People with severe facial deformities, how was life like?

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Sorry if this sounds like those dumbass reddit posts but im genuinely curious if anyone here with a big facial deformity can tell me
 
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I grew up with severe strabismus as well as generally subhuman facial ratios I can tell you it was fucking hell
 
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I have a deformity in my brain , that makes me unable to get a girlfriend
 
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For me since my deformity is also associated with mental retardation / disability my experience has been adults would take pity on me and automatically treat me like I’m below them on first sight, while my peers would hate me without even speaking to me and spread rumors behind my back, with the occasional pity from them too. Basically nobody can bring themself to have respect for you and you become an animal/ object to them instead of a human being.
 
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For me since my deformity is also associated with mental retardation / disability my experience has been adults would take pity on me and automatically treat me like I’m below them on first sight, while my peers would hate me without even speaking to me and spread rumors behind my back, with the occasional pity from them too. Basically nobody can bring themself to have respect for you and you become an animal/ object to them instead of a human being.
Brutal what is wrong with Normies ?
 
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life was like existence as existing was to live
 
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Brutal what is wrong with Normies ?
I can’t even blame them tbh because if I was in their shoes I would also treat myself like utter shit and disgust. It’s simply in our nature as sinful creatures to base our morality off of aesthetics. That’s why Jesus Christ is my only friend, he’s the only one capable of love without human limitation.
 
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Sorry if this sounds like those dumbass reddit posts but im genuinely curious if anyone here with a big facial deformity can tell me
what do you think it was like
 
Yeah I've a lot cranial deformities but I've health issues for years

Life is hell no matter how hard you'll work and better than others none will admire you or show you empathy

Even your own parents treat you like a shit candy and then they wonder why you're "shy" or not "love them":ROFLMAO:

Literally is shit but it's the challenge I've to face but the problem is the face and my health:forcedsmile::feelscry:

The worst is that in my country you can't have a lot of money if you're not in the "club" and even if you have 10k they don't offer/give surgeries that it's crucial for your health even(I'm talking about Mse/marpe/sarpe/bimax/)

For now i cope with fillers i look decent good but i can live 10x better now but none will change my mind for this shit world
 
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I pity maxxed to get female attention
 
I can’t even blame them tbh because if I was in their shoes I would also treat myself like utter shit and disgust. It’s simply in our nature as sinful creatures to base our morality off of aesthetics. That’s why Jesus Christ is my only friend, he’s the only one capable of love without human limitation.
You're right but don't try to make them look better they're asholes and they're asholes because they're not real christians or just good human beings

This people are not even humans or animals they're just demons atp

They only reason they treat us like this is because they don't care about subhumans and they're not smart enough to understand reality and show empathy

The time we live it's complicated but it's not some hard shit skill to show empathy to a disabled/deformed humans even normal they don't even like their own life self

Their ego is to high to be forgiven by God all you have to do keep living pray be good human/person anv you'll get reward at the end :feelsokman:
 
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You're right but don't try to make them look better they're asholes and they're asholes because they're not real christians or just good human beings

This people are not even humans or animals they're just demons atp

They only reason they treat us like this is because they don't care about subhumans and they're not smart enough to understand reality and show empathy

The time we live it's complicated but it's not some hard shit skill to show empathy to a disabled/deformed humans even normal they don't even like their own life self

Their ego is to high to be forgiven by God all you have to do keep living pray be good human/person anv you'll get reward at the end :feelsokman:
Yeah I just think the reason we’re collectively like this, discriminating against the unfortunate throughout all of history, it’s a subconscious force because of the sin we’re born in as a species. I believe all of man is depraved from birth and we all automatically deserve hell because of that. Only God can truly understand this in his entirety. Whenever we try to understand and accommodate, it comes from an inauthentic and performative place to signal virtue to each other. So unaesthetic people will never reach true equality, because to treat us with equality would simply be a performance. Only God has the heart to love equally. Only God will ever love us.
 
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Im genuinely wondering what defines a facial deformity
Give the lowest example.. bug eyes? Manletism? Would it be a lefort 2-3 candidate? Someone with an overbite? A birth defect? Visible disability?
 
