People calling you "arrogant" is rarely about personality

[ElDelirium]

Before anyone spam calls this cope: I'm not claiming to be prime Sean O'Pry, im just showing basic biology

But there's a legit difference between getting treated like trash because you're a sub5 retard vs getting passive-aggressive energy because of looks-based envy

From what I've seen, real envy usually looks like this:

Labeling you arrogant: If you're quiet and ugly, you're "weird". If you're quiet and decent looking, you're "arrogant"

This happens to me a lot at school just because I don't do jestermaxxing like my classmates

Same-sex mocking: Dudes instantly trying to downplay your hair, clothing, or effort in group settings

Preemptive coldness: People acting distant right off the bat to protect their own ego

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On the flip side, actual sub5 treatment is usually total invisibility, disgust, or pure disrespect

 

[horseman.]

all in ur head bro

 

[ElDelirium]

all in ur head bro

Just say you've never experienced status envy and move on

 

[Gaythugmax]

it's usually a combination of loox and personality that result in someone being seen as arrogant

me personally i have thick angry bird eyebrows and am/was cold to a lot of people which resulted in a lot of people thinking im arrogant