Personality.... Need help

[AsceningC]

Im an MTN I would say and I have like a lot of male friends but struggle with connecting with foids and talking to them like I somehow insult them without realizing and pushing them away. I dont know if its ego or something. Anyone have some advice on how to not act like a scumbag with foids? and should i attempt to be myself or nah.

 

[user39875]

Im an MTN I would say and I have like a lot of male friends but struggle with connecting with foids and talking to them like I somehow insult them without realizing and pushing them away. I dont know if its ego or something. Anyone have some advice on how to not act like a scumbag with foids? and should i attempt to be myself or nah.

you can start by not calling them foids lmao

 

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wait nvm ur a bluepilled cuck

 

[WonkyChin186]

gl

 

[thanos0]

Honestly bro I think the biggest thing is just stop thinking of them as some completely different species lmao. If you have no problem talking to guys then you obviously know how to socialize, you’re probably just overthinking it or trying too hard around girls and then your humor/personality comes out differently. I’d say be yourself but maybe have a tiny bit of self-awareness about how your jokes come across, especially if you barely know her. Just listen to them and treat them like normal people instead of worrying about whether they like you. You’ll probably get better at it the more you actually talk to women without making every interaction about whether it’s gonna lead somewhere.

 

[user39875]

wait nvm ur a bluepilled cuck

cuck jfl

 

[thanos0]

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[null77]

I have the same problem, it feels like I am unconsciously pushing them away and it feels like im saying something that I shouldnt

 

[AsceningC]

I have the same problem, it feels like I am unconsciously pushing them away and it feels like im saying something that I shouldnt

yeah exactly, i feel like i need to create a whole new persona in order to get with them.

 

[AsceningC]

Honestly bro I think the biggest thing is just stop thinking of them as some completely different species lmao. If you have no problem talking to guys then you obviously know how to socialize, you’re probably just overthinking it or trying too hard around girls and then your humor/personality comes out differently. I’d say be yourself but maybe have a tiny bit of self-awareness about how your jokes come across, especially if you barely know her. Just listen to them and treat them like normal people instead of worrying about whether they like you. You’ll probably get better at it the more you actually talk to women without making every interaction about whether it’s gonna lead somewhere.

good advice but talking to them especially when they are in a group or have a group of friends is absolute cancer. Moreover i find a lotta girls very annoying to talk to like they are so boring.

 

[thanos0]

good advice but talking to them especially when they are in a group or have a group of friends is absolute cancer. Moreover i find a lotta girls very annoying to talk to like they are so boring.

Me too. Try finding someone that you share similar interests

 

[null77]

yeah exactly, i feel like i need to create a whole new persona in order to get with them.

Yeah, thats the whole reason I got into looksmaxxing around one and a half year ago. I improved my looks a lot and got a pretty good physique since I started hitting the gym, some girls told me I really improved and one even asked me if I looksmaxxed lol, but still I have the same problem and many uglier guys around me had multiple gfs while I never had one.

 

[AsceningC]

Yeah, thats the whole reason I got into looksmaxxing around one and a half year ago. I improved my looks a lot and got a pretty good physique since I started hitting the gym, some girls told me I really improved and one even asked me if I looksmaxxed lol, but still I have the same problem and many uglier guys around me had multiple gfs while I never had one.

exactly i have no clue how subhuman rats are somehow pulling more girls. When i ask them they say "charismapill" or "charisma is genetic". Like bro just rope atp. Girls also compliment on my progress but never interested...

 

[AsceningC]

i feel like looksmaxxing only works in high urban areas like in miami or lA

 

[null77]

exactly i have no clue how subhuman rats are somehow pulling more girls. When i ask them they say "charismapill" or "charisma is genetic". Like bro just rope atp. Girls also compliment on my progress but never interested...

Yeah, summer break is ending for me in around 20 days and I will try to change the way I behave in school this year. It really is retarted how you gotta hide your true feelings and act nice but ig thats how it is. I also find most of the girls in my class annoying but I think the problem is that I unconsciously expose my feelings a lot. I am sure that if I was uglier all of those girls would just hate me and wouldnt talk to me at all

 

[null77]

i feel like looksmaxxing only works in high urban areas like in miami or lA

kind of true. Once you have a "glow up" in smaller places like where I live where everybody knows each other, all that you will get from it is compliments. In my area what matters the most is going out and clubbing every friday while being in a right friend group, looking good is just a boost

 

[AsceningC]

kind of true. Once you have a "glow up" in smaller places like where I live where everybody knows each other, all that you will get from it is compliments. In my area what matters the most is going out and clubbing every friday while being in a right friend group, looking good is just a boost

yeah practically the same for me. In my area if you look presentable and have a good friend network ur gonna be succesful with girls. Issue is how ND you are and inhibition which taking a big toll on my success

 

[zyyyncxy]

struggle with connecting with foids and talking to them like I somehow insult them

not ur fault

 

[null77]

yeah practically the same for me. In my area if you look presentable and have a good friend network ur gonna be succesful with girls. Issue is how ND you are and inhibition which taking a big toll on my success

The only chance for me is finding a girl thats similar to me. Recently I started talking to this one girl that I liked for some time and she wants to start going to the gym with me. I find her very beautiful and she never had a boyfriend, she is completely different than all these whores around me that I just hate looking at. I also hope you can find a girl like that

 

[AsceningC]

The only chance for me is finding a girl thats similar to me. Recently I started talking to this one girl that I liked for some time and she wants to start going to the gym with me. I find her very beautiful and she never had a boyfriend, she is completely different than all these whores around me that I just hate looking at. I also hope you can find a girl like that

nice bro good luck