Im genuinely wondering what defines a facial deformity
Give the lowest example.. bug eyes? Manletism? Would it be a lefort 2-3 candidate? Someone with an overbite? A birth defect? Visible disability?
I would say any aesthetic variance that’s immediately associated with poor health by biological instinct
 
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I would say any aesthetic variance that’s immediately associated with poor health by biological instinct
That’s very autistic and unrealistic but thanks
 
That’s very autistic and unrealistic but thanks
Not at all

If a normie sees something on a niggas face and his first thought is,damn that nigga has a health issue, that’s a deformity

Minor recession? No

So recessed you have a hard time eating? Yes

Mole? No

Cleft palate? Yes
 
Not at all

If a normie sees something on a niggas face and his first thought is,damn that nigga has a health issue, that’s a deformity

Minor recession? No

So recessed you have a hard time eating? Yes

Mole? No

Cleft palate? Yes
Thanks for clarifying
 
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@Ahmed88 so?
,,saar he iz tag 2 times in week, he iz obsesessed wiz me"- verdam


So verdam, tell me, are you obsessed with me? Do you crave my attention, whore?
 
,,saar he iz tag 2 times in week, he iz obsesessed wiz me"- verdam


So verdam, tell me, are you obsessed with me? Do you crave my attention, whore?
calm down g.
 
Yeah I just think the reason we’re collectively like this, discriminating against the unfortunate throughout all of history, it’s a subconscious force because of the sin we’re born in as a species. I believe all of man is depraved from birth and we all automatically deserve hell because of that. Only God can truly understand this in his entirety. Whenever we try to understand and accommodate, it comes from an inauthentic and performative place to signal virtue to each other. So unaesthetic people will never reach true equality, because to treat us with equality would simply be a performance. Only God has the heart to love equally. Only God will ever love us.
Then i might the God :forcedsmile:

Nah I'm kidding

Understand what you mean but

Is that true that he doesn't like us or maybe he likes us more than anyone else??

To reach up to heaven you have to suffer so bad that none else can get hurt like that and no matter how they treat you need to love them

Everyone should carry his own cross like Jesus to get reward up there

So those who crave for looks only will get to "hell" (most women currently will go to hell than men)

Men always had empathy and even more than women most of the times but we have to hide our motions for others

And take look at Saints again just see their ratios

They're all LLTN none good looking

So do you really think that people like us are got like this because we will go to hell or we have the chance more than anyone to reach up there :feelsokman:

People like to claim I'm good and then I'm bad but may God forgive :ROFLMAO:

Do you really think he'll forgive us after we have destroyed thousands of souls:forcedsmile:

That's a story someone made up for "bad humans" so can everyone reach up there and unfortunately not everyone will reach up there

So rethink do you really think that men deserve hell or women who judge their own kids deserve less??

None deserve lees or more but you see the pure awful souls we have to face in this world
 
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Severe acne scarring that only recently got fixed. Women's FACE would turn to disgust whenever I was in their presence. They would actively try to get away from me, or pretend like I don't exist, start laughing at me for no reason, make comments like "eww" and other nasty shit for no reason. Humiliation rituals, passive-aggressive behaviour... everything you can think of. They were incredibly cruel to me.

I don't care how much I keep ascending from here, I will never forget the way I was treated my entire life. Only people that have been in the bottom 3 percentile of looks can understand the way people and women are.
 
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Then i might the God :forcedsmile:

Nah I'm kidding

Understand what you mean but

Is that true that he doesn't like us or maybe he likes us more than anyone else??

To reach up to heaven you have to suffer so bad that none else can get hurt like that and no matter how they treat you need to love them

Everyone should carry his own cross like Jesus to get reward up there

So those who crave for looks only will get to "hell" (most women currently will go to hell than men)

Men always had empathy and even more than women most of the times but we have to hide our motions for others

And take look at Saints again just see their ratios

They're all LLTN none good looking

So do you really think that people like us are got like this because we will go to hell or we have the chance more than anyone to reach up there :feelsokman:

People like to claim I'm good and then I'm bad but may God forgive :ROFLMAO:

Do you really think he'll forgive us after we have destroyed thousands of souls:forcedsmile:

That's a story someone made up for "bad humans" so can everyone reach up there and unfortunately not everyone will reach up there

So rethink do you really think that men deserve hell or women who judge their own kids deserve less??

None deserve lees or more but you see the pure awful souls we have to face in this world
I think God likes the part of us that we can exemplify by glorifying him and he wants to purify us of the things that make us human like greed, jealousy, war

I don’t think the afterlife is based on actions or works but rather just believing in God is enough to prove to him that you’re capable of being purified when he returns to make things right and redeem
 
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