Opening line discussion

[OOGABOOGA]

Idk what tf I’m doing in terms of game. I get a lot of matches and just copy paste “what’s up qt.” Lot of girls don’t respond. Those that do generally either say something like “hiii” or “heyyyy” or give some actual answer like “just got off work hbu” or “nothing much hbu.” Sometimes with a compliment like “bae” “handsome” “king” etc.

Basically I’m getting a mediocre response rate and the ones that do respond are boring, bland, platonic small talk that I often just leave on read bc I cbf. I need to spice it up. That being said I need a canned line to copy/paste otherwise I’m just not gonna message girls.

@PYT keeps telling me these dumb girls will be really receptive if I say something along the lines of “ruin me.” Since I’m traveling alone I definitely need to up my game and get girls to hang with or else I’ll be bored and lonely as fuck.

So here’s an idea of a canned opener. For the current example, I’ll use the St. Louis bc I just got here last night and matched with like 70 girls in a day. “What’s up qt” is a weak and safe line, but it’s ass. Got me like 30-40% response rate and the responses aren’t even good.

How about I start leading with “hey I just got to (city) for the first time. Want to ruin it for me?”

What do you guys think of this as an opener or an approach to take? Any ways you’d modify it or strategize it? I know this is a looksmaxxing forum where the goal is often to just get gl enough to get the matches, but this is where I’m stuck now. If I can start consistently turning matches into flings my life will be so much better so I appreciate any help!

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Fuckin hell guys @looksmaxxer234 @Biggdink @CupOfCoffee @AlexAP @Amnesia @volcelfatcel @Ed676 @gamma @redpilledboomer

 

[Deleted member 7224]

 

[redpilledboomer]

You're too autistic

You started going crazy cus a girl said "m8"

 

[CupOfCoffee]

try this one.

I will be honest. I want to fuck you. Im sorry.

The problem is he doesn't actually want to fuck that bad lol

 

[Looks234]

@PYT keeps telling me these dumb girls will be really receptive if I say something along the lines of “ruin me.”

He’s right

 

[OOGABOOGA]

The problem is he doesn't actually want to fuck that bad lol

I’m not horny but I still want to fuck

You're too autistic

You started going crazy cus a girl said "m8"

No I was messing around bc she was out of my league for easy hookups

 

[redpilledboomer]

I’m not horny but I still want to fuck

No I was messing around bc she was out of my league for easy hookups

Never say that

Women are beneath men

 

[OOGABOOGA]

He’s right

So what do you think of the line I’m thinking about? Frames the fact that I’ll only be here for a bit and want a quick fling but in a cute way

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Never say that

Women are beneath men

Whatever dude chadlite with no social life or nt pics doesn’t get a quick hookup with stacylite

 

[Deleted member 7224]

He’s right

''ruin me''

 

[volcelfatcel]

"Hey Trouble" @Amnesia

 

[redpilledboomer]

Whatever dude chadlite with no social life or nt pics doesn’t get a quick hookup with stacylite

well you're already set in your ways of being a psl weak brain faggot

don't tag me for advice you sub insect suicide statistic

 

[Deleted member 7224]

@OOGABOOGA use the one I said. if you are low inhib sigma male like me.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

"Hey Trouble" @Amnesia

''ruin me''
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Guys Fr I’m down bad, really lonely rn. Is the line good?

 

[Deleted member 7224]

Guys Fr I’m down bad, really lonely rn. Is the line good?

Try this one. sounds stupid but it worked for me. once i get my looks back i will just spit this shit over and over again.

 

[gamma]

Try this one from Fast Banana

 

[volcelfatcel]

Read this

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Fuck you guys
@tyronelite @RealLooksmaxxer maybe one of you can actually answer the question

 

[Deleted member 7224]

go do some cold approaches like real man. tinder is the worst place to get sex and all you get are the worst girls possible.

 

[Deleted member 7224]

@OOGABOOGA I said use the one I sent you if not you are high inhib pussy. that shit got me response almost everytime

 

[OOGABOOGA]

go do some cold approaches like real man. tinder is the worst place to get sex and all you get are the worst girls possible.

