Overcoming fear of rejection and humiliation in terms of status

[HighIQbonemash]

So i really like a girl that goes to the same school as me. The problem is that she’s has a bit more status than me and seems to be very judgmental over small things ( I’ve talked to her a couple of times ).

She hangs out with the other girls with status, I’m not really good friends with them but we get along and chat during school hours. The thing is, I know that 2 of her friends like me ( as a person ) but the other 2 are extremely judgmental and are very aware of their reputation and the power they have to change peoples minds when it come to people.

I met this girl at a party in November and we hit it off and talked all night. After that I’ve tried to talk to her but she didn’t seem that interested. So I yearned a bit then stopped thinking about it. Until two days ago, my friend said that she wanted me to go to a party next week. That she really wants me to be there ( idk if he larps or not to make me go ).

So now I’m really wondering if I should ask her out?? If it goes well I think we could have a really good time together since we have a lot in common. But if it goes bad and I get rejected. I probably will be left out from a lot of social gatherings and stuff, also being a laughing stock in the corridor. Also not being able to chat with her or her friends because it will be tense for me and her. So what the FUCK should I do?

 

[TerminatorGenisys9]

So i really like a girl that goes to the same school as me. The problem is that she’s has a bit more status than me and seems to be very judgmental over small things ( I’ve talked to her a couple of times ).

She hangs out with the other girls with status, I’m not really good friends with them but we get along and chat during school hours. The thing is, I know that 2 of her friends like me ( as a person ) but the other 2 are extremely judgmental and are very aware of their reputation and the power they have to change peoples minds when it come to people.

I met this girl at a party in November and we hit it off and talked all night. After that I’ve tried to talk to her but she didn’t seem that interested. So I yearned a bit then stopped thinking about it. Until two days ago, my friend said that she wanted me to go to a party next week. That she really wants me to be there ( idk if he larps or not to make me go ).

So now I’m really wondering if I should ask her out?? If it goes well I think we could have a really good time together since we have a lot in common. But if it goes bad and I get rejected. I probably will be left out from a lot of social gatherings and stuff, also being a laughing stock in the corridor. Also not being able to chat with her or her friends because it will be tense for me and her. So what the FUCK should I do?

If ur me I wouldn’t try but ur not me so try

 

[INeedKnowlage]

Not worth the risks.
Look for an other girlfriend with less status at the partys

 

[OldRooster]

Not worth the risks.
Look for an other girlfriend with less status at the partys

Mostly true. The problem is that the B list girls are usually the most likely to immediately tell everyone that will listen that you asked them out, because it raises their own status. The best strategy for OP is to focus on the shy nerdy girl that is not part of the popular group, but realistically finding an attractive one is like finding a Unicorn.

eta: if in doubt: Be good looking.