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[sphenocide]

are any interactions real? Or are people just so focused on themselves? I feel like people only care about themselves and how they display themselves in interactions rather than really trying to understand you and really interact with you, or rather talk about themselves if it gets deep. Incel ramblings tbh but I’ve never really had anyone talk to me for me, if you know what I mean

 

[Deleted member 259412]

Yeah most people don’t give a damn

 

[BigBallsLarry]

are any interactions real? Or are people just so focused on themselves? I feel like people only care about themselves and how they display themselves in interactions rather than really trying to understand you and really interact with you, or rather talk about themselves if it gets deep. Incel ramblings tbh but I’ve never really had anyone talk to me for me, if you know what I mean

I mean, i can use myself as an example, but as bad as it sounds i never really care about an interaction with someone.

I appreciate them sticking out and speaking to me but that's as far as it usually goes. Most real life interactions are fake and meaningless from both sides, and i have no reason to remember them for more than 5 minutes.

However, this isn't a bad thing, as if you have this mindset you'll be much less anti-social and care less about "embarassment". It comes with a downside of being less willing to speak to people overall though.

 

[sphenocide]

I mean, i can use myself as an example, but as bad as it sounds i never really care about an interaction with someone.

I appreciate them sticking out and speaking to me but that's as far as it usually goes. Most real life interactions are fake and meaningless from both sides, and i have no reason to remember them for more than 5 minutes.

However, this isn't a bad thing, as if you have this mindset you'll be much less anti-social and care less about "embarassment". It comes with a downside of being less willing to speak to people overall though.

I wish I could relate, I pre plan everything out in my head and care how I'm perceived quite a bit. So I guess similarly my interactions are also fake but not because I don't care