"Oneitis" is a mental illness that shouldn't be taken lightly.

[Deleted member 21044]

Many people here talk about "their oneitis" like it's no big deal but you have to remember that feeling such an attachment to one girl that you dismiss all the others is an unhealthy and pathological trait.

Men are biologically designed to impregnate as many women as they can. This is apparent from their low refractory cycle (1 week) compared to women (9 months), who on the other hand seek only the best man possible and dissmiss the other as to not waste this long period with producing suboptimal offspring.

You can see that oneitis is clearly a feminine, estrogenic trait. It is in no way natural for men. High T men are attracted to every girl somewhat equally. There are differences, obviously, but not major. If you're high T you know what i'm talking about. Just the idea of the opposite sex is attractive enough.

I you notice you have a oneitis you should reevaluate your hormonal profile and lifestyle.

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[Deleted member 17872]

People when they fall in love are obsessed with the woman to the point of exclusivity. It usually lasts for few monts to an year. Nothing unusual about it.

But if you have oneitis even after many years, then yeah it's a problem. @Anstrum95

 

[Deleted member 21044]

People when they fall in love are obsessed with the woman to the point of exclusivity. It usually lasts for few monts to an year. Nothing unusual about it.

"Love" doesn't exist. What you're talking about is a pathological attachment that is evolutionarily detrimental and therefore clearly a result of illness.

 

[SecularIslamist]

My oneitis scarred me for life bruh.

I'm over her but I'll never forget. Wish I never saw her.

 

[Deleted member 24593]

Very legit. Never understood how you can be attracted to one girl tbh. I mean there are a lot of beautiful girls around, what's the point of clinging to one?

 

[Deleted member 17872]

"Love" doesn't exist. What you're talking about is a pathological attachment that is evolutionarily detrimental and therefore clearly a result of illness.

Love is the most healthy thing in the world. Not being able to fall in love is a mental illness.

I used to have the same view of love as you but then i fall in love and the world around me changed.

 

[RAITEIII]

My oneitis scarred me for life bruh.

I'm over her but I'll never forget. Wish I never saw her.

What she did?

You muslims are great at plotting smth to mess people up

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Very legit. Never understood how you can be attracted to one girl tbh.

You can't if your mentally healthy.

I mean there are a lot of beautiful girls around, what's the point of clinging to one?

Exactly.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Love is the most healthy thing in the world. Not being able to fall in love is a mental illness.

I used to have the same view of love as you but then i fall in love and the world around me changed.

You're a certified retard. There is zero evidence that such a thing as love exists, nor is there any biological reason for it to exist, nor has it been spotted in any of the millions of other organisms living on hearth.

Love was INVENTED BY INCELS

Love is the epitome of cope. There is no such thing as this abstract idea of "love", it is literally a bluepill coping mechanism invented by ancient incels to delude themselves into thinking they can be desired even if they're sexually unattractive. There is no evolutionary reason for love to...

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Just stop coping, you are mentally ill.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Im low t

 

[SecularIslamist]

What she did?

You muslims are great at plotting smth to mess people up

Nothing. I just romanticised her. Never again. Learnt my lesson. This experi nice made me mor sigma tbh.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Im low t

Fix it nigga.

 

[Deleted member 17997]

Fix it nigga.

But how, well I have already gotten rid of estrogenic sexual thoughts by cutting out goyslop etc. but I still have a oneitis (for 3 years). Maybe I just need to get out more.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Countless rejections have made it that I don’t get oneitis anymore.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

But how, well I have already gotten rid of estrogenic sexual thoughts by cutting out goyslop etc. but I still have a oneitis (for 3 years). Maybe I just need to get out more.

Increase testosterone by semen retention, proper diet, sleep, physical activity, tanning, cold showers etc.

 

[Deleted member 19798]

High iq user

 

[Deleted member 22099]

"Love" doesn't exist. What you're talking about is a pathological attachment that is evolutionarily detrimental and therefore clearly a result of illness.

Love does exist but it's not some magical fairy shit its just your brain chemicals convincing you to reproduce. JFL if you think that being in love is estrogenic just because you never have.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Love does exist but it's not some magical fairy shit its just your brain chemicals convincing you to reproduce. JFL if you think that being in love is estrogenic just because you never have.

I'm not saying it's estrogenic i'm saying it's made up.

What's convincing you to reproduce is sexual attraction, not "love".

 

[Deleted member 22099]

I'm not saying it's estrogenic i'm saying it's made up.

What's convincing you to reproduce is sexual attraction, not "love".

