People who get bullied in HS/College are those with a chip on their shoulder. I've become one of those losers

[Deleted member 16501]

I was a very popular kid in high school and college. Tons of friends in many different groups, everyone liked me. I said and did what I wanted.

I noticed during that time, especially in Uni, that the people who got bullied would get treated this way because they had a massive chip on their shoulder- if someone made a joke about them, they'd take it SO personally. When people realized this, they'd keep doing it.

An example- there was this ugly Jewish guy at Uni that everyone hated- His last name was Beaconsfield.
People used to call him Beaco because he also had a big nose, and he used to get so angry about it. So they kept calling him that. I even once left a facebook message on his birthday saying 'Happy Birthday Beako!'. I was merciless and used to bully and destroy people like this.

Well, after the trauma I've been through, I realize I am now one of these losers. I have a massive chip on my shoulder. If I even get one mild IOD from someone, or some guy looks at me the wrong way, I feel angry inside, and I'm pretty sure it shows. My energy is horrible around people most of the time. I've become the opposite of what I need to be.

I need to heal this shit and fix my neurotransmitters.

 

[Deleted member 19157]

when you get bullied irl u need to make it shown you dont give a shit or have some weird reaction indeed. there was a fgt in our friend group who did that and it was just a repeating cycle of making himself look like a cuck

 

[Deleted member 16501]

when you get bullied irl u need to make it shown you dont give a shit or have some weird reaction indeed. there was a fgt in our friend group who did that and it was just a repeating cycle of making himself look like a cuck

very hard to unwire. Basically you have to move somewhere else and become a different person

 

[Deleted member 19157]

very hard to unwire. Basically you have to move somewhere else and become a different person

yea or just maybe get pussy ig. idk how that mfer turned out but he was the only virgin in our friend group but he got a gf after we stopped talking so ig his life and attitude improved but i heard he still acted cringe. he was decent looking guy though so probably why hes nonincel

 

[thegoat]

Well, after the trauma I've been through, I realize I am now one of these losers. I have a massive chip on my shoulder. If I even get one mild IOD from someone, or some guy looks at me the wrong way, I feel angry inside, and I'm pretty sure it shows. My energy is horrible around people most of the time. I've become the opposite of what I need to be.

Lmao. More evidence that its not possible to ignore social feedback and just act freely / become tera low inhib like you are trying to do.

But it can work to some extent and its what im trying to do as well

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Lmao. More evidence that its not possible to ignore social feedback and just act freely / become tera low inhib like you are trying to do.

But it can work to some extent and its what im trying to do as well

No it is possible.

I created this reality. I had a couple of failures at 20 and 21, and my life gradually spiralled down from there. I attached so much meaning to it. I started to believe I was a loser even though people liked me from 21-27.

Then at 27 I became obese and yes I did start getting a lot of negative social feedback.

As long as you're not subhuman, you literally create your reality from your inner world first.

 

[Mongrelcel]

people who get bullied are loners, and they get bullied because they don't have a social network for back them up

you can't bully or act against a normie/popular guy, you would hurt your own social life because his friends will shun you

if there's enough of them, or if you're sufficiently intertwined in his social life, you could suicide your own social life by doing something like that

 

[RAITEIII]

What did u go through you pussy. None of u know what pain and trauma is

 

[Deleted member 19174]

How does someone even get bullied in college?

 

[6ft4]

So teasing is just a way to weed out insecure, incel rage prone people from the hierarchy, like foids shittesting a guy they are on the fence about attraction wise?

I'll admit I took teasing very personally as a child because I didn't understand why people I did nothing to would start trying to assert themselves over me
If only I knew it was a challenge that could've led to me having social success if I held my own and returned jokes at their expense

 

[Deleted member 16501]

What did u go through you pussy. None of u know what pain and trauma is

Didn't you have a breakdown because your gf left you for a guy with a Big Brazilian cock?

You were obsessed with him, posting pics of the guys cock every day

 

[Deleted member 16501]

How does someone even get bullied in college?

He was an ugly jew who got bullied in school and wanted to rise to the top of all the student societies

Would also boast about his intelligence, saying he didn't study for any of his exams yet got top of the year.

