ONLINE DATING HAS RUINED THE LIVES OF MEN IN THE WEST!

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Before online dating, girls could only meet guys at work, school, or at the bars. They didn't have as many options. Nowadays if you meet a girl, you have to deal with the fact that she is already talking with so many guys on dating apps. They have so many options, even an average girl.

Nowadays, it feels like getting a GF is like a war. She can flake or leave at any time. As a man you have to do massive amounts of jestermaxxing to keep a gf or even slay.

I told myself something today: I'm no longer a slayer. I'm a jestermaxxer.

Online dating makes me feel bad about myself
Online dating makes me feel theres something wrong with me to be constantly flaked and ghosted
Online dating makes me feel hopeless of ever find an LTR
Online dating made me feel so insecure about myself. Every time a girl flaked it ruined my day - I would ask myself, "Is it because Im not white enough?" "Is it because Im just a HTN?

OLD has done more harm than good in my life.

I grew up as a kid so scared and shy to talk to girls. I used to tremble and look at the ground when walking by girls. I was a MTN. I worked so hard on my SMV because I told myself I never wanted to go through what I went through in high school again. I wanted to be the cool jock that all the girls talk about.

Despite all my work, I am still just treated like a trash bag by all these girls. It feels they dont care about me or anything Ive went through in my life.

Im feeling really bad today.



@Amnesia @JOJOcelReturns @zharupodrugu @castizo @thereallegend @EverythingMattersCel @Chadethnic101
 
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I have just given up on dating entirely
 
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I'm so sick of feeling like some door to door salesmen jestermaxxing for girls below my looks level all just to get flaked and ghosted
 
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And the worst part is that nothing will be done about it in the foreseeable future.
 
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Is it just me or do all guys go through this?
 
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I know that feeling, but with my looksmatch.

I'm so sick of feeling like some door to door salesmen jestermaxxing for girls below my looks level all just to get flaked and ghosted
 
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And the worst part is that nothing will be done about it in the foreseeable future.
The only solution is to geomax
 
not west just everywhere
 
I don't want to feel lonely anymore. I just want a nice feminine girl to come home to and spend time with. None of the women I meet on dating apps are feminine. They are masculine and entitled.
 
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not west just everywhere
In poorer countries dating is easier bc OLD is less prevalent and there are less Chads so the only solution is geomaxxing
 
The only solution is to geomax
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I'm so sick of feeling like some door to door salesmen jestermaxxing for girls below my looks level all just to get flaked and ghosted
Yes, my hopes where gone when I realized that even a ugly sub 5 girl have htn+ that are 6 " 5 with good bodies that wanna dumpster dive them
 
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Simple solution: Don't use dating apps and don't date girls.

Dating nowadays is a job interview where a woman dates multiple guys to decide who can be the best cuck and provider for the purpose of emotional comfort, tax and bill breakdown and entertaining her NT brain that doesn't want to be alone. That's literally everything.

Modern relationships and girlfriends are NT men's cope. It's a cope for men who don't want to be alone. So, they are ready to be laughed at, cheated on and made fun of online and in the front of other guys, while not being taken serious and having to provide in one way or another without even getting sex. They do this, because they are ready to do anything in order to not be alone.

Monogamy and committed relationship don't exist nowadays. Committed relationships are only committed in Bluepill men's fantasy.
 
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I don't want to feel lonely anymore. I just want a nice feminine girl to come home to and spend time with. None of the women I meet on dating apps are feminine. They are masculine and entitled.
It's so impossible nowdays, even at my uni girls are already in relationships so neither online dating nor cold approaching will save me. I feel like im competing with tons of guys for 1 girl
 
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Simple solution: Don't use dating apps and don't date girls.

Dating nowadays is a job interview where a woman dates multiple guys to decide who can be the best cuck and provider for the purpose of emotional comfort, tax and bill breakdown and entertaining her NT brain that doesn't want to be alone. That's literally everything.

Modern relationships and girlfriends are NT men's cope. It's a cope for men who don't want to be alone. So, they are ready to be laughed at, cheated on and made fun of online and in the front of other guys, while not being taken serious and having to provide in one way or another without even getting sex. They do this, because they are ready to do anything in order to not be alone.

Monogamy and committed relationship don't exist nowadays. Committed relationships are only committed in Bluepill men's fantasy.
This is so true every LTR in the west is gynocentric and focuses on the needs of the girl not the guy. So the two options is to either do massive amounts of jestermaxxing or not date. Can I dm you?
 
