Personality isn’t under your control

[Dr. Mog]

This fact is probably the most hard to swallow, but personality is out of your control due to a phenomenon known as the “Halo effect”.

An ugly guy may be confident, extrovertive and outgoing at the beginning. However; because he is ugly women will show no interest in him and nobody will want to include him in their social circles, so eventually after years of bullying and social/sexual rejection he will become shy, quiet and introvertive because of negative re-inforcement due to his looks.

conversely, an attractive guy may be shy, quiet and introvertive to begin with. But men will want to be his friend, women will fight over him and try their best to get his attention, and as a consequence of this positive reinforcement, he will become more confident, outgoing and extrovertive.

so you see, your personality is influenced by how people treat you based on your looks (which is out of your control).

therefore, personality is out of your control.

Judging someone based on personality is really not much better than judging someone on looks. Because at the end of the day, LOOKS = PERSONALITY.

when an ugly guy playfully slaps a females ass, it’s sexual assault and the guy is a rapist. But when an attractive man does it all Of a sudden it’s “flirty” and “kinky”. You see how their personalities are judged differently because of their different looks, even though they are both performing the same action?

 

[Dr. Mog]

Water title

 

[redrum64389]

high iq shiyt

 

[ropemax]

Wow

 

[Deleted member 14262]

water

 

[looksmaxxed]

this is true, but it's also equally valid that your looks will make others perceive the same set of "personality" features differently based on the way you look. you could have the same exact brain as chad, but your looks will make your behavior cringey while chad is perceived as funny

 

[toolateforme]

water

 

[LiteralCaucasian]

Which one are you?

 

[Deleted member 22780]

lol I made a similar post to this just now jfl

 

[Prettyboy]

Usually the only cases when people’s personality starkly deviates from their looks are different forms of neurodivergence. Neurotypical people almost always have the personality you would expect from their physical looks

 

[WagedandReady]

Throwing more water into the duh pool. Even if you become aware of this and try to take some measure of control back by acting a certain way, regardless of how you’re popularly perceived, your fellow shaved primates will always remind you where sit in the hierarchy and pressure you to stay there or gtfo.

Being funny might be the only out for below average dudes and even then, their jokes land mostly because they look like trash or it’s funnier to imagine an ugly guy attempting to do anything chadlike and failing