Personality matters more than how much people here believe

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Yes you have to be good looking. Just like you'd want your gf to look good so do they but that dosent mean looks are everything, theyre a big part but your personality is just as big. Just like how you'd not want your gf to be dry no flavour person so do they. Think abt it this way, you see a girl who is medium looking but gets along with you well you would now see her more attractive than when you first saw her (I dont know if thats just me tho) and this is most likely true for women aswell. So yeah your not cooked if your sub-chad.
 
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You can't improve your personality, but you can improve your looks, it's not worth thinking about things you can't change
 
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You can't improve your personality, but you can improve your looks, it's not worth thinking about things you can't change
But people here obsess over looks. Looks are genetic and everyone has their genetic potential and you can try reach that through soft maxxing. I agree personality can not be vastly changed just like looks unless you hardmaxx. But like how you softmaxx your Looks so can you do it for your personality.
 
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everything matters mate
 
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No shit Greycel but looks come first absolutely, no point in even personalitymaxxing if ur not looksmaxxed.

Common greycel cope thread we all know this, ur underestimating looks too. I can tell ur not actually blackpilled
 
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No shit Greycel but looks come first absolutely, no point in even personalitymaxxing if ur not looksmaxxed.
This kinda cope imo, life is like gambling anyway why not take the risk and try to find a girl while you're not fully looksmaxxed? Ideally you should obviously looksmax while you try to personalitymax cuz it won't help you shit for a LTR if you just focus on looks
 
It matters in terms of being NT.
That's it
 
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No shit Greycel but looks come first absolutely, no point in even personalitymaxxing if ur not looksmaxxed.

Common greycel cope thread we all know this, ur underestimating looks too. I can tell ur not actually blackpilled
I did say that looks come first tho but after you have them best thing to do is personalitymaxx. Blackpill has some truth to it. Yes if your MTN with great persona but the girl has some chadlite with no persona in her dms then yes she is going to choose the chadlite and so would you. But most guys can't possibly reach chadlite or even htn so best thing to do is softmaxx and then personalitymaxx realistically. And yes I'm not fully blackpilled.
 
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very true tbh
 
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You just need one physical trait to be good for you and then it's a personality game.

This is what believe in from what I've seen:
1- height + ugly face + NT - :yes:
2- good face + short + NT -:yes:
3- light skin + ugly+nt - :yes: (works in India and asian countries)
Etc.

You need atleast ONE physical trait to not make you look like an utter subhuman and then you can get atleast one decent looking girlfriend. She may not be your dream woman but you can get somebody.
 
I did say that looks come first tho but after you have them best thing to do is personalitymaxx. Blackpill has some truth to it. Yes if your MTN with great persona but the girl has some chadlite with no persona in her dms then yes she is going to choose the chadlite and so would you. But most guys can't possibly reach chadlite or even htn so best thing to do is softmaxx and then personalitymaxx realistically. And yes I'm not fully blackpilled.
This is the way tbh. Most people cope with gay surgeries they will never get but truth be told most are hard caped around the mtn range so it's better to just social/ntmax than obsess over looks
 
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Yes you have to be good looking. Just like you'd want your gf to look good so do they but that dosent mean looks are everything, theyre a big part but your personality is just as big. Just like how you'd not want your gf to be dry no flavour person so do they. Think abt it this way, you see a girl who is medium looking but gets along with you well you would now see her more attractive than when you first saw her (I dont know if thats just me tho) and this is most likely true for women aswell. So yeah your not cooked if your sub-chad.
I'd personally argue that personality matters more than looks, unless the chick you picked up is a one night stand.
 
You just need one physical trait to be good for you and then it's a personality game.

This is what believe in from what I've seen:
1- height + ugly face + NT - :yes:
2- good face + short + NT -:yes:
3- light skin + ugly+nt - :yes: (works in India and asian countries)
Etc.

You need atleast ONE physical trait to not make you look like an utter subhuman and then you can get atleast one decent looking girlfriend. She may not be your dream woman but you can get somebody.
Yeah I agree on 1 but for point 2 even if your short if your not taller than the girl then it's over.

As an indian I can agree on 3 but having light skin as a female in india while being ugly will do so much for you but on the other hand if you were a man I don't think it's as valuable.
 
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Good looks and personality just to get some mid becky
 
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no one said personality doesnt matter tho?
-personality only matters when they find u attractive enough to wonder about your personal traits
you would not ask some girl with horrible looking face even for a pen.
i saw this a lot my friend dropped his pen to ugly weird girl table and he didnt even bother asking her to give it back
 
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This is the way tbh. Most people cope with gay surgeries they will never get but truth be told most are hard caped around the mtn range so it's better to just social/ntmax than obsess over looks
EXACTLY!! Finally someone with some sense
 
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You can't improve your personality, but you can improve your looks, it's not worth thinking about things you can't change
isnt this other way around to some point
 
I'd personally argue that personality matters more than looks, unless the chick you picked up is a one night stand.
Personality matters more for long term relationships but for hookups and short term relationships looks are far more important
 
Yes you have to be good looking. Just like you'd want your gf to look good so do they but that dosent mean looks are everything, theyre a big part but your personality is just as big. Just like how you'd not want your gf to be dry no flavour person so do they. Think abt it this way, you see a girl who is medium looking but gets along with you well you would now see her more attractive than when you first saw her (I dont know if thats just me tho) and this is most likely true for women aswell. So yeah your not cooked if your sub-chad.
Personality is downstream from looks.
 
