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im still a teen and i want to live my life as the others do, not rot in my room all day and be demolished, all i do is eat and hit the gym, but its pointless. I see so many young couples and groups of friends i just want to make myself good enough for people to accept me, im not liked by anyone or accepted in groups of friends, im very high inhib and anxious in social situations and im trying to force myself to socialise but i end up saying bullshit, for example i was introduced to a group by some guy i just met and legit no one there fw me, they dont even know my name, they dont ask me to come out, they ignore me now and i would have to beg them to go out. and this guy leaves my country soon so ill have no person to still go out with this group so it ends here, i felt a bit good for a couple 2-3 days but now its worse than before, i have legit no hope in life and it has been like this for a very long time, what is there left to do? I just want to have friends that care about me and go outside im not trying to achieve anything more than this just to be like the other people
 
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Im high iq, dnr
 
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im still a teen and i want to live my life as the others do, not rot in my room all day and be demolished, all i do is eat and hit the gym, but its pointless. I see so many young couples and groups of friends i just want to make myself good enough for people to accept me, im not liked by anyone or accepted in groups of friends, im very high inhib and anxious in social situations and im trying to force myself to socialise but i end up saying bullshit, for example i was introduced to a group by some guy i just met and legit no one there fw me, they dont even know my name, they dont ask me to come out, they ignore me now and i would have to beg them to go out. and this guy leaves my country soon so ill have no person to still go out with this group so it ends here, i felt a bit good for a couple 2-3 days but now its worse than before, i have legit no hope in life and it has been like this for a very long time, what is there left to do? I just want to have friends that care about me and go outside im not trying to achieve anything more than this just to be like the other people
look into politics
 
just push through social interactions and dont give it much care, friend groups fall off after highschool ngl but if you're still in highschool link up with your classmates
 
im still a teen and i want to live my life as the others do, not rot in my room all day and be demolished, all i do is eat and hit the gym, but its pointless. I see so many young couples and groups of friends i just want to make myself good enough for people to accept me, im not liked by anyone or accepted in groups of friends, im very high inhib and anxious in social situations and im trying to force myself to socialise but i end up saying bullshit, for example i was introduced to a group by some guy i just met and legit no one there fw me, they dont even know my name, they dont ask me to come out, they ignore me now and i would have to beg them to go out. and this guy leaves my country soon so ill have no person to still go out with this group so it ends here, i felt a bit good for a couple 2-3 days but now its worse than before, i have legit no hope in life and it has been like this for a very long time, what is there left to do? I just want to have friends that care about me and go outside im not trying to achieve anything more than this just to be like the other people
most of people are now are just selfish npcs that only care about their phone and themselves
 
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my classmates see me as some weird dude prolly even if i try to be okay, like for example they dont ask me to hang out after hs or do anything the only time im called out by them is if they want a pen or some object from me, i have only one "friend" but he s like nd and high inhib so thats maybe why we get along, i dont think im nd, i dont have autism or adhd and i wont larp it just for attention, i just never grew up being around people and this makes it very hard for me to socialise and make connections,
 
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my classmates see me as some weird dude prolly even if i try to be okay, like for example they dont ask me to hang out after hs or do anything the only time im called out by them is if they want a pen or some object from me, i have only one "friend" but he s like nd and high inhib so thats maybe why we get along, i dont think im nd, i dont have autism or adhd and i wont larp it just for attention, i just never grew up being around people and this makes it very hard for me to socialise and make connections,
@Golf222 mb i didnt reply correctly
 
you have to try to socialise with others, try to overcome ur high inhibition
 
im a retard i replied to the wrong person ima give up holy shit😭😭😭😭 thanks to everyone for replying tho
 
you have to try to socialise with others, try to overcome ur high inhibition
well ive done this for months and still no connections have been made and no friends that want to go out with me, i really dont get it, im the average guy im 175cm and idk maybe ltn but not so bad to the point im accused of rape
 
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im still a teen and i want to live my life as the others do, not rot in my room all day and be demolished, all i do is eat and hit the gym, but its pointless. I see so many young couples and groups of friends i just want to make myself good enough for people to accept me, im not liked by anyone or accepted in groups of friends, im very high inhib and anxious in social situations and im trying to force myself to socialise but i end up saying bullshit, for example i was introduced to a group by some guy i just met and legit no one there fw me, they dont even know my name, they dont ask me to come out, they ignore me now and i would have to beg them to go out. and this guy leaves my country soon so ill have no person to still go out with this group so it ends here, i felt a bit good for a couple 2-3 days but now its worse than before, i have legit no hope in life and it has been like this for a very long time, what is there left to do? I just want to have friends that care about me and go outside im not trying to achieve anything more than this just to be like the other people
Find friends with similar interests than you. For example, when i was a teenager, my friend group we all liked the gym and play COD together. We also shared the same sense of humor etc. Also "test" people to see if you match with them as a friend by being yourself. If you can be yourself around someome than you found a real friend. Dont change yourself, but like you said keep forcing yourself to be more social. I did the same and succeeded, you can do it too brother
 
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Find friends with similar interests than you. For example, when i was a teenager, my friend group we all liked the gym and play COD together. We also shared the same sense of humor etc. Also "test" people to see if you match with them as a friend by being yourself. If you can be yourself around someome than you found a real friend. Dont change yourself, but like you said keep forcing yourself to be more social. I did the same and succeeded, you can do it too brother
thank you i will try
 
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ur not the only person with that type of problem, so u prob can find people like that and become a friend to them. Personally I never was able to communicate normally with “normies”, so I was finding some friends quite similar to me and I basically had same experience as I’d have with having “normal” friends
 
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im still a teen and i want to live my life as the others do, not rot in my room all day and be demolished, all i do is eat and hit the gym, but its pointless. I see so many young couples and groups of friends i just want to make myself good enough for people to accept me, im not liked by anyone or accepted in groups of friends, im very high inhib and anxious in social situations and im trying to force myself to socialise but i end up saying bullshit, for example i was introduced to a group by some guy i just met and legit no one there fw me, they dont even know my name, they dont ask me to come out, they ignore me now and i would have to beg them to go out. and this guy leaves my country soon so ill have no person to still go out with this group so it ends here, i felt a bit good for a couple 2-3 days but now its worse than before, i have legit no hope in life and it has been like this for a very long time, what is there left to do? I just want to have friends that care about me and go outside im not trying to achieve anything more than this just to be like the other people
i was like this too. my advice would be to not waste your time on people who don’t value you and people will eventually come around. don’t beg people to hang out just make yourself more appealing
 
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