Only Socialising AFTER Ascending?

[boxing-cel]

Is it a bad idea to only try to put yourself there once you’ve fully looksmaxxed?

I mean a true 9-10% body fat, jacked, style and hair and beard and skin, maybe frauding etc. softmaxxed fully.

I don’t mean not talking to anyone you’d still do work related stuff and basic conversations, but only actively socialising and tryna make friends when you’ve basically done 90% of what you can do in terms of looks.

 

[Bryce]

No nigger just be normal

 

[Navity]

boxing-cel​

6’2 Combat-maxxed MTN​

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Is it a bad idea to only try to put yourself there once you’ve fully looksmaxxed?

I mean a true 9-10% body fat, jacked, style and hair and beard and skin, maybe frauding etc. softmaxxed fully.

I don’t mean not talking to anyone you’d still do work related stuff and basic conversations, but only actively socialising and tryna make friends when you’ve basically done 90% of what you can do in terms of looks.

just be a normal guy ngr

 

[rares54]

Im tired of adding bitches on quickadd and having to tryhard

Im just gonna wait until ive ascended tbh

 

[sarmatian]

I'll retreat once I ascend

 

[Markomaxxer]

Bad idea, a really bad one, there is no benefit of limiting yourself to social interactions, go out there you litterary have a girl asking you out on dates.
This is a really bad mentality, please read this with a rational mindset, i understand that you are probably shy and not skilled socially.

 

[boxing-cel]

Bad idea, a really bad one, there is no benefit of limiting yourself to social interactions, go out there you litterary have a girl asking you out on dates.
This is a really bad mentality, please read this with a rational mindset, i understand that you are probably shy and not skilled socially.

can I message you privately?

 

[boxing-cel]

Im tired of adding bitches on quickadd and having to tryhard

Im just gonna wait until ive ascended tbh

I tried jester maxxxing and they looked at me weird. Tbh this was when I was 25% bf and shit style and was lowkey ugly but idk if I wanna even try

 

[rares54]

I tried jester maxxxing and they looked at me weird. Tbh this was when I was 25% bf and shit style and was lowkey ugly but idk if I wanna even try

i get what u mean

i jestermaxxed when i was lmtn, worked sometimes

 

[boxing-cel]

i get what u mean

i jestermaxxed when i was lmtn, worked sometimes

I think I’m HMTN SMV wise cuz of height and physique halo but it’s useless cuz I don’t talk to girls ever

 

[rares54]

I think I’m HMTN SMV wise cuz of height and physique halo but it’s useless cuz I don’t talk to girls ever

u could probably pull ltb with a nice body

but hypergamy is crazy nowadays

these bitches only want chadlite+

 

[boxing-cel]

u could probably pull ltb with a nice body

but hypergamy is crazy nowadays

these bitches only want chadlite+

I had a thin LTB aggressively pursue me and basically invite me for sex if it counts but I’m white MTB+ only

 

[ldaritsover]

Is it a bad idea to only try to put yourself there once you’ve fully looksmaxxed?

I mean a true 9-10% body fat, jacked, style and hair and beard and skin, maybe frauding etc. softmaxxed fully.

I don’t mean not talking to anyone you’d still do work related stuff and basic conversations, but only actively socialising and tryna make friends when you’ve basically done 90% of what you can do in terms of looks.

no don't your not gonna be able to socialise lol

 

[boxing-cel]

no don't your not gonna be able to socialise lol

I’m not saying to abandon socialising. Just the bare minimum to retain some friends or social skills till you ascend?

 

[Rylie]

no don't your not gonna be able to socialise lol

Doesn’t even matter you’re actions will be viewed differently based on how you look (water)

Even if you can barley say a sentence you will be treated with respect.

@boxing-cel just don’t ldar in you’re room you don’t have to be very social.

 

[ldaritsover]

I’m not saying to abandon socialising. Just the bare minimum to retain some friends or social skills till you ascend?

u still kinda have to talk to girls to know what to say and not. trust me from experience- use a girl u don't really like yk and then leave when u know how girls work

 

[boxing-cel]

Doesn’t even matter you’re actions will be viewed differently based on how you look (water)

Even if you can barley say a sentence you will be treated with respect.

YES LOL you get it

you’ll be seen as dark triad and mysterious if ur hot and shy and u being nervous or unskilled will be seen as you being quiet and magnetic or smth

 

[boxing-cel]

u still kinda have to talk to girls to know what to say and not. trust me from experience- use a girl u don't really like yk and then leave when u know how girls work

Oh I guess but that feels evil

 

[LTNdravid]

u still kinda have to talk to girls to know what to say and not. trust me from experience- use a girl u don't really like yk and then leave when u know how girls work

Nga ur only experience is me

 

[ldaritsover]

Nga ur only experience is me

Doesn’t even matter you’re actions will be viewed differently based on how you look (water)

Even if you can barley say a sentence you will be treated with respect.

