Oneitis is legit killing me mentally

[Deleted member 39]

I've had a crush on this girl for 3 years and always told myself I'll talk to her soon. Now I'm here. I'll only see her one more time which is on graduation party. I'm so high inhib but I need to approach her otherwise I'll regret it my whole life.
Rejection is better than regret.
I've never had a crush on another girl. I don't find any girl even nearly as nice as her.
I know that I HAVE to approach. I internalized the approach or die regretting mindset weeks ago. I couldn't sleep properly the past days because of this. I can't get her out of my head. I have a huge conversation anxiety but I still need to overcome to be free from regret in the future.

I had to see her today and yesterday and I felt depressed as fuck.
Yesterday we had a party and we danced basically. Since I'm usually quiet she laughed at me when I started dancing. A few minutes later she walked away (I was next to her the entire time) which felt like a rejection basically. Today I was sitting two rows behind her when we were listening to a speech and her friend who sat next to her turned around and waved at me. My oneitis however didn't look at me even ONCE. I wanted her to recognize me so bad.
I walked past her a few times and she didn't look at me. Now I basically know she doesn't like me but I still want the 100% clarity by approaching her.
This has been mentally setting me in a depression mood the past days, it's mentally suffocating me.

No matter how much I read about the blackpill, no matter how much I read the rational male, I can't stop seeing her as the perfect woman that I'd want in my life.
It's not that simple to hack the brain unfortunately.

 

[fobos]

din red but op drinks semen

 

[pisslord]

didnt red but oneitis is a cuck trait

 

[Sizzurp]

Dont cuck around.

 

[RichardSpencel]

Din red but did actually red.

@blackopstruecel thoughts?

 

[Ritalincel]

cuck

 

[itsoverbuddyboyo]

bro just dance for her bro.

 

[pisslord]

even my mom said to me to forget about oneitis

 

[Ritalincel]

bro just

 

[itsoverbuddyboyo]

 

[Deleted member 39]

I know it sounds cucked. I try so hard to not have a oneitis boyos. It's impossible. My feelings come back whenever I see her. She seems too perfect, my blackpill mindset just disappears. That's what female beauty and cuteness does to me. I will have to get my rejection in order to get rid of my oneitis.

I wanted to approach today but didn't.
Now I hate myself because I regret it. If I just got rejected I'd feel proud because I'd have overcome my anxiety and curiosity.

I knew I will only get "cuck" responses but I still needed to clear my head. I have nobody to talk to about my thoughts and feelings. I needed to vent because it legit has been suffocating me the past days.

 

[DoctorPMA]

Rejection is better than regret.

I can relate to your story. Dont worry too much about looks. I think looks are a big thing but I dont think its absolutely everything. Even if you get hard core rejected it will be better than thinking years from now debating as to what would have happened.

 

[Deleted member 1560]

Dw bro I am with you. I am also gonna get rejected this December when I meet my oneitis after 2 years. Keep crying for me. I probably won't ask her out and reject and become twisted

 

[fukmylyf]

bRO...

I promised myself I would never do this but I think I'm getting oneitis again. Fuark just fuark. . I'm legit trying to stalk her right now but IG is down. God help me tbh

 

[Deleted member 39]

I can relate to your story. Dont worry too much about looks. I think looks are a big thing but I dont think its absolutely everything. Even if you get hard core rejected it will be better than thinking years from now debating as to what would have happened.

Thanks man. I will reread your response tomorrow when I'm about to talk to her. I need to fucking do it or the "what if" question will haunt me till death.

 

[Insomniac]

Fap those feelings away

Don’t be a cuck

 

[Deleted member 39]

Fap those feelings away

Don’t be a cuck

Fapping makes me too high inhib to approach. I will fap it away if I fail to overcome my social anxiety tomorrow.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Get super drunk and then you may possibly have the balls to approach to her. I approached a random girl and got jailed for it one time but that is a different story. If you’re under 18, get super wasted and approach her with no risk of getting done for supposed ‘harassment’.

 

[Mansnob]

Get super drunk and then you may possibly have the balls to approach to her. I approached a random girl and got jailed for it one time but that is a different story. If you’re under 18, get super wasted and approach her with no risk of getting done for supposed ‘harassment’.

XD

 

[BrettyBoy]

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[Mansnob]

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[LegendOfIncel]

JFL at having an oneitis in 2019

 

[SikKunt]

I know it sounds cucked. I try so hard to not have a oneitis boyos. It's impossible. My feelings come back whenever I see her. She seems too perfect, my blackpill mindset just disappears. That's what female beauty and cuteness does to me. I will have to get my rejection in order to get rid of my oneitis.

I wanted to approach today but didn't.
Now I hate myself because I regret it. If I just got rejected I'd feel proud because I'd have overcome my anxiety and curiosity.

I knew I will only get "cuck" responses but I still needed to clear my head. I have nobody to talk to about my thoughts and feelings. I needed to vent because it legit has been suffocating me the past days.

show me ur oneitis bro wanna see what's so perfect

 

[LegendOfIncel]

dinred

 

[nausea]

I've had a crush on this girl for 3 years

stopped readin

 

[Ritalincel]

Fuark just fuark.

 

[Deleted member 39]

Update: I didn't approach her. Was literally staring at her the whole time and she didn't look at me even once. I later talked to a friend of her and the friend told me that my oneitis is in reality very superficial and picky which destroyed my crush on her tbh. I feel liberated now.

 

[BrettyBoy]

Update: I didn't approach her. Was literally staring at her the whole time and she didn't look at me even once. I later talked to a friend of her and the friend told me that my oneitis is in reality very superficial and picky which destroyed my crush on her tbh. I feel liberated now.

Most girls are bitches.

 

[Deleted member 1546]

didnt red but oneitis is a cuck trait