Optimizing Relationships (Balancing slaying and LTR's)

[Deleted member 10413]

Theory​

The pussy threshold is the point were casual sex (or slaying) loses so much value that long term relationships become superior. To help you understand this idea I made this graph:

The basic idea here is that slaying loses it's value the more women you fuck while a healthy long term relationships can maintain it's value for a very long time.

Digging a little deeper:

The value you get from slaying is: Pussy

The value you get from long term relationships is: companionship, romance, deep intimacy

First let's discuss pussy

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Pussy​

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Pussy will lose its value over time because the pleasure you get from it doesn't increase or decrease (it's linear) and because of that the more you have it the more "normalized" it becomes. Imagine that the worlds best pizza shop opens next door and decides to give you free pizza for life. You would probably eat there every day for years maybe even over a decade but slowly it would grow "normal" and you would start to eat there less and less.

Now it's interesting to note that the rate pussy loses it value will depend on 1. The variety of women you sleep with and 2. How attractive the women you sleep with are.

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Long term relationships

The reason that long term relationships preserve there value is because they provide a vast range of positive emotions (rather than slaying which only gives sexual pleasure.) A few examples include: Happiness, Companionship, Warmth, Emotional security, Sexual pleasure

Going back to the food analogy this would be like if a bunch of different fancy restaurants opened up next to you and they all offered you free food. You grow bored very very slowly because of how many options you would have.

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Knowing all of this your goal should be to reach the "pussy threshold" and then pursue a long term relationship. Doing this will allow you to have the best of both worlds and optimize the amount of happiness you can feel.

 

[Growth Plate]

Soy content react when

 

[IWILLMAKEIT]

You get bored of one girl
All my friends who have gfs have told me this
I've experienced it first hand too

LTR is cope after 6 months

 

[ReignsChad]

Goddamn, I love pussy bros

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Interesting you wrote a thread about yourself

 

[Deleted member 10413]

You get bored of one girl
All my friends who have gfs have told me this
I've experienced it first hand too

LTR is cope after 6 months

LTR's can drop in value if you don't sustain them properly:

Which is why I specifically mention that this is only for healthy long term relationships

healthy long term relationships

The advice I would give you is to be very careful when choosing a long term relationship. As blue pilled as it is personality really does matter (atleast in an LTR.) So be sure that you connect socially. And for the love of god have basic conflict resolution skills.