Bro I’m scared man I’m such an outcast. How am I gonna turn a cold approach into a lay within a few days? I just want a quick hookup so I can move on. Just want to get it over with. If I’m getting this many matches then with good text game it should be possible

 

[Deleted member 13332]

Bro I’m scared man I’m such an outcast. How am I gonna turn a cold approach into a lay within a few days? I just want a quick hookup so I can move on. Just want to get it over with. If I’m getting this many matches then with good text game it should be possible

i dont care that you are such an outcast at all buddy.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

@OOGABOOGA I said use the one I sent you if not you are high inhib pussy. that shit got me response almost everytime

Are you being serious or trolling me trying to get me banned off tinder. I want to bang you. Sorry.

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Idk what tf I’m doing in terms of game. I get a lot of matches and just copy paste “what’s up qt.” Lot of girls don’t respond. Those that do generally either say something like “hiii” or “heyyyy” or give some actual answer like “just got off work hbu” or “nothing much hbu.” Sometimes with a compliment like “bae” “handsome” “king” etc.

Basically I’m getting a mediocre response rate and the ones that do respond are boring, bland, platonic small talk that I often just leave on read bc I cbf. I need to spice it up. That being said I need a canned line to copy/paste otherwise I’m just not gonna message girls.

@PYT keeps telling me these dumb girls will be really receptive if I say something along the lines of “ruin me.” Since I’m traveling alone I definitely need to up my game and get girls to hang with or else I’ll be bored and lonely as fuck.

So here’s an idea of a canned opener. For the current example, I’ll use the St. Louis bc I just got here last night and matched with like 70 girls in a day. “What’s up qt” is a weak and safe line, but it’s ass. Got me like 30-40% response rate and the responses aren’t even good.

How about I start leading with “hey I just got to (city) for the first time. Want to ruin it for me?”

What do you guys think of this as an opener or an approach to take? Any ways you’d modify it or strategize it? I know this is a looksmaxxing forum where the goal is often to just get gl enough to get the matches, but this is where I’m stuck now. If I can start consistently turning matches into flings my life will be so much better so I appreciate any help!

You have to be creative nowadays

What I’ve been doing recently is sending a voice note of a song that fits the girl directly

 

[Deleted member 7224]

Are you being serious or trolling me trying to get me banned off tinder. I want to bang you. Sorry.

so you cant talk about sex on the app that created for people to meet up to have sex? over.

 

[Deleted member 13332]

so you cant talk about sex on the app that created for people to meet up to have sex? over.

never began for that soyboy

 

[OOGABOOGA]

You have to be creative nowadays

What I’ve been doing recently is sending a voice note of a song that fits the girl directly

Yeah I’m not gonna do that but thanks

 

[Looks234]

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Try this one. sounds stupid but it worked for me. once i get my looks back i will just spit this shit over and over again.

Lol hey worked for my trucelfish

 

[Deleted member 7224]

Lol hey worked for my trucelfish

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truecel? looks like tiktok pretty boy.

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Lol hey worked for my trucelfish

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Wow you guys really don’t want to help me out

 

[Looks234]

truecel? looks like tiktok pretty boy.

She friendzoned him hard tho

 

[Looks234]

How about I start leading with “hey I just got to (city) for the first time. Want to ruin it for me?”

Don’t say that jfl

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Don’t say that jfl

Ok thanks dude what would you do in my situation with my goals?

 

[Looks234]

Ok thanks dude what would you do in my situation with my goals?

I don’t have lines I just say whatever. It comes natural.

But just copy normie trends and phrases like “ruin me”

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Why

I don’t have lines I just say whatever. It comes natural.

But just copy normie trends and phrases like “ruin me”

Why is ruin me so much better than “just got to to x, want to ruin it for me?” Same shit but seems less corny to me bc it actually makes some sense

 

[Looks234]

“just got to to x, want to ruin it for me?”

that’s more corny

 

[germanlooks]

Look up the YouTube channel Playingwithfire.
He has tons of videos about how to write and open on tinder. He is also redpilled and partly Blackpilled. Don’t know if his advice is legit but atleast you can give it a try. He is often really direct and not like a nice guy in his text messages

 

[PYT]

