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Dude marries his wife, he has 2 kids with her, the wife cheats on him and they get divorced and the wife cuts all contact. Wife doesnt look after the kids. So he becomes a single father, he raises 2 daughters. All of which cut contact with him after getting into college (whoring around and becoming independent)
 
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Hi, I hope everyone is doing well, I have two daughters, one is 28 and the other one is 26.
We were a very happy family, we had no problems as such, me and my ex wife were earning well, we sent our daughters to a good expensive private school, whatever they needed, we provided, there were no such fights or anything, we used to go on vacations, everything seemed perfect, but 11 years ago my ex wife cheated on me and moved out, after 3 months she wanted to reconcile but everyone told me that she will cheat on me again and not to trust her cause in those 3 months she totally cut off contact with me and my daughters, I did wanted her back in my life cause I did love her so much but everyone advised me that she will cheat on me again and it will break me more.
My daughters were 17 and 15 respectively that time. As my ex wife abandoned us, I had to leave my job as I had to be out for like 3 or 4 days in a week, so I had to join a low paying job where I could be home everyday. After my eldest daughter turned 18, she joined Uni, I paid her tuition which was very expensive but I had savings, but in 2 months my daughter like ghosted me, she just cut off all contact with me for no specific reason, like in the beginning I understood that it's her new life and everyone needs time but she just totally cut me off.
I was trying to meet her, contact her but she was not interested at all. My younger daughter was still normal with me, she was angry at her sister because she was not talking to her also, when my younger daughter joined Uni, sadly she did the same thing that she just cut me off from her life.
I went through hell all these years, it was very hard for me, like what was the reason to just cut me off from their life, they did the same thing to me what their own mother did to them.
A few months ago I got to know through someone about my younger daughter living in awful conditions, I went to meet her, she is living in an awful place and sadly she is an addict now and even prostituting herself, it was really heart breaking to see her like this, she was such a bright student and a very happy person who was very kind to everyone. She is not in contact with her sister or her mother.
Now a few days ago I ran into my elder daughter at a store, I was happy to see her after such a long time, she is doing really good for herself, she was happy to see me too, she is married now and has a kid. She said she is not in contact with her younger sister or her mother, I told her what her younger sister is going through, she said she might go and visit her. It's her kids birthday in a few days and she invited me, she said her kid would be happy to see me and get to know me.
I am so confused at the moment, like why they cut off contact with me and abandoned me without any reason in the first place? As a father I did whatever I could for them, I tried to give them the best education, they din't have stress of student loans, I never tried to bother with them anything, I respected their personal space but like they ghosted me for years and never cared to meet once.
What I am supposed to do next? go for her kids birthday? I assume try to be normal and not talk to my daughter that what I did wrong that she cut me off from her life?

TLDR: My 2 daughters cut contact with me and ghosted me when they started their uni, for 10 years I had no contact with them even though I tried from my side, a few days ago I met my elder daughter, she invited me to her daughters birthday, I was really happy to meet her but I am confused that why she cut contact with me and if I was so bad then she would not invite me to her daughters birthday, what I am supposed to do next?
 
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Dude marries his wife, he has 2 kids with her, the wife cheats on him and they get divorced and the wife cuts all contact. Wife doesnt look after the kids. So he becomes a single father, he raises 2 daughters. All of which cut contact with him after getting into college (whoring around and becoming independent)
And at age 28 she took contact back?
 
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Hi, I hope everyone is doing well, I have two daughters, one is 28 and the other one is 26.
We were a very happy family, we had no problems as such, me and my ex wife were earning well, we sent our daughters to a good expensive private school, whatever they needed, we provided, there were no such fights or anything, we used to go on vacations, everything seemed perfect, but 11 years ago my ex wife cheated on me and moved out, after 3 months she wanted to reconcile but everyone told me that she will cheat on me again and not to trust her cause in those 3 months she totally cut off contact with me and my daughters, I did wanted her back in my life cause I did love her so much but everyone advised me that she will cheat on me again and it will break me more.
My daughters were 17 and 15 respectively that time. As my ex wife abandoned us, I had to leave my job as I had to be out for like 3 or 4 days in a week, so I had to join a low paying job where I could be home everyday. After my eldest daughter turned 18, she joined Uni, I paid her tuition which was very expensive but I had savings, but in 2 months my daughter like ghosted me, she just cut off all contact with me for no specific reason, like in the beginning I understood that it's her new life and everyone needs time but she just totally cut me off.
I was trying to meet her, contact her but she was not interested at all. My younger daughter was still normal with me, she was angry at her sister because she was not talking to her also, when my younger daughter joined Uni, sadly she did the same thing that she just cut me off from her life.
I went through hell all these years, it was very hard for me, like what was the reason to just cut me off from their life, they did the same thing to me what their own mother did to them.
A few months ago I got to know through someone about my younger daughter living in awful conditions, I went to meet her, she is living in an awful place and sadly she is an addict now and even prostituting herself, it was really heart breaking to see her like this, she was such a bright student and a very happy person who was very kind to everyone. She is not in contact with her sister or her mother.
Now a few days ago I ran into my elder daughter at a store, I was happy to see her after such a long time, she is doing really good for herself, she was happy to see me too, she is married now and has a kid. She said she is not in contact with her younger sister or her mother, I told her what her younger sister is going through, she said she might go and visit her. It's her kids birthday in a few days and she invited me, she said her kid would be happy to see me and get to know me.
I am so confused at the moment, like why they cut off contact with me and abandoned me without any reason in the first place? As a father I did whatever I could for them, I tried to give them the best education, they din't have stress of student loans, I never tried to bother with them anything, I respected their personal space but like they ghosted me for years and never cared to meet once.
What I am supposed to do next? go for her kids birthday? I assume try to be normal and not talk to my daughter that what I did wrong that she cut me off from her life?

TLDR: My 2 daughters cut contact with me and ghosted me when they started their uni, for 10 years I had no contact with them even though I tried from my side, a few days ago I met my elder daughter, she invited me to her daughters birthday, I was really happy to meet her but I am confused that why she cut contact with me and if I was so bad then she would not invite me to her daughters birthday, what I am supposed to do next?
What a fucking shitfest. I hope the best for the dude and fuck those whores for a daughters.
 
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