Personality/Character matters so much in relationships

[Deleted member 3789]

Are the members on this forum just wanting a spree of one night stands?

What is your motivation behind your glorification of random fuckings without a personal connection to that person?

Is it because you never had the pleasure of experiencing a one night stand and because of this you have this obsession with trying to catch up?

Is it because you are just not that interested in having a relationship with another human being who loves you and cares for you?

Is it because you are anti-social and just want to have your sexual instincts satisfied?

Like what it is with you guys?

Personality matters so much in long lasting relationships

If you are gonna spend time with a person for the rest of your life and if not then alot of time then you want that person to be someone you can emotionally and mentally relate/connect to

Do most of you not understand this?

Are you mentally ill? Like what makes you not understand this simple concept?

 

[eduardkoopman]

I agree. LTR moggs.

The 1 LTR I had, that I liked. Mogged all short flings into a blackhole.
I liked her alot, and actually loved her. And I probably visa versa also. Obviously managing a relationship, needs some savageness as well.

Anyways.
for me.

Flings, ONS, are or can be fun.
But a good LTR, with a sane woman, whom ideally also looks good. Moggs, overall. It has more upsides, was my experience.

By the Way.
Looksmaxxing for getting a good LTR, is very samrt to do. Increases odds, imo.

 

[AlexAP]

I agree. LTR moggs.

The 1 LTR I had, that I liked. Mogged all short flings into a blackhole.
I liked her alot, and actually loved her. And I probably visa versa also. Obviously managing a relationship, needs some savageness as well.

Anyways.
for me.

Flings, ONS, are or can be fun.
But a good LTR, with a sane woman, whom ideally also looks good. Moggs, overall. It has more upsides, was my experience.

By the Way.
Looksmaxxing for getting a good LTR, is very samrt to do. Increases odds, imo.

Would you think that if you had HTN/Chadlite looks and could consistently slay good-looking women without much effort, you would have enjoyed it at least the same as a LTR?

I guess it really may depend if you have it easy or not. Some Chadlites/Chads may be happy with 4-5 FWB in a rotation and some ONS in between and genuinely prefer it to a LTR.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

I can't take a relationship serious

 

[eduardkoopman]

Would you think that if you had HTN/Chadlite looks and could consistently slay good-looking women without much effort, you would have enjoyed it at least the same as a LTR?

I guess it really may depend if you have it easy or not. Some Chadlites/Chads may be happy with 4-5 FWB in a rotation and some ONS in between and genuinely prefer it to a LTR.

for me, I think than LTR would still mogg for me.
But I'm introverted significantly. So I prefer a life with limited amounts of social activities and new peoples, and so on. I need significant amounts of social rest/downtime to reload. For me therefore LTR mogg.

If I was build extraverted. than rotations and slaying lifestyle, would probably be more fulfilliung feeling for me.

 

[AlexAP]

for me, I think than LTR would still mogg for me.
But I'm introverted significantly. So I prefer a life with limited amounts of social activities and new peoples, and so on. I need significant amounts of social rest/downtime to reload. For me therefore LTR mogg.

If I was build extraverted. than rotations and slaying lifestyle, would probably be more fulfilliung feeling for me.

Well, you still have time to find out. Maybe you can pull out a few years of slaying and report back for introverts.

 

[eduardkoopman]

Well, you still have time to find out. Maybe you can pull out a few years of slaying and report back for introverts.

even if I could. I doubt I would enjoy it, for longer time. I can't imgaine enjoying rotating 4-5 womens, for a longer time.


introversion/extraversion, I read about and how the brains work differently. And in an online test I did, I was laballed as introverted significanlty, outside of the average alot.
Which I can realted to.
Being introverted means, that you get tired/exhausted from alot of time in social situations. So slaying, is a very heavy social actyivity alot of the time. So I would assume, I would get tired of it pretty soon.

In short.
introverted brains get energized when alone
extraverted brains get energized when doing social stuff.

Being extraverted, sounds imo ideal. But one can't chose which one one is.

 

[Enfant terrible]

i agree

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Are the members on this forum just wanting a spree of one night stands?

What is your motivation behind your glorification of random fuckings without a personal connection to that person?

Is it because you never had the pleasure of experiencing a one night stand and because of this you have this obsession with trying to catch up?

Is it because you are just not that interested in having a relationship with another human being who loves you and cares for you?

Is it because you are anti-social and just want to have your sexual instincts satisfied?

Like what it is with you guys?

Personality matters so much in long lasting relationships

If you are gonna spend time with a person for the rest of your life and if not then alot of time then you want that person to be someone you can emotionally and mentally relate/connect to

Do most of you not understand this?

Are you mentally ill? Like what makes you not understand this simple concept?

You're right. I'm always encouraging people on here to develope their character.

 

[Deleted member 7725]

You're acting like we can even get into an LTR. I've never even had a conversation with a girl because of my looks.

 

[Deleted member 3789]

You're acting like we can even get into an LTR. I've never even had a conversation with a girl because of my looks.

You never even attempted to talk to a girl. Not even attempted to do it. You use your looks as an excuse not to do something when you're too high inhibition to do it. Keep making excuses on being a coward

 

[Deleted member 7725]

You never even attempted to talk to a girl. Not even attempted to do it. You use your looks as an excuse not to do something when you're too high inhibition to do it. Keep making excuses on being a coward

Who said I never attempted to talk to a girl? I've attempted many times, I've just never had a conversation because they would give 1 word answers or just walk away to their friend. I'm avoided by girls like the plague.

I have 0 friends so no girls to talk to through them. I don't have any friends due to my looks, and people have openly told me that.

I'm an online entrepreneur so I don't work with any girls to talk to.