 

[RAITEIII]

Didn't you have a breakdown because your gf left you for a guy with a Big Brazilian cock?

You were obsessed with him, posting pics of the guys cock every day

Who are you? That's not exactly what I was doing but I did post about the issue a lot, like yh I won't deny that "situation" messed me up. And yes, that alone can be an extremly traumatic experience. I have even worse stories but enough is enough. I have 20 k posts here.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

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[Deleted member 16501]

So teasing is just a way to weed out insecure, incel rage prone people from the hierarchy, like foids shittesting a guy they are on the fence about attraction wise?

I'll admit I took teasing very personally as a child because I didn't understand why people I did nothing to would start trying to assert themselves over me
If only I knew it was a challenge that could've led to me having social success if I held my own and returned jokes at their expense

People just tease because they want to feel power. Humans are all evil

Only way to overcome it is to accept human nature- that life is brual, and become a psychopathic motherfucker yourself

the guys who let trauma affect them long term (like me the past 10 years) are weak, they still ask themsleves 'B...BBUT WHY DID THIS HAPPEN?'

deep down we all know the answer- because everyone wants power over someone and nobody gives a shit about you

the answer is to acquire power yourself. In my case I'm lucky I'm very high IQ. Imma stop writing those useless philosophy essays and work 8-16 hours a day for money

 

[RAITEIII]

People just tease because they want to feel power. Humans are all evil

Only way to overcome it is to accept human nature- that life is brual, and become a psychopathic motherfucker yourself

the guys who let trauma affect them long term (like me the past 10 years) are weak, they still ask themsleves 'B...BBUT WHY DID THIS HAPPEN?'

deep down we all know the answer- because everyone wants power over someone and nobody gives a shit about you

the answer is to acquire power yourself. In my case I'm lucky I'm very high IQ. Imma stop writing those useless philosophy essays and work 8-16 hours a day for money

Agreed to a high degree.

However I cannot become that psycopath motherfucker myself. I don't understand why. It's not that I want it to be my default mode, but rather something I am when needed. I think I'm too pure tbh.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Agreed to a high degree.

However I cannot become that psycopath motherfucker myself. I don't understand why. It's not that I want it to be my default mode, but rather something I am when needed. I think I'm too pure tbh.

Psychopath was a strong word I used.
Really its just becoming a total pragmatist and becoming brutally honest with yourself about what would help you be truly happy in your life... then doing it no excuses

And no brah, I've been down that 'too pure' path, it's bullshit. Don't do that to yourself

 

[Deleted member 20565]

all men have a primal instinct to not tolerate even a tiny bit of disrespect. those raised like women however have grown to hide it and let people stomp on their fucking face

 

[RAITEIII]

Psychopath was a strong word I used.
Really its just becoming a total pragmatist and becoming brutally honest with yourself about what would help you be truly happy in your life... then doing it no excuses

And no brah, I've been down that 'too pure' path, it's bullshit. Don't do that to yourself

How do you change?

 

[RAITEIII]

Psychopath was a strong word I used.
Really its just becoming a total pragmatist and becoming brutally honest with yourself about what would help you be truly happy in your life... then doing it no excuses

And no brah, I've been down that 'too pure' path, it's bullshit. Don't do that to yourself

And whose alt are u bro?

 

[Deleted member 16501]

How do you change?

I can only say I went through years of torture till I got more and more honest with myself. The more of a bitch you've been in your life, the more lies you've told yourself.

What I thought was my personality was really just a bunch of lies I told to make myself feel comfortable.

I have been ripping the delusion off for a year now and now I'm just brutally honest with what has happened to my life, and what it would take to truly change it.

I went through all this philosophy/introspective stuff for a few years but now it's time for full action.

I reccomend the JulienHimself YouTube channel but it really is all about being brutally honest with yourself at all times and taking the uncomfortable actions every day you know you need to take.

 

[Deleted member 16501]

And whose alt are u bro?

Holymanro

 

[RAITEIII]

Holymanro

I never saw that name. How come you know my oneitis story.

I can only say I went through years of torture till I got more and more honest with myself. The more of a bitch you've been in your life, the more lies you've told yourself.

What I thought was my personality was really just a bunch of lies I told to make myself feel comfortable.

