Personality matters to women

[whiteissuperior]

Ded srs. Like yea Im not trying to say if a 2psl dude acts alfalfa he cant pull. But I am arguing personality/character traits can actually halo a man hard. I'd argue that personality halo can be bigger than body halo unironically. Like a 4 psl dude could trick a girl into thinking he's 5 psl if he acts a certain way. Obviously a 6 psl Chad will destroy him, but like, that's why you will see 4 PSL dudes of average height with 5 PSL girls that actually like him sometimes.

The reason a lot of you think looks are all that matters is cuz looks is all you have, and all most men have. The traits Im going to list are actually pretty uncommon, and I don't know if they can be developed. I knoq dudes irl who you would say its over for but can pull decent looking girls ( a full psl point higher), cuz they have some of these traits.

1. Being funny, not in a jester way, but in a clever way. Like the bully in high school who picks on less witty kids. Not like a comedian funny, it's a smooth funny
2. Being a natural leader (I have this trait). If you are the person who the group follows naturally then it will halo you HARD in the eyes of women
3. Being a smooth talker. Those who are naturally charismatic and snake oil salesmen, could sell you a used car, halos you HARD. This is a very rare trait and I know only a few men who have it.
4. Being reall;y good at something, anything, besides videogames unless youre with nerdy chicks. This is the only skill that can be developed
5. Being very athletic. A 3 PSL 5'10 Lebron James would unironically be sexy to girls still even if he was poor.

Most men have exactly 0 of these traits so all you can do is looksmax. But having one of these traits is a huge halo for women, and is probably equivlent to gymmaxing. It definitely creates lust in the same way looks do if a woman notices you have these traits

 

[Deleted member 10949]

DIDNT READ RETARD

 

[R@m@]

quiet stoic detached men mogs all personality types

 

[Wallenberg]

quiet stoic detached men mogs all personality types

Being stoic is good.

 

[whiteissuperior]

DIDNT READ RETARD

clever reply bro

 

[Deleted member 9274]

DIDNT READ RETARD

To bad cuz he made some good points u with your ape looking titan avi

 

[Deleted member 10949]

To bad cuz he made some good points u with your ape looking titan avi

Kys dumbass

 

[Deleted member 4612]

1. Being reall;y good at something, anything, besides videogames unless youre with nerdy chicks. This is the only skill that can be developed

give an example

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Kys dumbass

Npc insult. I can smell the room temperature IQ from a mile away with a coping username jfl

 

[Deleted member 10949]

Npc insult. I can smell the room temperature IQ from a mile away with a coping username jfl

Imagine taking this thread serious what a faggot you are

 

[Deleted member 4106]

There is a survey that says women laugh more when men are attractive, in my experience this is true.

I think what really makes a difference is acting like a man, having masculine attitudes (it's not the same as the idea of being alpha this is stupid), a woman needs to see you as a man.
You can achieve this doing martial arts, serving the army, or some sport.

 

[Deleted member 9274]

Imagine taking this thread serious what a faggot you are

Because this was made serious or are you dumb af? . If you dont take it srsly why even bother replying with 'dn read' jfl waste of time

 

[whiteissuperior]

There is a survey that says women laugh more when men are attractive, in my experience this is true.

I think what really makes a difference is acting like a man, having masculine attitudes (it's not the same as the idea of being alpha this is stupid), a woman needs to see you as a man.
You can achieve this doing martial arts, serving the army, or some sport.

there is a such thing as being funny, most people just arent funny, but yea women do laugh when they find a man attractive for sure

give an example

some shit i read on fucking twoxchromosomes and irl experiences but I cant find it now

 

[Deleted member 13094]

you need a mix of good looks and personality thought most people knew this

 

[whiteissuperior]

you need a mix of good looks and personality thought most people knew this

idiots just thing good personality means being nice and respectful. You can be a total douche and have a good personality to women

 

[Deleted member 13094]

idiots just thing good personality means being nice and respectful. You can be a total douche and have a good personality to women

lol exactly

 

[AlwaysHaveQuestions]

i have no hobbies or skill im fucking garbage

 

[Chadeep]

Basically being NT

 

[whiteissuperior]

Basically being NT

kinda, but most people are NT. NT is the bare minimum. These traits are halos

 

[Danish_Retard]

I think most of these traits could be developed to some extent although all are probably limited by the ceiling your genetics create. I act like a natural leader in most social groups too, always have, even when I was ugly and didn't act very NT but I think many people could learn to do so if they tried/wanted to. You can improve how witty you are too, at least for me I don't always come up with something on the spot, I sometimes just copy things from comedians or other people I've heard.

IDK about being a smooth talker. I've met a guy that had a vile silver tongue and obviously extremely high verbal/articulating intelligence but he didn't really pull girls above his looks level. At least not like super above but he certainly had an aura where nobody would challenge him with words jfl. I'm not sure how this could be developed other than being very sociable and training it deliberately. I still don't think you could catch up to people like him.

 

[whiteissuperior]

I think most of these traits could be developed to some extent although all are probably limited by the ceiling your genetics create. I act like a natural leader in most social groups too, always have, even when I was ugly and didn't act very NT but I think many people could learn to do so if they tried/wanted to. You can improve how witty you are too, at least for me I don't always come up with something on the spot, I sometimes just copy things from comedians or other people I've heard.

