momoil
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the real thing people don't want to admit is that personality is also mostly genes, or shaped by what happens early in life, with there being very little you can do about it afterwards, you can't actually become a good person, you can't actually make yourself fundamentally enjoyable to be around without just faking a persona that isn't the real you, yet people think they're saying something profound when they argue that personality matters instead of appearance while ignoring that both are the same thing, almost everything about you was already decided the moment you were born, with the rest of it being determined before you're consciously aware of it, after that you're just fucked.
you aren't being any less or more shallow by arguing things other than appearance matter, you're saying the same thing, you want someone with good genes, a nice personality is still just good genes. You either have them or don’t
you aren't being any less or more shallow by arguing things other than appearance matter, you're saying the same thing, you want someone with good genes, a nice personality is still just good genes. You either have them or don’t