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This is so true every LTR in the west is gynocentric and focuses on the needs of the girl not the guy. So the two options is to either do massive amounts of jestermaxxing or not date. Can I dm you?
Yes, you can DM me.

Also, watch the videos in this thread to see what causes the issues:


Also, see this video:

 
Online dating is dead.
Source: Trust me
 
Before online dating, girls could only meet guys at work, school, or at the bars. They didn't have as many options. Nowadays if you meet a girl, you have to deal with the fact that she is already talking with so many guys on dating apps. They have so many options, even an average girl.

Nowadays, it feels like getting a GF is like a war. She can flake or leave at any time. As a man you have to do massive amounts of jestermaxxing to keep a gf or even slay.

I told myself something today: I'm no longer a slayer. I'm a jestermaxxer.

Online dating makes me feel bad about myself
Online dating makes me feel theres something wrong with me to be constantly flaked and ghosted
Online dating makes me feel hopeless of ever find an LTR
Online dating made me feel so insecure about myself. Every time a girl flaked it ruined my day - I would ask myself, "Is it because Im not white enough?" "Is it because Im just a HTN?

OLD has done more harm than good in my life.

I grew up as a kid so scared and shy to talk to girls. I used to tremble and look at the ground when walking by girls. I was a MTN. I worked so hard on my SMV because I told myself I never wanted to go through what I went through in high school again. I wanted to be the cool jock that all the girls talk about.

Despite all my work, I am still just treated like a trash bag by all these girls. It feels they dont care about me or anything Ive went through in my life.

Im feeling really bad today.



@Amnesia @JOJOcelReturns @zharupodrugu @castizo @thereallegend @EverythingMattersCel @Chadethnic101
just be beautiful
 
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A girl I have snapped with for some time and basically had a parasocial relationship with and after date the day before yesterday she ghosted me. But tbf I was drunk af and can't remember shit so maybe it was me too Idk. But women have ghosted and flaked sober too
 
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They don't. Your messages are nothing to them, just fuel to their huge ego
So when you see couples in public do they care about their bf?
 
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So when you see couples in public do they care about their bf?
the thing is you are not bf. U just a random dude from dating apps. You whole purpose is to give her validation without meeting
 
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Online dating is up and running, and it works perfectly fine for chad-lites+, but for everyone else its like 10 guys on one cheese burger
 
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Online dating is up and running, and it works perfectly fine for chad-lites+, but for everyone else its like 10 guys on one cheese burger
Chadlite is like top 1-2% bro it’s not realistic for most guys. Most of us can only become HTN
 
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rs. It's unfair how even ltb's can pull whenever they wanted to, but a man has to be at the very least a htn-chadlite to get out of the friendzone
 
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Chadlite is like top 1-2% bro it’s not realistic for most guys. Most of us can only become HTN
Yes but for most guys it's not possible to get sex easily or long-term a hot girl. Most guys need to wait to the flesh is gone from the bone and then betabux untill death takes him away. Sex is for the Chad-lite+, else you need to work for it like abused dog but still be casted in to the shadows of mount dome inte the fire where ashes shall have your broken body.
 
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Yes but for most guys it's not possible to get sex easily or long-term a hot girl. Most guys need to wait to the flesh is gone from the bone and then betabux untill death takes him away. Sex is for the Chad-lite+, else you need to work for it like abused dog but still be casted in to the shadows of mount dome inte the fire where ashes shall have your broken body.
Htn isn’t enough
 
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What changed?
People got bored of it. It's ostracized. People get shamed from being on it which dissuades the higher value girls. Hot girls use it to get IG followers or to go on an expensive date for free. They might check it and match with some chads ofc. Mostly low value girls on it which turns a lotta guys away. Lotta frauding on both sides. Somewhat dangerous in multiple ways
 
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Finding a girl thats not already talking 10 other guys or doesn't have 30 bodies is soo hard in this day and age..
 
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Htn isn’t enough
No, it was but girls understand there options better now. And they will understand them even better with time. It's is literally over for the west, it is just luck if you find a girl delusional enough to not understand her privilege in this society. As a male you are worth saw dust and should be used for the campfire to warm her kittens she bought with your money.
 
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Online dating is up and running, and it works perfectly fine for chad-lites+, but for everyone else its like 10 guys on one cheese burger
how do u know? are u chadlite? Chadfishes mean nothing. You still get compliments and thirsty messages, but when it comes to setting up a date, they flake.
 