IDK about being a smooth talker. I've met a guy that had a vile silver tongue and obviously extremely high verbal/articulating intelligence but he didn't really pull girls above his looks level. At least not like super above but he certainly had an aura where nobody would challenge him with words jfl. I'm not sure how this could be developed other than being very sociable and training it deliberately. I still don't think you could catch up to people like him.

I will say these traits can be lost tho. Like you when I was ugly(er) and non NT I behaved the same, but after becoming a depressed hermit, I lost those traits and Im still slowly regaining it. But I dont do anything to regain it intentionally I just am in social situations again and it comes back out of me

 

[Danish_Retard]

I will say these traits can be lost tho. Like you when I was ugly(er) and non NT I behaved the same, but after becoming a depressed hermit, I lost those traits and Im still slowly regaining it. But I dont do anything to regain it intentionally I just am in social situations again and it comes back out of me

Yeah I definitely have the same experience. I've been feeling like shit for the past year, I haven't been keeping any promises to myself and shit like that and I can definitely feel that in social groups where I would have said something before or taken charge because there either was no one taking initiative or the person doing so was annoying I just couldn't be bothered. Like I would instead sit with these idiots and let them take control even tho I knew I could do it better.

I definitely feel as if being social is a muscle. Perhaps neuroplasticity or something would make that metaphor make sense physically but if I'm not social or don't do certain things I definitely feel as if I lose the ability to do that until I have retrained myself. Like if you haven't driven for months and then you get into the car, it takes some time to get the hang of it again.

 

[Deleted member 4332]

Personality is Genetics though

 

[whiteissuperior]

Personality is Genetics though

yep

 

[Deleted member 13076]

Girls care much more about your personality and not looks, girls aren't shallow like that.

 

[Deleted member 1338]

Jfl muh personality

 

[tyronelite]

I just thought of an idea... next time I go to the club I'm gonna find the highest PSL guy & have him as my wing man

We'll put to the test how well he does with chicks

 

[whiteissuperior]

I just thought of an idea... next time I go to the club I'm gonna find the highest PSL guy & have him as my wing man

We'll put to the test how well he does with chicks

He will likely do more than fine

Girls care much more about your personality and not looks, girls aren't shallow like that.

I never said that

 

[tyronelite]

He will likely do more than fine

We'll see, trust me I've seen plenty of good lookin dudes who strike out or I'll hear the convo next to me & he'll be talkin bs about "what school you go to? How many siblings you have? what college you go to? blah blah fuckin blah..

I'm tellin you bro it's too easy cuz these dudes don't know how to create sexual tension when talkin to these chicks

 

[whiteissuperior]

We'll see, trust me I've seen plenty of good lookin dudes who strike out or I'll hear the convo next to me & he'll be talkin bs about "what school you go to? How many siblings you have? what college you go to? blah blah fuckin blah..

I'm tellin you bro it's too easy cuz these dudes don't know how to create sexual tension when talkin to these chicks

Neither do I, I am that dude, I just get physical with them while I do it. Teach me verbal game I beg

 

[tyronelite]

Neither do I, I am that dude, I just get physical with them while I do it. Teach me verbal game I beg

It's hard to teach verbal game thru text but when I do my infield threads I'll make a video recap of what happened & what I said, how I flirted, etc etc on here

 

[Deleted member 2100]

We've come full circle. Just have a nice personality theory.

 

[fogdart]

Ded srs. Like yea Im not trying to say if a 2psl dude acts alfalfa he cant pull. But I am arguing personality/character traits can actually halo a man hard. I'd argue that personality halo can be bigger than body halo unironically. Like a 4 psl dude could trick a girl into thinking he's 5 psl if he acts a certain way. Obviously a 6 psl Chad will destroy him, but like, that's why you will see 4 PSL dudes of average height with 5 PSL girls that actually like him sometimes.

The reason a lot of you think looks are all that matters is cuz looks is all you have, and all most men have. The traits Im going to list are actually pretty uncommon, and I don't know if they can be developed. I knoq dudes irl who you would say its over for but can pull decent looking girls ( a full psl point higher), cuz they have some of these traits.

1. Being funny, not in a jester way, but in a clever way. Like the bully in high school who picks on less witty kids. Not like a comedian funny, it's a smooth funny
2. Being a natural leader (I have this trait). If you are the person who the group follows naturally then it will halo you HARD in the eyes of women
3. Being a smooth talker. Those who are naturally charismatic and snake oil salesmen, could sell you a used car, halos you HARD. This is a very rare trait and I know only a few men who have it.
4. Being reall;y good at something, anything, besides videogames unless youre with nerdy chicks. This is the only skill that can be developed
5. Being very athletic. A 3 PSL 5'10 Lebron James would unironically be sexy to girls still even if he was poor.

Most men have exactly 0 of these traits so all you can do is looksmax. But having one of these traits is a huge halo for women, and is probably equivlent to gymmaxing. It definitely creates lust in the same way looks do if a woman notices you have these traits

Personality, charm, and NT can halo you if you’re at least average in looks - those features would make people admire/respect you, which women value a lot. Like you said, it’s hard to learn those traits. Being really good at something is equivalent to nichemaxxing - a woman who’s very into dancing may choose a normie who’s very good at dancing over a HTN/chadlite who’s not into dancing at all. Being athletic is tied to the looks pill so it shouldn’t be mentioned - athletes are usually muscular and low body fat, which makes them look better.