"Our son says his hair loss has ruined his life"

[Andros]

Now 33, he hasn’t worked for three years and is suffering from severe depression​

Our son has been losing his hair since he was 16. In his twenties, he underwent (unbeknown to us) several botched hair transplants. He was earning good money as a qualified professional, so able to afford the expensive procedures. Now he is 33, has not worked for three years, and is suffering from severe depression.


He says he has scars and they are carcinogenic if exposed to sunlight. He wears a cap all the time. He is living at home now and has spent all his money. He is behaving like a teenager and not contributing financially to the household.


If persistently asked, he will wash up and put away the shopping. He has isolated himself and has nervous habits of talking to himself, clicking his fingers and laughing to himself.


He says he only has “half a head”. The transplanted hair is growing in the front, but the damage and scarring is at the back of his head. Our son says this hair loss has ruined his life. He cannot countenance ever having a family because of the “bald” gene.


He will not agree to any form of counselling and it breaks our hearts to see our creative, caring son so aimless and miserable. His anger has left him lonely and all his friends have moved on with relationships, family, etc. He seems dependent on coffee and social media. We are lucky at least that he hasn’t an alcohol dependency.


We, his parents, are hoping you can guide us in some way? How can we persuade him to get help? Where can we get help?


Under huge pressure, he agreed to see our sympathetic GP – but then backed out of that. We would have paid the fee for a consultation at an expert Hair Clinic, but he says there is nothing they could say that he doesn’t know already.


He says he is waiting for better technology for hair transplanting in about five years time!

Our son says his hair loss has ruined his life

Now 33, he hasn’t worked for three years and is suffering from severe depression

www.irishtimes.com

Brutal, normie goes bald and become a rotting incel

 

[Deleted member 4044]

It seems like it's more about the scarring than the baldness.

Should just wear a hairpiece

Or can he not do that because of the scarring?

 

[Deleted member 3512]

poor soul

 

[Gonthar]

 

[audreyen]

Other than manletism, baldness is one of the worst things men will have to suffer through. God is one cruel motherfucker

 

[Deleted member 8461]

He has isolated himself and has nervous habits of talking to himself, clicking his fingers and laughing to himself.

 

[MansNotHot]

It seems like it's more about the scarring than the baldness.

Should just wear a hairpiece

Or can he not do that because of the scarring?

Did you ever go bald? I assume you didn't.
It's always the guys with hair that give solutions to baldcels as if they even experienced the toll it has on your mental health.

 

[Mouthbreath]

He has isolated himself and has nervous habits of talking to himself, clicking his fingers and laughing to himself.

 

[Enfant terrible]

nobody will care if you go bald tbh

 

[pakipassion]

baldbess can be very stressful and problem is that , stress increases hairfall, it is a wierd circle jerk.

 

[pakipassion]

i suffered a lot of hair thining at certain part of scalp when i was in severe stress because of academic reasons , when I came out of it , i really start caring about my hair , and when they got strong they also cover the thining part.

 

[RichardSpencel]

Now 33, he hasn’t worked for three years and is suffering from severe depression​

Their son is chico?

 

[Deleted member 4562]

this is why all these dumb motherfuckers should have gotten blood tests and hopped on fin once their dick stopped growing instead of getting fucking transplants as your first defense jfl

genetic trash in terms of hair loss and intelligence, over for him

 

[Deleted member 4209]

this type of BE A MAN GO BALD BR0 stuff is actual "toxic masculinity". shaming men for self improving because "that's gay". i saw it all the time in school, if you study you're "gay" because "that's what girls do".

 

[Deleted member 4562]

this type of BE A MAN GO BALD BR0 stuff is actual "toxic masculinity". shaming men for self improving because "that's gay". i saw it all the time in school, if you study you're "gay" because "that's what girls do".

true but youre actually gay

 

[sytyl]

>he underwent (unbeknown to us) several botched hair transplants

idiot probably needed to take fin and didn't

 

[Deleted member 275]

Our son has been losing his hair since he was 16.

Brutal. Taking fin at 16yo isn't advised so you are in a fucked up situation.

Losing hair in your late twenties or later, is a whole different ball-game than losing it in your teens or early twenties.

 

[getra]

nobody will care if you go bald tbh

Very wrong

 

[Deleted member 4991]

"You have no hair, you have no life"
-Hamudi

 

[Nisse]

He has isolated himself and has nervous habits of talking to himself, clicking his fingers and laughing to himself.

I used to do that

 

[CsCurry]

Other than manletism, baldness is one of the worst things men will have to suffer through. God is one cruel motherfucker

It’s like being born 6-5 and wide framed and then shrinking yourself to 5-3 with birthing hips.

 

[CsCurry]

Our son says his hair loss has ruined his life

Now 33, he hasn’t worked for three years and is suffering from severe depression

www.irishtimes.com

Brutal, normie goes bald and become a rotting incel

Shoulda taken fin.