Why is ruin me so much better than “just got to to x, want to ruin it for me?” Same shit but seems less corny to me bc it actually makes some sense

that doesn’t even make sense, when you say the ruin me line you’re saying you want them so bad you’d be willing to let them ruin you

 

[OOGABOOGA]

M

that doesn’t even make sense, when you say the ruin me line you’re saying you want them so bad you’d be willing to let them ruin you

aybe the problem I have with it is I refuse to believe women are stupid and egotistical enough to fall for that shit

 

[PYT]

M

aybe the problem I have with it is I refuse to believe women are stupid and egotistical enough to fall for that shit

You don’t lose anything out of just opening the text with “ong i’d let you ruin my life”

I’m not a psychologist bro I’m just talking from experience

 

[OOGABOOGA]

You don’t lose anything out of just opening the text with “ong i’d let you ruin my life”

I’m not a psychologist bro I’m just talking from experience

So some 5/10 isn’t gonna see through a chadlite saying that?

 

[PYT]

So some 5/10 isn’t gonna see through a chadlite saying that?

idk tbh my head is throbbing I can’t think rn

 

[OOGABOOGA]

You don’t lose anything out of just opening the text with “ong i’d let you ruin my life”

I’m not a psychologist bro I’m just talking from experience

Seems kinda simpy too tbh my pride doesn’t want me to worship like that but the implications are more interesting and toxic so maybe it works

 

[OOGABOOGA]

You don’t lose anything out of just opening the text with “ong i’d let you ruin my life”

I’m not a psychologist bro I’m just talking from experience

Now what

I think part of my issue with this shit is I’ve never had a girl I still gave a shit about a day after getting curved. I dont care enough to catch feelings for some toxic shit. Not that it matters but that would explain why I’m so weird about this line

 

[tyronelite]

Fuck you guys
@tyronelite @RealLooksmaxxer maybe one of you can actually answer the question

Easy.. just copy & paste “Hey I’m new in town & lookin for a cutie to show me around & ruin my life (last part is optional)”

Meet them at a local bar & tell em what’s up. Rinse repeat recycle.. do the same thing you did last time when you got laid. If it’s working don’t switch it up

 

[tyronelite]

View attachment 1316769Now what

I think part of my issue with this shit is I’ve never had a girl I still gave a shit about a day after getting curved. I dont care enough to catch feelings for some toxic shit. Not that it matters but that would explain why I’m so weird about this line

Get her # , ask her when she’s free & either meet at her place or use your car

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Easy.. just copy & paste “Hey I’m new in town & lookin for a cutie to show me around & ruin my life (last part is optional)”

Meet them at a local bar & tell em what’s up. Rinse repeat recycle.. do the same thing you did last time when you got laid. If it’s working don’t switch it up

Is the part in parentheses part of the message? I like it tbh. I don’t think local bar is an option bc I forgot my id in Chicago. I’ve got my expired license and that was fine when I got pulled over speeding a day or two ago so maybe.

my successes are so few and far between and there’s not much strategy. It just happens. It’s just a girl wants to hook up with someone and they choose me.

Get her # , ask her when she’s free & either meet at her place or use your car

“Bet” doesn’t seem very enthusiastic but yeah I’ll ask

and if you’re confident in that opener(I like it it’s an improved version of my idea) I have 42 new matches since last night to spam it to and then I can report back

 

[tyronelite]

Is the part in parentheses part of the message?

Yeah it’s part of the message if you want to include the “ruin your life” bit.

“Bet” doesn’t seem very enthusiastic but yeah I’ll ask

and if you’re confident in that opener(I like it it’s an improved version of my idea)

Yeah she might have medium interest. From that response it’s 50/50. Don’t waste too much time with her. Ask her what’s her living situation & if you can’t go to hers get a motel

 

[OOGABOOGA]

Yeah it’s part of the message if you want to include the “ruin your life” bit.

Yeah she might have medium interest. From that response it’s 50/50. Don’t waste too much time with her. Ask her what’s her living situation & if you can’t go to hers get a motel

50 matches now. Had some decent ones in my likes that I hadn’t seen yet. I will include the optional bit about ruining my life being optional.

Can’t hurt to try with that chick. But Fr how is meeting up to fuck a natural progression from an emotionally charged romantic opener? Is it just another example of me not realizing how retarded women are?