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If pulling girls was so easy, everybody would be Chad
Pulling girls isn't that hard if you're mtn+ and nt tbh. Yes you will not be getting some Stacy, but you can still get some decent foids
 
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no one said personality doesnt matter tho?
-personality only matters when they find u attractive enough to wonder about your personal traits
you would not ask some girl with horrible looking face even for a pen.
i saw this a lot my friend dropped his pen to ugly weird girl table and he didnt even bother asking her to give it back
I didn't say that you can get a girl if your horrible looking tho. I said if your MTN and say the girl didn't find you attractive at the start but after getting to know you she started to like you she would most likely find you more attractive then when she first saw you.

Personally speaking I've found girls that are medium looking at first to be not that much attractive until I've got to know them and we get along and stuff I sooner find them way more attractive then at the start
 
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I didn't say that you can get a girl if your horrible looking tho. I said if your MTN and say the girl didn't find you attractive at the start but after getting to know you she started to like you she would most likely find you more attractive then when she first saw you.

Personally speaking I've found girls that are medium looking at first to be not that much attractive until I've got to know them and we get along and stuff I sooner find them way more attractive then at the start
im probably hltn or lmtn i got a blonde girl for 2 years and i prolly got her by being funny no joke
 
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I'd personally argue that personality matters more than looks, unless the chick you picked up is a one night stand.
Nah I think your overestimating personality here.
 
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Yes you have to be good looking. Just like you'd want your gf to look good so do they but that dosent mean looks are everything, theyre a big part but your personality is just as big. Just like how you'd not want your gf to be dry no flavour person so do they. Think abt it this way, you see a girl who is medium looking but gets along with you well you would now see her more attractive than when you first saw her (I dont know if thats just me tho) and this is most likely true for women aswell. So yeah your not cooked if your sub-chad.
Personality determines compatibility but does not attract. No personality will compensate for subhuman looks nor will a shitty personality affect a chad’s ability to pull substantially. It just serves as a divider between people of a similar smv and determines who pairs up with who
 
personality is downstream from looks
 
im probably hltn or lmtn i got a blonde girl for 2 years and i prolly got her by being funny no joke
Literally it's not over if your sub chad!! And being funny makes you so much more attractive to girls!
 
It matters after you’ve gotten your foot in the door

Problem is .. 95% of men can’t get the foot in the door in terms of online dating or cold approach

And in terms of warm approach social circle, I’d say like 70% of men still can’t get their foot in the door
 
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Personality determines compatibility but does not attract. No personality will compensate for subhuman looks nor will a shitty personality affect a chad’s ability to pull substantially. It just serves as a divider between people of a similar smv and determines who pairs up with who
you right in this place. take clav as example: i know his most dates are one night stands but they do not care how a piece of shit human being he is cuz he is non arguably good looking comparing to others. he mostly pulls effortlessly but overall looks is more important than personality.
my gf said that first thing she noticed is my appereance im not glazing it im just saying looks determine every social interaction:blackpill::feelshah:
 
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Literally it's not over if your sub chad!! And being funny makes you so much more attractive to girls!
im not saying i kinda find this shit corny yk ratings n stuff
they are partially right partially wrong. you can always find someone in your own league or below but still.
looks are everything in the end
 
Personality determines compatibility but does not attract. No personality will compensate for subhuman looks nor will a shitty personality affect a chad’s ability to pull substantially. It just serves as a divider between people of a similar smv and determines who pairs up with who
Yes if your sub human no personality can outtake your lack of looks but most guys are LTN or MTN and they for sure can get a girl by having a personality
 
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It matters after you’ve gotten your foot in the door

Problem is .. 95% of men can’t get the foot in the door in terms of online dating or cold approach

And in terms of warm approach social circle, I’d say like 70% of men still can’t get their foot in the door
This is a ridiculous hyperbole lol
 
im not saying i kinda find this shit corny yk ratings n stuff
they are partially right partially wrong. you can always find someone in your own league or below but still.
looks are everything in the end
Looks are everything up until a certain point. Once you reach the above average range (hmtn and above), personality and skills become more important
 
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Yes if your sub human no personality can outtake your lack of looks but most guys are LTN or MTN and they for sure can get a girl by having a personality
I wouldn't include LTNs but for MTNs they absolutely can get a girl without much effort. Hell, I'm a good example of that
 
This is a ridiculous hyperbole lol

No it’s not

If you’re not in the top % looks wise, it’s impossible to get dates with decent looking women off online dating

If you’re not in the solidly above average range for warm approach of people you know, you are forced to play the role of friendzone guy or court jester
 
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But people here obsess over looks. Looks are genetic and everyone has their genetic potential and you can try reach that through soft maxxing. I agree personality can not be vastly changed just like looks unless you hardmaxx. But like how you softmaxx your Looks so can you do it for your personality.
Niggas here completely overlook personality because the subconsciously know that they have lame, unlikeable personalities.
 
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Don’t expect undersocialised truecels to understand social dynamics atp
 
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But people here obsess over looks. Looks are genetic and everyone has their genetic potential and you can try reach that through soft maxxing. I agree personality can not be vastly changed just like looks unless you hardmaxx. But like how you softmaxx your Looks so can you do it for your personality.
looks will softmaxx your personality

there's no gym/surgery for your personality, there's only drugs that work for like 20% of people and maybe amygdala removal if you got brain cancer
 

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