 

[Deleted member 5698]

Other than manletism, baldness is one of the worst things men will have to suffer through. God is one cruel motherfucker

 

[Deleted member 6305]

@Ritalincel parent's tbh

 

[Deleted member 8461]

I used to do that

I'm doing that rn

 

[Enfant terrible]

Very wrong

keep crying because some women find you less attractive
low t

 

[Nisse]

I'm doing that rn

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[Deleted member 10185]

My god im so thankful for my genes. two of my brother where balding at young age.. and I still have full hair at age of 30 years.

 

[getra]

keep crying because some women find you less attractive
low t

When you start going bald lmk how you feel in a few years

 

[Gaia262]

Did you ever go bald? I assume you didn't.
It's always the guys with hair that give solutions to baldcels as if they even experienced the toll it has on your mental health.

Well I had major hairloss, and now wear a hair system.

It was an incredibly easy fix tbh, I kind of cringe at these defeatist articles when the solution takes 2 hours.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Well I had major hairloss, and now wear a hair system.

It was an incredibly easy fix tbh, I kind of cringe at these defeatist articles when the solution takes 2 hours.

Aren't you afraid women would notice?

 

[Gaia262]

Aren't you afraid women would notice?

No, it's virtually impossible to notice.

I have my natural hairline, the hair system is like 1 inch behind.

Such an easy fix , I'm actually happy I had hairloss, now I have model tier hair, when I used to originally have shitty thick hair that was impossible to style.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

No, it's virtually impossible to notice.

I have my natural hairline, the hair system is like 1 inch behind.

Such an easy fix , I'm actually happy I had hairloss, now I have model tier hair, when I used to originally have shitty thick hair that was impossible to style.

I wanna see, can you pm me a pic of the hairline and hair?

 

[Gaia262]

I wanna see, can you pm me a pic of the hairline and hair?

No need for pm bro , I keep it public to help others.

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[Deleted member 6512]

No need for pm bro , I keep it public to help others.

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Damn good improvement.
What do you think to do if you enter a LTR tho? If you want to have a LTR of course.

 

[magnificentcel]

I bet he has cheekbones

 

[Gaia262]

Damn good improvement.
What do you think to do if you enter a LTR tho? If you want to have a LTR of course.

I go to a clinic so it's like a normal hair appointment every month, so it's easy to hide.

If it's like a marriage LTR then probably just tell her, as long as it looks good people will agree with anything.

 

[Deleted member 6512]

I go to a clinic so it's like a normal hair appointment every month, so it's easy to hide.

If it's like a marriage LTR then probably just tell her, as long as it looks good people will agree with anything.

Mmm I'm skeptical, I think that if you tell her she is gonna feel repulsed tbh just like telling a woman that you had plastic surgery with the additional problem that you have to manage this problem every month.

 

[Gaia262]

Mmm I'm skeptical, I think that if you tell her she is gonna feel repulsed tbh just like telling a woman that you had plastic surgery with the additional problem that you have to manage this problem every month.

Does this look like repulsion to you? (21:40) All women I have met respect a guy who fixes his problems tbh, it's a conversation topic tbh.

 

[MansNotHot]

No need for pm bro , I keep it public to help others.

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Where do you live? I wish i had the money to do this tbh.
No systemic DHT decrease just to keep my shit quality hair and in turn having way better hair would be amazing ngl.

 

[Gaia262]

Where do you live? I wish i had the money to do this tbh.
No systemic DHT decrease just to keep my shit quality hair and in turn having way better hair would be amazing ngl.

I live in London, UK

This is my clinic that i go to.

Mens Hair 2 Go-Hair Systems Uk, Mens Hair Replacement, Hair Systems London

Award Winning Hair Replacement Specialists in London. Providing the highest quality men's hair systems, hair pieces and hair loss services. Affordable with guaranteed natural results.

www.menshairpieces.co.uk

 

[Deleted member 6512]

Does this look like repulsion to you? (22:30) All women I have met respect a guy who fixes his problems tbh, it's a conversation topic tbh.

They don't hate men who improve themselves but they hate men who cheat their genetics for sure.

 

[NorwoodMilitant]

Fucking brutal man. Whoever comes up with better methods of restoring hair will save alot of guys alot of suffering

 

[Enfant terrible]

When you start going bald lmk how you feel in a few years

please stop
nobody will care its all in your heads
its your insecurity
Some women don't like bald men. You can't be liked be everyone anyways
especially if not good looking

 

[Deleted member 10172]

I used to do that

I do it everyday, but I don't understand the clicking thing they was talking about

 

[Deleted member 4887]

nobody will care if you go bald tbh

True, my family are paying for hair treatments for me but I can tell they dont give a shit about it they just know I really want it

I dont blame people they dont can't understand what they dont experience

 

[Deleted member 4887]

No need for pm bro , I keep it public to help others.

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Thats insane bro we have the same hair loss status but i decided to fight the reaper heads on and try transplant

 

[Deleted member 6380]

Other than manletism, baldness is one of the worst things men will have to suffer through. God is one cruel motherfucker

Ignored, fuck you, may Allah ban you permanently from this forum aameen

 

[Beetlejuice]

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[Babyblackcarrot]

just shave it the ladies dig it, you’ll look like kratos