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I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
 
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get a therapist
 
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I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
Was it a foid
 
I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
It’s making me really miserable being unable to stop this but also aware about it. Sometimes I get too painfully aware about my situation in life and it makes me think if it would all be better if I roped
 
I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
Clearly if they cant accept or at least try to understand your issues they arent real friends. As long as your not being a dick for no reason with bad intent its fine
 
I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
Never open up its like giving a knife and telling the other to not use it agaisnt you just vent to people you will never meet again or just don't vent to anyone and face it yourself
 
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Clearly if they cant accept or at least try to understand your issues they arent real friends. As long as your not being a dick for no reason with bad intent its fine
Sometimes I get the urge to act like that and even unconsciously act like a shit person because it brings me comfort, I want to stop it. I have minimized this by isolating myself from others but it’s making me really lonely
 
get a therapist
I really do want to get one but judging from what I’ve seen from my parents I don’t think they’d understand enough to see that it would really matter if I got a therapist or not. This mindset’s making me depressed and all they see is a lazy teen
 
Sometimes I get the urge to act like that and even unconsciously act like a shit person because it brings me comfort, I want to stop it. I have minimized this by isolating myself from others but it’s making me really lonely
That sucks man. I would explain to them thats how you are and just explain that to them. I cant really relate to you so its hard to give advice but I would reccomend getting counsiling or at least explaining it to them.
 
me to bro it feels so hollow like i'm the problem and it's something wrong with me
 
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Venting is really stupid especially if its someone you know, get a therapist or dont
 
I got too comfortable with someone and opened up about how I don’t really feel empathy or other things for others and they just left disgusted. This is one characteristic that I am not so very proud of about myself but I just can’t bring myself to feel these things, I think my mind is twisted. This also made me push away the people that tried to help me but I just somehow manage to push them to their limit. I’ll also admit that I’ve treated people like shit and I had a somewhat narcissistic personality that I now got rid of, I really need help. Seeking help from people Ik irl only made them distance themselves from me. I’m aware enough to know that I am a problem if this continues, so please guys how do I manage this?
Guys she broke up with me because of this incident
 

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