People don’t like a try-hard: The brutal reality of genetics and how much they matter.

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INTRODUCTION

If you aren’t genetically blessed, no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. Think about it like this. Why do normies frown upon surgery so badly? It’s not because of “natural beauty” or any nonsense like that, but it is because of how they find it unsettling when someone who is genetically inferior tries to make themselves better. We all know that normies believe subconsciously believe that:

•Looks are everything

•That some people are “just unattractive”


All that yet most normies still act as if the blue pill is law. Why is this? It’s because they want the world to be like this. Normies love to contradict themselves.

Doing anything to fight against your genetics will end up in backlash.

Here’s proof:
•People will immediately think you are a homosexual for wanting to improve your face
It’s not their fault though. Society is wired in a way that makes people feel like self-improvement for men is going to the gym, and coping with what you cannot change.


- Unfortunately there is no gym for your face

•You will never make it in a sport. Only people with gifted ability can become well-known in a sport. People will tell you to quit a sport in the short run if they think you are dogshit at it. You can put in effort to get better, but you will never reach, or(depending on your genes)get close to the level of a professional because this.

•You can’t study and learn things without being intelligent
Of course you can, but you will always be slower to understand difficult things if you are an un-intelligent person. If a teacher or educator believes that you do not have the potential to take up higher education, they will not tell you to try it. They might tell you that with enough effort, you can do it, but they will not go very far to hide the fact they are spewing lies. They know that people who aren’t genetically gifted are incapable of going far and will end up wage-slaves with barely enough money to live a normal lifestyle.

What can you do about this?

Near to absolutely nothing. Sorry I have to say this but it is reality. You may see miraculous stories about people who should have given up on their life (like David Goggins) doing something amazing that is almost inspirational to hear. But you do not have the same genetics as them. Some people get lucky and realise their own potential later than others, others realise their own genetic failings sooner than others, it’s all the same, just with a different outcome. If you do not have the genetics to do something, yet you insist on doing it, you are a fool. The whole world will spit on you in disgust. Your life will be infinitely worse than if you just gave up.

My point is:

•If it doesn’t come naturally to you, stop trying. You will get nowhere if you continue harming yourself to “improve”
If you believe you can improve though, I am not telling you not to do so.

•You have to make everything you do seem genetic. If people realise that you put in strenuous effort for what you do, they will see you as a “try hard”. Maybe some redpillers will see you as a “hardworking good ethics man”, only to realise that they can’t get to the level you did because of how brutally you worked for it.

•Live life the way your genetics intended you to. If your genetics are good enough to hit the gym, then do it. If your genetics aren’t good enough to ascend, even with carefully thought out looksmaxxing plans, LDAR. Work to improve your strong points, and avoid having to fix errors when possible.

Thanks for reading bhai’s - dstivvy
 
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No gifs = DNR
 
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Just identify the flaws you can improve with softmaxxing, surgeries, frauding and accept that you’ll never be perfect, but you can be the best version of yourself
 
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Everyone knows this. It’s literally the first think about the blackpill
 
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The problem is, in this forum there's already Htns and chadlites but they are obssesed to Mog tyler maher they spend tons of money in surgeries, they look even better but if they don't look better than Tyler maher or Chico lachowski they aren't going to live happy. They want perfection, it's impossible
 
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just be a victim of ur own genetics and rot theory
 
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yes I understand but I want to mog no matter what, so self improvement+ genetics is the only way.
 
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INTRODUCTION

If you aren’t genetically blessed, no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. Think about it like this. Why do normies frown upon surgery so badly? It’s not because of “natural beauty” or any nonsense like that, but it is because of how they find it unsettling when someone who is genetically inferior tries to make themselves better. We all know that normies believe subconsciously believe that:

•Looks are everything

•That some people are “just unattractive”


All that yet most normies still act as if the blue pill is law. Why is this? It’s because they want the world to be like this. Normies love to contradict themselves.

