Personality doesn't matter for making friends

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Everything is just material. Just like nobody really 'loves' anybody, they also don't really make 'friends' with other people, either.

How many ugly poor people have friends? How many rich good looking people have them?

Exactly.

'Friendship' = a materially beneficial relationship

The purpose of making 'friends' is to benefit either socially (networking), materially (making a rich friend), sexually (hoping to get a future romantic partner), etc. Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.

Friendships don't exist. They're just the social version of the 'love' bluepill.

Normies will defend the idea to the death that their friends are their friends for other reasons but this is just coping. They merely lack self-awareness or they are coping themselves.
 
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do you have ocd? you have way too many theories about how the world works for someone who has 0 IRL experience
 
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do you have ocd? you have way too many theories about how the world works for someone who has 0 IRL experience
He is right tho
 
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do you have ocd? you have way too many theories about how the world works for someone who has 0 IRL experience
its crazy too jfl niggas believe him

i made good friends (close ones) with poor guys, rich guys, good guys, ugly guys, it's all about the personnality

i met some gl guys, ugly guys, rich or poor guys that were super blank and we had nothing in common as friends so i didn't care

he thinks everything revolve around the blackpill IRL
 
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0 + personality only matters in friendship tons of poor ugly people friendmog this entire forum to death , its too obvious that you have 0 life experience
 
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This is one of the most retarded posts I’ve seen here lol. I’ve been friends with the same niggas since I was 5 years old, we don’t ask each other for shit or try to benefit from each other, we just hangout. Have you ever had any friends OP
 
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Every relationship is transactional.

The only genuine relationship is with your parents. They don't care if you're a subhuman 40 year old NEET with an iq of 80. They'll still call your their 'little king'.
 
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That's definitely the case for trying to become friends with the usual "NT" psychopaths.
 
Just listen to advice from a friendless incel
 
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Everything is just material. Just like nobody really 'loves' anybody, they also don't really make 'friends' with other people, either.

How many ugly poor people have friends? How many rich good looking people have them?

Exactly.

'Friendship' = a materially beneficial relationship

The purpose of making 'friends' is to benefit either socially (networking), materially (making a rich friend), sexually (hoping to get a future romantic partner), etc. Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.

Friendships don't exist. They're just the social version of the 'love' bluepill.

Normies will defend the idea to the death that their friends are their friends for other reasons but this is just coping. They merely lack self-awareness or they are coping themselves.
It's all about personality jfl, but personality is just like look... U need luck to have a good personality, u need to born in a good enviroment with good parents and no traumas...
 
Just listen to advice from a friendless incel
"Just take a shower bro:soy:"

Jfl at all you faggots that think 'experience' means fucking anything in this case. Or for much of anything in general. Everything is inherent. All your skills, abilities, looks/friends/status/etc it's all set in stone. You idiots are just coping or you underestimate your looks (don't have a true looks failo).
 
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"Just take a shower bro:soy:"

Jfl at all you faggots that think 'experience' means fucking anything in this case. Or for much of anything in general. Everything is inherent. All your skills, abilities, looks/friends/status/etc it's all set in stone. You idiots are just coping or you underestimate your looks (don't have a true looks failo).
Even the most ugly guys i know have friends retard. Looks is mostly for foids. Sure u get halo for being gl with friends but u can still have connections with ur bros
 
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This is one of the most retarded posts I’ve seen here lol. I’ve been friends with the same niggas since I was 5 years old, we don’t ask each other for shit or try to benefit from each other, we just hangout. Have you ever had any friends OP
Bro thinks all normie dudes check for the looks of their friends

Menawhile if OP had friends he would know sometimes ur closest best friends would roast ur looks sumtimes and u would do the same and yall would have yall back everytime

Blackpill only matters when it's to girls and you can't tell me otherwise
 
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Even the most ugly guys i know have friends retard. Looks is mostly for foids. Sure u get halo for being gl with friends but u can still have connections with ur bros

This guy had 'friends'. Or so it seemed.

You're coping.
 
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This guy had 'friends'. Or so it seemed.

You're coping.
Intersting.
Well ig u should atleast not be ugly
And i dont know a single ugly person irl
 
'Friendship' = a materially beneficial relationship

The purpose of making 'friends' is to benefit either socially (networking), materially (making a rich friend), sexually (hoping to get a future romantic partner), etc. Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.

This is kinda true and it becomes more apparent with age. You have to provide some value to the other person. But personality is still a minimum requirement. There are tons of people I could use for personal gain, but that simply can't happen if we don't get along. As for the other part, it's been proven that people are generally friends with those of similar attractiveness, social class, etc.
 
Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.
I care, it doesn't matter to me how a person looks or how rich he is, if he's smart, funny and we have things in common, then I will befriend him, most good looking or rich guys I've met tended to be pretty obnoxious and entitled, so I avoided them.
 
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This is kinda true and it becomes more apparent with age. You have to provide some value to the other person. But personality is still a minimum requirement. There are tons of people I could use for personal gain, but that simply can't happen if we don't get along. As for the other part, it's been proven that people are generally friends with those of similar attractiveness, social class, etc.
imo stuff like social class and similar attractiveness are just results of having a similar life experience. chad makes friends with chad because they have a commonality in getting chicks easy. i dont think ppl go out of their way to pick specific traits of their friends group, but the commonality in circumstances push these people together. i remember a strong MTN maybe HTN friend tried to talk to me about girls but immediately realized im an incel because im a recessed abused dog LTN and he never brought up girls again with me lol. we drifted apart because we just didnt have very many things in common in terms of life experiences and hobbies.
 
Everything is just material. Just like nobody really 'loves' anybody, they also don't really make 'friends' with other people, either.

How many ugly poor people have friends? How many rich good looking people have them?

Exactly.

'Friendship' = a materially beneficial relationship

The purpose of making 'friends' is to benefit either socially (networking), materially (making a rich friend), sexually (hoping to get a future romantic partner), etc. Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.

Friendships don't exist. They're just the social version of the 'love' bluepill.

Normies will defend the idea to the death that their friends are their friends for other reasons but this is just coping. They merely lack self-awareness or they are coping themselves.
a lot of it is by coincidence or just being around the same person a lot / having ppl in ur neighborhood
cuz i’m incel i have no one my age in my neighborhood let alone someone with shared intereats
 
Every relationship is transactional.

The only genuine relationship is with your parents. They don't care if you're a subhuman 40 year old NEET with an iq of 80. They'll still call your their 'little king'.
not my parents
 
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Even the most ugly guys i know have friends retard. Looks is mostly for foids. Sure u get halo for being gl with friends but u can still have connections with ur bros
It's still a transactional relationship. You're getting a 'loyal' person who you can do activities with and vice versa. Both parties are benefitting from the friendship.

You wouldn't befriend someone that made you do their grocery/clothes shopping, wipe their ass, and cook them dinner everyday because you're not gaining anything from it. In fact, you'll be losing time, energy, and resources. That's an example of a genuine (parental) relationship.
 
Every relationship is transactional.

The only genuine relationship is with your parents. They don't care if you're a subhuman 40 year old NEET with an iq of 80. They'll still call your their 'little

JFL if you think your parents love you. They see you as asset, an ugly, but at least, an asset.

Ugly kids are treated like shit by parents and the more narcissistic, the worse they will treat you as an ugly man. Meanwhile, your Chaddy brother lives like a Pharaoh wherever he goes.
 
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JFL if you think your parents love you. They see you as asset, an ugly, but at least, an asset.

Ugly kids are treated like shit by parents and the more narcissistic, the worse they will treat you as an ugly man. Meanwhile, your Chaddy brother lives like a Pharaoh wherever he goes.
And hilariously the foid mother will treat her ugly son even worse if she herself is also ugly. I've seen this so many times. It's like they hate the fact that their ugly offspring reminds them of their own genetic shortcomings so they take it out on them via passive-aggressive behavior.
 
Male friends are way lookist, ableist and even racist than foids. I have seen normies treating like shit Non-NT ugly guys and bullying themselves just for pussy. Meanwhile landwhale ugly foid is treated like a goddess by simp "friends".
 
Everything is just material. Just like nobody really 'loves' anybody, they also don't really make 'friends' with other people, either.

How many ugly poor people have friends? How many rich good looking people have them?

Exactly.

'Friendship' = a materially beneficial relationship

The purpose of making 'friends' is to benefit either socially (networking), materially (making a rich friend), sexually (hoping to get a future romantic partner), etc. Nobody gives a shit about somebody that is ugly, poor, has no connections, etc, because it doesn't offer any benefit. Nobody cares about your 'personality' in that case.

Friendships don't exist. They're just the social version of the 'love' bluepill.

Normies will defend the idea to the death that their friends are their friends for other reasons but this is just coping. They merely lack self-awareness or they are coping themselves.
Nope, they do exist, they’re just rare. Not for people like you. Normies get them though.
 

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