Define looksmatch. Face only or all around.
all around
Define locationcel with example pls
no shit, op is just coping. my looksmatch wants abosultey nothing to do with me
when did anstrum ascend?
location means living in a rural area with no options. Logistics would be being out of school and not working with any hot girls. Basically having no easy options and having to rely on online or cold approach
- autism
Those would result in not having any presence. Those things make you passive and ineffectual.
dude this not the 1900s anymore you cant just go up to your look match and ask her out jfl wouldn't work anymore
file that away under presence/assertiveness
No all the time. Many socially maladjusted people are not passive but in fact are very outgoing but hardly self aware
That's me, over? I also lack charisma.
You can be pleasant with good social skills, but it won't get you laid. You have to push boundaries and escalate things.
it's pretty bad
OK? But being assertive and pushing boundaries with bad social skills is a recipe for humiliation. So no it isn't just about lack of assertiveness
not stressing out about bad reactions is key to getting laid
It's okay, bro. At least you can monkmaxx.
Chad doesnt have a looksmatch. He mogs every woman.
Uh no reading the room is. If you can't read a woman and "assert" yourself repeatedly you just put yourself in a creep category. Yes I agree you shouldn't just wait for her to make moves but you need to also learn how to read people, not just act on impulse
What about social deficiencies?
I don't think that's your problem
presence/assertiveness
0 rebuttal ass nigga
Explain what you mean by this specifically, how does one who has presence/assertiveness act? an example..
Aka confidence: nice voice tone, quick answers, right questions, flirty, NT body language. @Aladin
Isn’t weak conversational skills a sign of social deficiency?
It sounds the most bullshit one. I guess if ur parents immigrated to a bs country where ur a minority is the only valid excuse
Is he mentally ill or something
presence means how much social pressure you exert on the environment versus how much the environment affects you. If you're quiet, low energy, placating, afraid of looking bad, you have low presence.
yea he is very good looking, the gook is so lucky to have him
Fuck that's basically me. Over. I have the 2nd and 3rd points, not the ifrst because i am self-aware enough to know i'm subhuman.
if it inhibs your ability to affect people, but lol at thinking good convo in itself matters for women
It does
I’m not sure how good it has to be, but I screw it up immediately. Get frozen.
I think there's a confidence aspect to it, but also a physiological component. You need to just have energy. If you're generally tired, depressed or stressed, it's hard to have presence.
"just have energy", how? that's what i'm saying, you're stating a bunch of things but not really mentioning how to do/acquire those things.
The words that come out of your mouth barely matter. It's obviously the most about looks, but after that comes the force and conviction you talk with. Then in a distant third maybe comes what youre actually saying.
because there probably isnt a way to acquire them. You either have the right neurochemistry/socialization or not
Those things don’t happen in real life, I only hear these things on obscure forums.
no one caresI correctly appraise my own looks as subhuman truecel.
I desire stacy JB virgin anyways.
Is what it is. Can't stop me.