Doing anything to fight against your genetics will end up in backlash.

Here’s proof:
•People will immediately think you are a homosexual for wanting to improve your face
It’s not their fault though. Society is wired in a way that makes people feel like self-improvement for men is going to the gym, and coping with what you cannot change.


- Unfortunately there is no gym for your face

•You will never make it in a sport. Only people with gifted ability can become well-known in a sport. People will tell you to quit a sport in the short run if they think you are dogshit at it. You can put in effort to get better, but you will never reach, or(depending on your genes)get close to the level of a professional because this.

•You can’t study and learn things without being intelligent
Of course you can, but you will always be slower to understand difficult things if you are an un-intelligent person. If a teacher or educator believes that you do not have the potential to take up higher education, they will not tell you to try it. They might tell you that with enough effort, you can do it, but they will not go very far to hide the fact they are spewing lies. They know that people who aren’t genetically gifted are incapable of going far and will end up wage-slaves with barely enough money to live a normal lifestyle.

What can you do about this?

Near to absolutely nothing. Sorry I have to say this but it is reality. You may see miraculous stories about people who should have given up on their life (like David Goggins) doing something amazing that is almost inspirational to hear. But you do not have the same genetics as them. Some people get lucky and realise their own potential later than others, others realise their own genetic failings sooner than others, it’s all the same, just with a different outcome. If you do not have the genetics to do something, yet you insist on doing it, you are a fool. The whole world will spit on you in disgust. Your life will be infinitely worse than if you just gave up.

My point is:

•If it doesn’t come naturally to you, stop trying. You will get nowhere if you continue harming yourself to “improve”
If you believe you can improve though, I am not telling you not to do so.

•You have to make everything you do seem genetic. If people realise that you put in strenuous effort for what you do, they will see you as a “try hard”. Maybe some redpillers will see you as a “hardworking good ethics man”, only to realise that they can’t get to the level you did because of how brutally you worked for it.

•Live life the way your genetics intended you to. If your genetics are good enough to hit the gym, then do it. If your genetics aren’t good enough to ascend, even with carefully thought out looksmaxxing plans, LDAR. Work to improve your strong points, and avoid having to fix errors when possible.

Thanks for reading bhai’s - dstivvy
U go to Asia

Looksmax surgeries are socially acceptable
 
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most of the forum is bluepilled atp brah
His point isn’t necessarily right too. It’s a huge spectrum. I’d say if you have average to slightly above average genetics in something, you can make substantial progress.

Again it depends on what it is. Some aspects genuinely rely less on genetic components. Your genetic ceiling for something might be unknown even if your baseline appears shit (E.g the gym. You see so many seemingly subhuman physiques ascend to something crazy)

But for some other things, like sports for example, there’s very clearly a strong genetic barrier. Even Ronaldo, who’s still ridiculously gifted compared to other footballers, could not reach the peaks of Messi even with his diet, training ect all dialled in.

I agree with the main aspect though that you need to figure out what your genetics allow you to be best at and focus on that. That’s why wealthy children in private schools are given a variety of extracurricular things to do to gauge what they’re good at and work on that. It’s very important to expose your children to a variety of hobbies/activities.
 
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INTRODUCTION

If you aren’t genetically blessed, no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. Think about it like this. Why do normies frown upon surgery so badly? It’s not because of “natural beauty” or any nonsense like that, but it is because of how they find it unsettling when someone who is genetically inferior tries to make themselves better. We all know that normies believe subconsciously believe that:

•Looks are everything

•That some people are “just unattractive”


All that yet most normies still act as if the blue pill is law. Why is this? It’s because they want the world to be like this. Normies love to contradict themselves.

Doing anything to fight against your genetics will end up in backlash.

Here’s proof:
•People will immediately think you are a homosexual for wanting to improve your face
It’s not their fault though. Society is wired in a way that makes people feel like self-improvement for men is going to the gym, and coping with what you cannot change.