Well it's obviously part of biology but love is very different than lust. It's tender; love isn't wanting to fuck a girl it's when you just want to look after her and lie next to her and hug her and laugh with her.
I don't believe it's destined or whatever but it is special and very different than lust.

 

[BearBoy]

Love is the most healthy thing in the world. Not being able to fall in love is a mental illness.

I used to have the same view of love as you but then i fall in love and the world around me changed.

I can’t fall in love fuck is there something wrong with my head? Maybe it’s because I was dropped as a baby.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

love isn't wanting to fuck a girl it's when you just want to look after her and lie next to her and hug her and laugh with her.

This is mental illness what you're talking aout. No evolutionary benefit, not present in any animals. If you actually feel those things, get your endocrine system in check.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

I can’t fall in love fuck is there something wrong with my head? Maybe it’s because I was dropped as a baby.

No it's natural. What he's tslking about is a hormonal disorder.

 

[Deleted member 3573]

Agree with not having a oneitis but disagree about it being connected to hormonal profile. I think oneitis is different depending on the person too. I developed my oneitis while potentially being at my hormonal best that I've ever been and it still happened. Now I'm comparatively in a worse state and it feels basically impossible for me to get oneitis

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Agree with not having a oneitis but disagree about it being connected to hormonal profile. I think oneitis is different depending on the person too. I developed my oneitis while potentially being at my hormonal best that I've ever been and it still happened. Now I'm comparatively in a worse state and it feels basically impossible for me to get oneitis

There could be developed neural factors as well, but horemones are the major factor.

 

[Deleted member 22099]

This is mental illness what you're talking aout. No evolutionary benefit, not present in any animals. If you actually feel those things, get your endocrine system in check.

Bro what "falling in love is a mental disorder" so the hundreds of millions (maybe billions) of couples on earth that actually choose to be together have a mental illness?
Your parents have a mental illness?
So according to you deadbeat dads are "high T" because they abandon their families and fuck other women?? My dad wasn't around and it's because he's a pussy that couldn't face his problems.
If men are supposed to just fuck as many hoes as possible because they're "high T" does that mean that kids are supposed to grow up without a father?
This is one of the stupidest most autistic threads I have read in a while

 

[Deleted member 16474]

People when they fall in love are obsessed with the woman to the point of exclusivity. It usually lasts for few monts to an year. Nothing unusual about it.

But if you have oneitis even after many years, then yeah it's a problem. @Anstrum95

the problem is not being with her

 

[Deleted member 3573]

There could be developed neural factors as well, but horemones are the major factor.

I think it's more complicated than that in many people. I think science has to go very deep to understand this tbh and even define it properly. Some people here report getting oneitis every few months. That's not true oneitis imo. My definition of oneitis is something that you get only a few times in your life and usually only when you're young and the feelings are very intense. I see it as limerence, lovesickness, etc. Not something that everyone goes through I think tbh.

 

[gribsufer1]

Very legit. Never understood how you can be attracted to one girl tbh. I mean there are a lot of beautiful girls around, what's the point of clinging to one?

i find other women attractive, i just think she is the ideal girl to marry and have children with

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Bro what "falling in love is a mental disorder" so the hundreds of millions (maybe billions) of couples on earth that actually choose to be together have a mental illness?

No, beacause most of these people don't "love" eachother. Just look at the divorce rate. This is simple betabuxx. Men paying women for sex. It's been like this for centuries.

So according to you deadbeat dads are "high T" because they abandon their families and fuck other women??

Yes that's how it worked in nature for millions of years. That's how humans are designed ro live.

If men are supposed to just fuck as many hoes as possible because they're "high T" does that mean that kids are supposed to grow up without a father?

Yes. Young men are meant to socialize with their peers and older men. These men, however, don't have to be bilologically related to them in any way. It literally makes no difference. Male peer group is very important but a father doesn't play a role in it.

 

[Deleted member 21044]

I think it's more complicated than that in many people. I think science has to go very deep to understand this tbh and even define it properly. Some people here report getting oneitis every few months. That's not true oneitis imo. My definition of oneitis is something that you get only a few times in your life and usually only when you're young and the feelings are very intense. I see it as limerence, lovesickness, etc. Not something that everyone goes through I think tbh.