I have been ripping the delusion off for a year now and now I'm just brutally honest with what has happened to my life, and what it would take to truly change it.

I went through all this philosophy/introspective stuff for a few years but now it's time for full action.

I reccomend the JulienHimself YouTube channel but it really is all about being brutally honest with yourself at all times and taking the uncomfortable actions every day you know you need to take.

I see. I am honest with myself actually in that way. But I think that there's a certain disadventage when you face someone with little to no values in certain situation. So then yh, you must be a little of a psycho.

Cheers

 

[Deleted member 16501]

I never saw that name. How come you know my oneitis story.

I was here in 2019-2020 I saw all those threads you made

I will answer your other part tomorrow man its 5.50am here gotta sleep

 

[copemaxxeer]

people who get bullied are loners, and they get bullied because they don't have a social network for back them up

you can't bully or act against a normie/popular guy, you would hurt your own social life because his friends will shun you

if there's enough of them, or if you're sufficiently intertwined in his social life, you could suicide your own social life by doing something like that

Imagine caring about all this shit when an introverted 6+ PSL Chad can just annihilate all your bullshit social circle by merely standing right besides you

 

[RAITEIII]

I was here in 2019-2020 I saw all those threads you made

I will answer your other part tomorrow man its 5.50am here gotta sleep

SMH. For what it's worth it, I'll say that those type deserve to be beheaded. Shall the incel wrath fall upon them.


Rest well mate.

 

[Johnnybegood]

Who are you? That's not exactly what I was doing but I did post about the issue a lot, like yh I won't deny that "situation" messed me up. And yes, that alone can be an extremly traumatic experience. I have even worse stories but enough is enough. I have 20 k posts here.

How the fuck did you knew the size of his cock??!! Am i missing something here @DaRealSixpence ???

 

[Johnnybegood]

Imagine caring about all this shit when an introverted 6+ PSL Chad can just annihilate all your bullshit social circle by merely standing right besides you

In your bio it says you're a 5.5psl. Did you come up with a random number just for lolz or did someone gave you that rating?

 

[RAITEIII]

How the fuck did you knew the size of his cock??!! Am i missing something here @DaRealSixpence ???

Because they were bragging on snatchap. Posting his intimate pictures on her account.

It's odd that I slept with that whore in april... but well cest life. We ended up on good terms.

 

[Johnnybegood]

Because they were bragging on snatchap. Posting his intimate pictures on her account.

It's odd that I slept with that whore in april... but well cest life. We ended up on good terms.

What?! What kind of a whore did you sleot with holy shit!! Was she white?

 

[RAITEIII]

What?! What kind of a whore did you sleot with holy shit!! Was she white?

Yh... I haven't been very lucky honestly.

I have even more messed up stories but it's too much already I'm gonna make myself the laughing stock of the whole internet if I were to keep going.

 

[RAITEIII]

Yh... I haven't been very lucky honestly.

I have even more messed up stories but it's too much already I'm gonna make myself the laughing stock of the whole internet if I were to keep going.

I dont wanna be known for all these disgraces and slandering that is around me on this forum. How about my greatness? Anyway... perhaps my only way to clear my name is turn into homie ER legend?

 

[Johnnybegood]

Yh... I haven't been very lucky honestly.

I have even more messed up stories but it's too much already I'm gonna make myself the laughing stock of the whole internet if I were to keep going.

Bro can you dm me pictures of your ex-whore and her boyfriend. I just want to know which kind of a skank would do such a thing. I promise full privacy...never ever will i show it to anyone.

stuff like this can happen to anyone brother

 

[Mongrelcel]

Imagine caring about all this shit when an introverted 6+ PSL Chad can just annihilate all your bullshit social circle by merely standing right besides you

nah what i said is true

6psl chad doesent automatically mean socially dominant
he can be introverted, low energy, or shy or just fucking dry as hell

you wont automatically become the life of the party just being gl
do you even go out?

 

[copemaxxeer]

you wont automatically become the life of the party just being gl
do you even go out?

You are making the mistake of even assuming Chad has to go to parties, he doesn't, there are plenty of Stacy lites and HTBs that dislike parties and would rather stay home watching anime/playing video games or doing some random hobby, parties are for loser coper subchadlites