People who weren’t abused by their parents or siblings have no idea how much it influences you

[The Grinch]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at (while being a literal child), they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents.

My white friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study and also had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life, i slept like 2-3 hours per night, was in school during the day and working during the night, had to go to the toilet to sleep half an hour sometimes. That’s the life of us ethnics, and you still call us lazy.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

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[ltnbrownacnecel]

My parents are actually crazy sometimes.

 

[cvskll]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at, they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents. My friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my own apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study, had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

dnr but look at rira for example. He used to get abused and look how badly he turned out.

 

[polonaecel]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at, they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents. My friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my own apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study, had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

Im sorry to hear this man abuse really fucks up your development, you cant take back what they did to you but you can break the cycle

 

[Anthony111554]

OP was abused and neglected as a child

 

[Deleted member 300965]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at, they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents. My friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my own apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study, had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

Muh abuse lil nigga

 

[BigBallsLarry]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at, they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents. My friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my own apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study, had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

Very true thread. Your parents and siblings are the main influences to how your brain develops.

I was yelled at and beaten by my parents all the time, i was always told against having 'wordly' friends (religion thing) and wouldn't be allowed to go outside.

Now i am extremely anti-social, and because of my parents madness - i was also forced to live alone since i was 16, which didn't help my development at all.

 

[polonaecel]

dnr but look at rira for example. He used to get abused and look how badly he turned out.

confirmation bias

 

[The Grinch]

@Saint Casanova

 

[pslturi]

mirin the thread.


this is very true and is my place in life atm being unable to do shit abt it as well
as well i'm trying but is hard this way

 

[morono]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at, they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents. My friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my an apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study, had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

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until i was 13 my older step-brother ( 17 at the time) used to hit me daily like no exceptions, my parents didnt really care, fast forward a year as i started to grow and reach puberty, he was 5'9 (he and i have no blood relation) i was around 5'6 when he started, the day i reached his height and i was fairly used to his punches, i pummeled him till he had to go to the hospital

 

[The Grinch]

until i was 13 my older step-brother ( 17 at the time) used to hit me daily like no exceptions, my parents didnt really care, fast forward a year as i started to grow and reach puberty, he was 5'9 (he and i have no blood relation) i was around 5'6 when he started, the day i reached his height and i was fairly used to his punches, i pummeled him till he had to go to the hospital

My brother was only about 1 year older than me, we had to endure the same shit. He‘s married today though, but i never managed to find back on track. He doesn’t talk to our parents anymore, because he despises them, broke all contact. I still have contact to them, they constantly ask me to call him, but he always says he won’t ever talk to them again.

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[160cmcurry]

common in ethnic households

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Sometimes i think about people who had a peaceful family, they always felt safe around their family members, they never had to run to their room as soon as their parent entered the house in fear of being yelled at (while being a literal child), they never been beaten, they never felt scared around their own parents.

My white friends IRL have never been beaten at home, they even got supported financially after turning 18 to get their own apartment. I had my apartment too, but i had to live with other people while i also had to study and also had to do part time jobs to even afford a normal life, i slept like 2-3 hours per night, was in school during the day and working during the night, had to go to the toilet to sleep half an hour sometimes. That’s the life of us ethnics, and you still call us lazy.

That’s a moment where i feel envious of western people, they grew up in peace and had the chance to develope normallly, they didn‘t grow up in survival mode every day

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I was beaten by my father but was never scared of him. It wasn't like I was walking on eggshells or anything. There was always a reason for it when it happened, and when it did I knew it was because I fucked up. Like the time I got caught vandalizing a Halloween exhibit in an adjacent neighborhood. Or the time I threw a little girl into a room at my grandmother's house party and beat her up for no reason.

If my father didn't beat me as a kid I would without a doubt be serving life without parole right now.

 

[morono]

My brother was only about 1 year older than me, we had to endure the same shit. He‘s married today though, but i never managed to find back on track. He doesn’t talk to our parents anymore, because he despises them, broke all contact. I still have contact.

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tbh for me, it was only my brother, i broke contact w him the moment i could, but fuck i just wanna go back in time and give him a few more punches sothat he could etleast be disabled by now

 

[Deleted member 180145]

until i was 13 my older step-brother ( 17 at the time) used to hit me daily like no exceptions, my parents didnt really care, fast forward a year as i started to grow and reach puberty, he was 5'9 (he and i have no blood relation) i was around 5'6 when he started, the day i reached his height and i was fairly used to his punches, i pummeled him till he had to go to the hospital

top 10 most satisfying anime moments

 

[The Grinch]

I was beaten by my father but was never scared of him. It wasn't like I was walking on eggshells or anything. There was always a reason for it when it happened, and when it did I knew it was because I fucked up. Like the time I got caught vandalizing a Halloween exhibit in an adjacent neighborhood. Or the time I threw a little girl into a room at my grandmother's house party and beat her up for no reason.

If my father didn't beat me as a kid I would without a doubt be serving life without parole right now.

We were very scared of our parents, because we knew they don’t really like us, they didn’t slap us, they punched us, broke bones and told us to lie to our teachers if they saw we were injured, we weren’t allowed to go to the hospital either, we had to accept having a broken nose. I still get asked why my nose looks broken and i have to lie about the reason, have to invent some story

 

[Deleted member 180145]

My brother was only about 1 year older than me, we had to endure the same shit. He‘s married today though, but i never managed to find back on track. He doesn’t talk to our parents anymore, because he despises them, broke all contact. I still have contact to them, they constantly ask me to call him, but he always says he won’t ever talk to them again.

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bro how many siblings do you have? and how many of them are older/younger than you? from what I gather you have at least three, one older two younger

 

[Lefty Rankin]

We were very scared of our parents, because we knew they don’t really like us, they didn’t slap us, they punched us, broke bones and told us to lie to our teachers if they saw we were injured, we weren’t allowed to go to the hospital either, we had to accept having a broken nose. I still get asked why my nose looks broken and i have to lie about the reason, have to invent some story

Mine didn't break any bones. My grampa broke two of my fingers though. I was fucking with him in his chair and he caught me.

My parents did tell me what would happen though if I told the people at school, which I threatened to do. They told me I'd be taken away and put in foster care.

 

[The Grinch]

bro how many siblings do you have? and how many of them are older/younger than you? from what I gather you have at least three, one older two younger

1 older brother and 2 younger sisters

 

[The Grinch]

They told me I'd be taken away and put in foster care.

I was in foster care for some months. I fled from home when i was 16

 

[Saint Casanova]

Same thing happens with Slavs. Mothers constantly chimp out on their sons especially. Probably due to their hatred of Slavic men.

One poor guy I knew was constantly abused. He was told he was good for nothing, will be homeless, useless ect. He became a junkie unfortunately,

 

[The Grinch]

Bump

 

[Gamerspyy786]

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