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"If i lived in a different country i wouldnt be incel"
"If i went to a different college i wouldnt be incel"
"If i had a social circle i wouldnt be incel"
"If i did X at time point Y i wouldnt be incel"
There is no reason to subjecting yourself to mental gymnastics like this. Life just happens, one thng occurs after the other, there are no what ifs sadly.
And most importantly, you have no way of knowing if any of these would have actually made a difference. You just want to believe they did because it gives you hope, that maybe something will happen in the future. It wont, just stop coping, nothing will change, its over.
"If i went to a different college i wouldnt be incel"
"If i had a social circle i wouldnt be incel"
"If i did X at time point Y i wouldnt be incel"
There is no reason to subjecting yourself to mental gymnastics like this. Life just happens, one thng occurs after the other, there are no what ifs sadly.
And most importantly, you have no way of knowing if any of these would have actually made a difference. You just want to believe they did because it gives you hope, that maybe something will happen in the future. It wont, just stop coping, nothing will change, its over.