- Unfortunately there is no gym for your face

•You will never make it in a sport. Only people with gifted ability can become well-known in a sport. People will tell you to quit a sport in the short run if they think you are dogshit at it. You can put in effort to get better, but you will never reach, or(depending on your genes)get close to the level of a professional because this.

•You can’t study and learn things without being intelligent
Of course you can, but you will always be slower to understand difficult things if you are an un-intelligent person. If a teacher or educator believes that you do not have the potential to take up higher education, they will not tell you to try it. They might tell you that with enough effort, you can do it, but they will not go very far to hide the fact they are spewing lies. They know that people who aren’t genetically gifted are incapable of going far and will end up wage-slaves with barely enough money to live a normal lifestyle.

What can you do about this?

Near to absolutely nothing. Sorry I have to say this but it is reality. You may see miraculous stories about people who should have given up on their life (like David Goggins) doing something amazing that is almost inspirational to hear. But you do not have the same genetics as them. Some people get lucky and realise their own potential later than others, others realise their own genetic failings sooner than others, it’s all the same, just with a different outcome. If you do not have the genetics to do something, yet you insist on doing it, you are a fool. The whole world will spit on you in disgust. Your life will be infinitely worse than if you just gave up.

My point is:

•If it doesn’t come naturally to you, stop trying. You will get nowhere if you continue harming yourself to “improve”
If you believe you can improve though, I am not telling you not to do so.

•You have to make everything you do seem genetic. If people realise that you put in strenuous effort for what you do, they will see you as a “try hard”. Maybe some redpillers will see you as a “hardworking good ethics man”, only to realise that they can’t get to the level you did because of how brutally you worked for it.

•Live life the way your genetics intended you to. If your genetics are good enough to hit the gym, then do it. If your genetics aren’t good enough to ascend, even with carefully thought out looksmaxxing plans, LDAR. Work to improve your strong points, and avoid having to fix errors when possible.

Thanks for reading bhai’s - dstivvy

You need to get off this forum and go get some life experience.

'Talented' People are just people who've been playing from a young age. They're intermediate level when you join their sport as a beginer.

'Intellegent' People are just kids with the privlege of being able to focus soley on academics
 
For me, resorting to surgery to improve aesthetics is very similar to "cheating", and I say this despite the fact that I have good genetics I was damaged by bad habits as a child that caused me malocclusion, and consequently a series of facial defects ...
 
INTRODUCTION

If you aren’t genetically blessed, no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. Think about it like this. Why do normies frown upon surgery so badly? It’s not because of “natural beauty” or any nonsense like that, but it is because of how they find it unsettling when someone who is genetically inferior tries to make themselves better. We all know that normies believe subconsciously believe that:

•Looks are everything

•That some people are “just unattractive”


All that yet most normies still act as if the blue pill is law. Why is this? It’s because they want the world to be like this. Normies love to contradict themselves.

Doing anything to fight against your genetics will end up in backlash.

Here’s proof:
•People will immediately think you are a homosexual for wanting to improve your face
It’s not their fault though. Society is wired in a way that makes people feel like self-improvement for men is going to the gym, and coping with what you cannot change.


- Unfortunately there is no gym for your face

•You will never make it in a sport. Only people with gifted ability can become well-known in a sport. People will tell you to quit a sport in the short run if they think you are dogshit at it. You can put in effort to get better, but you will never reach, or(depending on your genes)get close to the level of a professional because this.

•You can’t study and learn things without being intelligent
Of course you can, but you will always be slower to understand difficult things if you are an un-intelligent person. If a teacher or educator believes that you do not have the potential to take up higher education, they will not tell you to try it. They might tell you that with enough effort, you can do it, but they will not go very far to hide the fact they are spewing lies. They know that people who aren’t genetically gifted are incapable of going far and will end up wage-slaves with barely enough money to live a normal lifestyle.

What can you do about this?

