Online dating is brutal

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Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
 
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Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
For real it’s suifuel. At least you got a date out of it
 
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yep they have way more options than we do, i only hop on tinder from time to time to see how much likes i get
 
If you are above 6 1 it’s chilling
 
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Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
Online is better than IRL especially if u dont go college or some place with a bunch of foids, or u dont have a social group.

Dating apps are brutal in that a lot of people block and shit. But honestly u just need to swipe and just redirect them to ur insta or snap, and ask them if they are down to fuck, and have good photos up. U will get a bunch of No's but u will get a yes eventually even if ur a mtn if ur photos r good enough.

If ur looking for a ltr online though ur fucking hilarious bro :lul:
 
Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
you didn't have her number at any point? like you just planned the dates through the apps? girls usually ask for my number or insta thats weird
 
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you didn't have her number at any point? like you just planned the dates through the apps? girls usually ask for my number or insta thats weird
Na we exchanged numbers, the fact that she randomly unmatched and didn't reply to my most recent text means it's over.

I'm not gonna double text cause it looks desperate.
 
Na we exchanged numbers, the fact that she randomly unmatched and didn't reply to my most recent text means it's over.

I'm not gonna double text cause it looks desperate.
ahh okay that makes sense. what app was it? if it was hinge it means she unmatched you because it only lets you talk to so many guys and she probs just wanted to talk to more
 
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Online is better than IRL especially if u dont go college or some place with a bunch of foids, or u dont have a social group.

Dating apps are brutal in that a lot of people block and shit. But honestly u just need to swipe and just redirect them to ur insta or snap, and ask them if they are down to fuck, and have good photos up. U will get a bunch of No's but u will get a yes eventually even if ur a mtn if ur photos r good enough.

If ur looking for a ltr online though ur fucking hilarious bro :lul:
I'm at uni bro but I live far away so haven't joined any societies yet, gonna move closer and start doing that next semester.

Mostly trying old cause it's summer and I'm bored.
 
I'm at uni bro but I live far away so haven't joined any societies yet, gonna move closer and start doing that next semester.

Mostly trying old cause it's summer and I'm bored.
Have u tried hinge? Mind sending what photos u use in dms too? I can help u out lol. Im literally like a HMTN and if I wanted to could get layed pretty easily ive ran experiments on ts lol.
 
Have u tried hinge? Mind sending what photos u use in dms too? I can help u out lol. Im literally like a HMTN and if I wanted to could get layed pretty easily ive ran experiments on ts lol.
Na it's good bro thanks. Ngl I'm looking for ltr, ik its pure cope but if I wanted to just get layed I'd go clubbing over the weekend (nightlife is always great in the UK)
 
yep they have way more options than we do, i only hop on tinder from time to time to see how much likes i get
Yeah the likes on tinder fuels muh dopamine
 
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Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
This is how it is man


Western women are impossible. 🙅
 
Na it's good bro thanks. Ngl I'm looking for ltr, ik its pure cope but if I wanted to just get layed I'd go clubbing over the weekend (nightlife is always great in the UK)
nightlife is so shit in the UK and is hypergamy hell. Dating apps mog so hard for me. Maybe thats cuz i just turned 19 though and I just have 0 interest in night life it seems so fucking boring and performative.
 
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nightlife is so shit in the UK and is hypergamy hell. Dating apps mog so hard for me. Maybe thats cuz i just turned 19 though and I just have 0 interest in night life it seems so fucking boring and performative.
Na I agree completely. I don't do it regularly, only when I'm really bored. But drinking does give you a confidence boost + women are more receptive to you when drunk. Just don't expect a ltr out of it haha
 
Na I agree completely. I don't do it regularly, only when I'm really bored. But drinking does give you a confidence boost + women are more receptive to you when drunk. Just don't expect a ltr out of it haha
idk why u value LTRs so much theyre not gonna fill the void u have if anything most fags just cut off their friends and think they won at life for an LTR that will only last like 2 years.
 
idk why u value LTRs so much theyre not gonna fill the void u have if anything most fags just cut off their friends and think they won at life for an LTR that will only last like 2 years.
Hopium ig
 
Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
dating is a zero sum game, meaning that you either get all the girls or you get none.

Theres no such thing as getting lucky once in a while and finding a girl that likes you, girls dont operate like that. The only exception would be a 37+ year old women who is desperate to find anyone to fertilize her before her last egg expires, but she will divorce that guy a few years later anyways
 
Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest
i have never made out with a girl
 
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Been trying online dating for a few weeks, mostly dead ends until I matched with this woman with similar interests to me and we hit if off almost instantly.

Went on 2 irl dates, kissed both times and was looking promising (said she wanted a serious relationship with me) until she randomly unmatched me without any indication of losing interest.

I think she was dating other guys at the same time and I lost out to someone with better looks. (I'm gymaxxed but mtn)

Fucking brutal man :(
fraud your height or sum shi, dating sites are the pinnacal of hookup culture and the majoritive are foids so dont expect anything major unless your atleast 6'2 hmtn
 
If you are above 6 1 it’s chilling
Um... I wouldn't say that. So many stories I read about other guys my height and above aren't successful at all with women. Some got so desperate, they broke the law and tried screwing children. Thankfully, today, they're either in prison, jail, a homeless shelter, or dead.
 
Um... I wouldn't say that. So many stories I read about other guys my height and above aren't successful at all with women. Some got so desperate, they broke the law and tried screwing children. Thankfully, today, they're either in prison, jail, a homeless shelter, or dead.
Well you can’t do everything at 6 6 1 or 6 2 but you can still get chicks
 
Well you can’t do everything at 6 6 1 or 6 2 but you can still get chicks
i would advise guys taller than me to suck dick and get fucked in their faggot asses and leave the women alone
 

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