s over and you’re adult theres no other way apart from speaking to random women (approaching strangers).

most here are edgy teens who won’t understand this but damn it gets MUCH harder once education years are over

Anyone got any other suggestions?

 

[Deleted member 1140]

cope. u can always meet new friends if ur not autistic and they got girl friends if they are nt

 

[chadpreetinthemaking]

cope. u can always meet new friends if ur not autistic and they got girl friends if they are nt

buflek
faggot

 

[Deleted member 3373]

i really envy zoomers.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

Yup this is correct. That's why looksmaxxing is everything

 

[Feanor]

if you don't have an expansive social circle that will vouch for you meeting anyone for anything is very difficult. i am very lucky that i have some status in several friend groups. it is a great advantage growing up if you have many cousins your age whose social circles compound yours.

 

[fukmylyf]

you can build a social circle outside of school.

 

[Deleted member 2854]

cope. u can always meet new friends if ur not autistic and they got girl friends if they are nt

Where?

 

[Gonthar]

Anyone got any other suggestions?

Besides meeting women at work you could also join various activity clubs and groups and meet people there.

 

[Deleted member 1476]

I am fucked.

 

[Aesthetic]

Where?

teamsport clubs, work, community events etc etc.

Many ways to meet people.

 

[Deleted member 1140]

Where?

everywhere. i always just approach people

 

[Deleted member 2854]

everywhere. i always just approach people

So basically cold approaching / semi-warm

thus proving my point

 

[SMVbender]

lol @ you I had zero social circle in university. I had to daily cold approach or over.

it is harder out of uni but i got dates out of uni when i was a student.

it is what it is.

 

[Deleted member 4209]

 

[Deleted member 2854]

you can build a social circle outside of school.

Its damn hard and you know it. Don’t make it seem like it’s easy when it’s not.
I still have the same main friendship group I’ve had since I was 17 (am late 20s now). It’s very difficult to make meaningful friendships past uni, especially finding a group with hot young girls in it - that’s a 1% chance

 

[Mr_Norwood]

i made a thread recently on how schoolcels and collegecels don't know how good they have it now

 

[rockndogs]

chlorform + basement

 

[Deleted member 2854]

teamsport clubs, work, community events etc etc.

Many ways to meet people.

How many people here are going to join a sports club? Lmao. Be serious

 

[Aesthetic]

How many people here are going to join a sports club? Lmao. Be serious

I meant in the sense of soccer, basketball or any type of fighting sport / martial arts. Not the actual gym

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

I meant in the sense of soccer, basketball or any type of fighting sport / martial arts. Not the actual gym

these will be male dominated
And yeah I pretty much agree OP, honestly id maybe even take it further and say its very hard to meet people via social circle after first year of uni when all the cliques form. Tinder or cold approaching at clubs or daytime it basically all uou can do. You might get randomly lucky and meet a girl via random chance, work, through a mutual friend etc but you just cant rely on these things happening after 21.

 

[Aesthetic]

these will be male dominated

Through male friends, you meet other people and girls jfl.

It would be weird for a random straight guy to join a female-dominated place

 

[LordNorwood]

Church is best way I've found

 

[Effortless]

Cold approaching is stupid.

Only approach if a girl is giving ioi.

 

[LordNorwood]

Through male friends, you meet other people and girls jfl.

It would be weird for a random straight guy to join a female-dominated place

This. You befriend men first and gain status. Then you are "vouched for" to women they know.

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Through male friends, you meet other people and girls jfl.

It would be weird for a random straight guy to join a female-dominated place

i mean to an extent this is true, but I find social circles actually become pretty gender segregated in your 20s as well, the girls that these guys on this sports team or whatever will know will mostly just be their own girlfriends, theyre unlikely to just know a bunch of single girls they can just introduce you to and normally even less willing to help set you up with them, if you want a girl you do actually have to pursue one actively once youre in your 20s, you cant just rely on things happening naturally and organically
just an some examples out of all my friends who have gfs how they met....
-In first year uni accomodation
-On their university course
-In highschool

that's literally the only 3 ways I know of people meeting a gf, like its so hard to meet people organically and nautrally in any other way