Near to absolutely nothing. Sorry I have to say this but it is reality. You may see miraculous stories about people who should have given up on their life (like David Goggins) doing something amazing that is almost inspirational to hear. But you do not have the same genetics as them. Some people get lucky and realise their own potential later than others, others realise their own genetic failings sooner than others, it’s all the same, just with a different outcome. If you do not have the genetics to do something, yet you insist on doing it, you are a fool. The whole world will spit on you in disgust. Your life will be infinitely worse than if you just gave up.

My point is:

•If it doesn’t come naturally to you, stop trying. You will get nowhere if you continue harming yourself to “improve”
If you believe you can improve though, I am not telling you not to do so.

•You have to make everything you do seem genetic. If people realise that you put in strenuous effort for what you do, they will see you as a “try hard”. Maybe some redpillers will see you as a “hardworking good ethics man”, only to realise that they can’t get to the level you did because of how brutally you worked for it.

•Live life the way your genetics intended you to. If your genetics are good enough to hit the gym, then do it. If your genetics aren’t good enough to ascend, even with carefully thought out looksmaxxing plans, LDAR. Work to improve your strong points, and avoid having to fix errors when possible.

Thanks for reading bhai’s - dstivvy
I like a try hard
 
INTRODUCTION

If you aren’t genetically blessed, no matter what you do, you will never be good enough. Think about it like this. Why do normies frown upon surgery so badly? It’s not because of “natural beauty” or any nonsense like that, but it is because of how they find it unsettling when someone who is genetically inferior tries to make themselves better. We all know that normies believe subconsciously believe that:

•Looks are everything

•That some people are “just unattractive”


All that yet most normies still act as if the blue pill is law. Why is this? It’s because they want the world to be like this. Normies love to contradict themselves.

Doing anything to fight against your genetics will end up in backlash.

Here’s proof:
•People will immediately think you are a homosexual for wanting to improve your face
It’s not their fault though. Society is wired in a way that makes people feel like self-improvement for men is going to the gym, and coping with what you cannot change.


- Unfortunately there is no gym for your face

•You will never make it in a sport. Only people with gifted ability can become well-known in a sport. People will tell you to quit a sport in the short run if they think you are dogshit at it. You can put in effort to get better, but you will never reach, or(depending on your genes)get close to the level of a professional because this.

•You can’t study and learn things without being intelligent
Of course you can, but you will always be slower to understand difficult things if you are an un-intelligent person. If a teacher or educator believes that you do not have the potential to take up higher education, they will not tell you to try it. They might tell you that with enough effort, you can do it, but they will not go very far to hide the fact they are spewing lies. They know that people who aren’t genetically gifted are incapable of going far and will end up wage-slaves with barely enough money to live a normal lifestyle.

What can you do about this?

Near to absolutely nothing. Sorry I have to say this but it is reality. You may see miraculous stories about people who should have given up on their life (like David Goggins) doing something amazing that is almost inspirational to hear. But you do not have the same genetics as them. Some people get lucky and realise their own potential later than others, others realise their own genetic failings sooner than others, it’s all the same, just with a different outcome. If you do not have the genetics to do something, yet you insist on doing it, you are a fool. The whole world will spit on you in disgust. Your life will be infinitely worse than if you just gave up.

My point is:

•If it doesn’t come naturally to you, stop trying. You will get nowhere if you continue harming yourself to “improve”
If you believe you can improve though, I am not telling you not to do so.

•You have to make everything you do seem genetic. If people realise that you put in strenuous effort for what you do, they will see you as a “try hard”. Maybe some redpillers will see you as a “hardworking good ethics man”, only to realise that they can’t get to the level you did because of how brutally you worked for it.

•Live life the way your genetics intended you to. If your genetics are good enough to hit the gym, then do it. If your genetics aren’t good enough to ascend, even with carefully thought out looksmaxxing plans, LDAR. Work to improve your strong points, and avoid having to fix errors when possible.

Thanks for reading bhai’s - dstivvy
dnr, but real, that is why gym is cope if you have decent body
 
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