Idk i'd fuck anything.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Should be listed in medical journals as a legit debilitating mental condition

 

[Deleted member 23558]

oneitis is low metabolism trait

 

[Deleted member 3573]

Should be listed in medical journals as a legit debilitating mental condition

I wish we had drug protocols for it tbh. I think it should be seen as a mental illness if you can't get with the person you want. Immediate drugs

 

[Deleted member 22099]

No, beacause most of these people don't "love" eachother. Just look at the divorce rate. This is simple betabuxx. Men paying women for sex. It's been like this for centuries.

Yes that's how it worked in nature for millions of years. That's how humans are designed ro live.

Yes. Young men are meant to socialize with their peers and older men. These men, however, don't have to be bilologically related to them in any way. It literally makes no difference. Male peer group is very important but a father doesn't play a role in it.

Pure autism if you think it's high T to abandon your partner and kids and fuck other women.

Why do you think couples get together in the first place? 99% of the time it is because they fall in love; they feel a connection to each other. Many people feel that connection to that same person until they die, no way that's a mental illness.

If men were supposed to shag around during their adult life then how did long-term partnerships and marriages even come about in the first place?

You said that they aren't seen in nature which is BS many animals mate for life.

 

[Deleted member 13626]

Bro what "falling in love is a mental disorder" so the hundreds of millions (maybe billions) of couples on earth that actually choose to be together have a mental illness?
Your parents have a mental illness?
So according to you deadbeat dads are "high T" because they abandon their families and fuck other women?? My dad wasn't around and it's because he's a pussy that couldn't face his problems.
If men are supposed to just fuck as many hoes as possible because they're "high T" does that mean that kids are supposed to grow up without a father?
This is one of the stupidest most autistic threads I have read in a while

I don't have a oneitis, i had when i was 12 jfl but that doesn't count but your answer is legit

Same guys who want to pump and dump and stuff like that are the same guys who cry for girls that they're Chad only and get pump and dunped and cry that there aren't girls interested in ltr or serious stuff anymore

Just like the guys crying that a girl has a high bodycount but the guys don't have a problen with fuckin her or with hookup culture resulting in higher bodycount jfl at this autism

 

[Deleted member 22099]

Just like the guys crying that a girl has a high bodycount but the guys don't have a problen with fuckin her or with hookup culture resulting in higher bodycount jfl at this autism

Facts.

 

[Deleted member 22780]

Well it's obviously part of biology but love is very different than lust. It's tender; love isn't wanting to fuck a girl it's when you just want to look after her and lie next to her and hug her and laugh with her.
I don't believe it's destined or whatever but it is special and very different than lust.

Cuck

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Pure autism if you think it's high T to abandon your partner and kids and fuck other women.

Yes it literally is. You're delusional.

Marriage lowers testosterone — Harvard Gazette

A man's testosterone levels drop significantly when he holds an infant. Even holding a baby doll can decrease levels of the male virility hormone.

news.harvard.edu

Fatherless sons have more testosterone

That has implications for paternal care

www.economist.com

The 2013 paper, "Testicular volume is inversely correlated with nurturing-related brain activity in human fathers," featured a clear methods section, one worthy of publication in the prestigious Proceedings of the National Academies of Science. (And in case you were wondering, yes, the researchers essentially found that men with bigger balls showed lower levels of parental caregiving.)

If you're a man with high basal testosterone, you're 43 percent more likely to get divorced than men with low testosterone levels.

Why do you think couples get together in the first place? 99% of the time it is because they fall in love; they feel a connection to each other. Many people feel that connection to that same person until they die, no way that's a mental illness.

JFL you're a cuck. I've never seen this level of bluepill on here.

If men were supposed to shag around during their adult life then how did long-term partnerships and marriages even come about in the first place?

Decrease of overall testosterone.

You said that they aren't seen in nature which is BS many animals mate for life.

Not many but there are examples. This behavior is not natural to humans tho. It only develops in animals with very low population density, where it's beneficial. Humans are the exact opposite.

 

[Deleted member 22099]

JFL you're a cuck. I've never seen this level of bluepill on here.

"You're a bluepilled cuck if you have had an emotional connection with a girl"

Cba with this shit man im not replying anymore

 

[Deleted member 21735]

liking women as a ugly male is a mental illness and you have to fight it

 

[Deleted member 21044]

"You're a bluepilled cuck if you have had an emotional connection with a girl"

It's true. Increase T asap.

 

[Deleted member 22099]

It's true. Increase T asap.

Well according to you I should have insane T levels because my dad left

 

[Deleted member 21044]

Well according to you I should have insane T levels because my dad left

Bruh. Fr tho check your hormones.

 

[RAITEIII]

On the love stage I wank thinking of her sucking my dick and cumming and then kissing