@boxing-cel just don’t ldar in you’re room you don’t have to be very social.

u are right to a certain point. obviously at first glance all you need is the looks, but you can't turn out to not be able to talk to girls or say the wrong thing cause they will leave trust me, esp if they are htb

 

[boxing-cel]

u are right to a certain point. obviously at first glance all you need is the looks, but you can't turn out to not be able to talk to girls or say the wrong thing cause they will leave trust me, esp if they are htb

I mean I lowkey can speak to girls without any major issues cuz I have some basic experience? So is that enough to save me till I ascend. Idk

 

[ldaritsover]

I mean I lowkey can speak to girls without any major issues cuz I have some basic experience? So is that enough to save me till I ascend. Idk

i mean yeah sure, don't hit on girls maybe if ur sure u have experience

 

[boxing-cel]

i mean yeah sure, don't hit on girls maybe if ur sure u have experience

Wdym

 

[LTNdravid]

Wdym

Dont listen to her shes a girl

 

[o_Owtf]

Ugly people have friends too

 

[ldaritsover]

Wdym

damn i worded that wrong sorry. if ur sure u do have atleast a little experience with girls i would say u dont need to like talk to them and shit

 

[ldaritsover]

Dont listen to her shes a girl

what?

 

[boxing-cel]

damn i worded that wrong sorry. if ur sure u do have atleast a little experience with girls i would say u dont need to like talk to them and shit

When do I know I’m ready to start talking to them and meet their threshold? Any signs?

 

[ldaritsover]

When do I know I’m ready to start talking to them and meet their threshold? Any signs?

when they make eye contact with you, if u feel like u see any subtle signs they prob like u because girls don't usually make the first step. my tip is go on omegle and see how they react to u

 

[LTNdravid]

When do I know I’m ready to start talking to them and meet their threshold? Any signs?

Over if they dont approach u first bud

 

[ldaritsover]

Over if they dont approach u first bud

not true btw no girl make the first move... women are submissive.

 

[LTNdravid]

not true btw no girl make the first move... women are submissive.

U did to me

 

[ldaritsover]

U did to me

what the fuck are u talking about like genuinely

 

[LTNdravid]

what the fuck are u talking about like genuinely

Why u acting like u dont know me bru

 

[Foreverbrad]

Depends on starting point.

If socialising prior to ascension is going to create a negative feedback loop turning you into an increasingly abused dog there is very little point in doing it.

 

[boxing-cel]

when they make eye contact with you, if u feel like u see any subtle signs they prob like u because girls don't usually make the first step. my tip is go on omegle and see how they react to u

I mean I get LOTS of eye contact from some girls. Good sign?

 

[boxing-cel]

Depends on starting point.

If socialising prior to ascension is going to create a negative feedback loop turning you into an increasingly abused dog there is very little point in doing it.

I mean there could be positive results, could be negative results. 50-50

 

[ldaritsover]

I mean I get LOTS of eye contact from some girls. Good sign?

yeah i mean according to ur other posts ur not an incel atleast

 

[boxing-cel]

when they make eye contact with you, if u feel like u see any subtle signs they prob like u because girls don't usually make the first step. my tip is go on omegle and see how they react to u

My face lowkey kinda chopped for Omegle-maxxxing im carried by IRL presence I think

 

[LTNdravid]

I mean I get LOTS of eye contact from some girls. Good sign?

Nigga u are not 6.2 the phone is ur height stop lying abt height, they are looking down at you

 

[xaxanibber]

isolating yourself for a long time really screws you over,,,, happened to me after i got kicked outta hs,,,, now im 2 scared to even go to the store alone

 

[boxing-cel]

yeah i mean according to ur other posts ur not an incel atleast

Idk this HTB turned around and gazed into my eyes for like 2-3 secs 3 separate times in class but other days she ignores me and looks at the floor when I walk by

Women so confusing man

 

[boxing-cel]

Nigga u are not 6.2 the phone is ur height stop lying abt height, they are looking down at you

 

[boxing-cel]

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I’m in the blue shorts if it ain’t obvious. I’m easily 6’3 in shoes. I use insoles when not working out so 6’4 ish?

 

[ldaritsover]

Idk this HTB turned around and gazed into my eyes for like 2-3 secs 3 separate times in class but other days she ignores me and looks at the floor when I walk by

Women so confusing man

don't try to get with her bro the avoidants lost cause

 

[boxing-cel]

don't try to get with her bro the avoidants lost cause

Dang she’s my Oneitis

 

[ascend_or_death]

Is it a bad idea to only try to put yourself there once you’ve fully looksmaxxed?

I mean a true 9-10% body fat, jacked, style and hair and beard and skin, maybe frauding etc. softmaxxed fully.

I don’t mean not talking to anyone you’d still do work related stuff and basic conversations, but only actively socialising and tryna make friends when you’ve basically done 90% of what you can do in terms of looks.

NT is law bro start looking into inhib drugs

 

[Markomaxxer]

can I message you privately?

yes brother go ahead