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People got bored of it. It's ostracized. People get shamed from being on it which dissuades the higher value girls. Hot girls use it to get IG followers or to go on an expensive date for free. They might check it and match with some chads ofc. Mostly low value girls on it which turns a lotta guys away. Lotta frauding on both sides. Somewhat dangerous in multiple ways
That is just coping, girls do use it but there standard have just went up because of lookmaxxing spreading and they have also understood more with time that there options are limitless.
 
how do u know? are u chadlite? Chadfishes mean nothing. You still get compliments and thirsty messages, but when it comes to setting up a date, they flake.
Really?
 
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True, just don’t online date
 
how do u know? are u chadlite? Chadfishes mean nothing. You still get compliments and thirsty messages, but when it comes to setting up a date, they flake.
Chad fishes don't succeed because s real Chad will just send his number and FaceTime the girl directly because he knows that his face will make her cum on facecam with him. Chad fishes don't work because Chad would never hide behind messages like a truecel jestermaxxing betabux cuck
 
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Chad fishes don't succeed because s real Chad will just send his number and FaceTime the girl directly because he knows that his face will make her cum on facecam with him. Chad fishes don't work because Chad would never hide behind messages like a truecel jestermaxxing betabux cuck
unless u are chad urself u dont know shit
 
unless u are chad urself u dont know shit
If I were Chad I wouldn't be here ofc. But I have friends who are chad-lite at least and I have meet chads and socialised with them. And they always know they are good looking are direct with girls, much more open to face caming and being open with girls because of there awesome face cards. Ofc there are some autistic chads out there who can't socialise for shit and thats probably why Chad fishes does so bad. A real confident Chad(or even Chad lite) will use facetime a lot and are direct when messaging girls on tinder or any other social media( chads use insta a lot too, and every girl has insta too). Chad fishes are just autistic rets behind screens which even shows from there messages.
 
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If I were Chad I wouldn't be here ofc. But I have friends who are chad-lite at least and I have meet chads and socialised with them. And they always know they are good looking are direct with girls, much more open to face caming and being open with girls because of there awesome face cards. Ofc there are some autistic chads out there who can't socialise for shit and thats probably why Chad fishes does so bad. A real confident Chad(or even Chad lite) will use facetime a lot and are direct when messaging girls on tinder or any other social media( chads use insta a lot too, and every girl has insta too). Chad fishes are just autistic rets behind screens which even shows from there messages.
How is their dating lives?
 
How is their dating lives?
I would describe it as swift and mysterious, things are going so fast. When you are out clubbing with them they will just suddenly leave with a HTB+ and the next day they will be like nothing happened, they might casually facetime them when there hair look like shit and still be wanted for a second meet up which they usually decline if it's not a extremely good looking HTB+. And if they are the ltr kind of chads they will just have a HTB+ relationship and if it ends for some reason they will have a new HTB+ in 1 week without anyone even noticing. That's the thing with chad-lite+, they have so many options that they almost get tired of it most of the time and that is why they end up douchy and becomes bad guys because they are allowed to. Girls are just a game to them really. Just like most girls think about most guys nowadays probably.
 
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How is their dating lives?
But there was one clear exception tho, a guy who was chad-lite whom I knew. He literally had so many girls crushing on him and making it so obv that they liked him. But this stupid as Chad-lite was trying to get this insanely good looking Stacie who was even older then him. And he literally simped for her for two years, and she chucked him. His self confidence must have became so rekt because after that he literally stopped trying with girls, and he also started balding. He is still htn+ but he also bloated up so now he probably closer to MTN+, but you can literally still see his bone potential thru the bloatness if you are autistic enough like me.( And it was mostly because of his squarish Aryan looking face that girls thirsted after him) But yeah that story was actually sad because he had so much potential. And it also showed me that being a bit mentally strong is needed even for Chad-lite. If he was Chad he would probably have gotten the Stacie and wouldnt have been crushed.
 
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If you masturbated you would not get angry that you dont get pussy

Just hire a sex worker , fuck the shit out of her
You will not care about getting pussy etc....

Fuck the shit out of a sex worker and boom you can talk normally to a girl, you dont care about her
 
If you masturbated you would not get angry that you dont get pussy

Just hire a sex worker , fuck the shit out of her
You will not care about getting pussy etc....

Fuck the shit out of a sex worker and boom you can talk normally to a girl, you dont care about her
You frustration is caused by a lack of FUCKING

You talk to a woman, you get mad.....

Go fuck the shit out of a sex worker or if you are more like a beta ..... go masturbatr

And go talk to womans or other animald Nigga
 

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