(poll) what would you do in this case?

[hopecel]

there's a girl who possibly likes you to some extent but simultaneously considers other guys as options, you openly hit on her so your intentions are quite obvious and she made similar moves towards you but also tested you by mentioning other guys in front of you

is it better to pull back and act uninterested or ask her out or maybe continue the flirting to the point you're sure she prefers you and then ask her out?

 

[hopecel]

@Lefty Rankin @BoredPrince @The Grinch @HeavyMetalcel @NoExit

 

[Need212]

Depends how much of a manwhore your tryna be

How much self respect do you have

 

[Desirable]

Dissociate
its a bad look being an option

 

[hopecel]

Depends how much of a manwhore your tryna be

man with options = high value = "manwhore"

How much self respect do you have

a lot but I do realise girls especially at her age (18) are immature so they joke around a lot

there's no point in competing for a girl who already chose somebody else, I'd compete with other men only before she chooses some of us

 

[Gen1leman]

None, grope her I'm joking

 

[hopecel]

Dissociate
its a bad look being an option

yeah but she's still flirting with me

 

[hopecel]

@SecularIslamist give me your opinion habibi

 

[Desirable]

yeah but she's still flirting with me

Well your choice at the end of the day
making me cringe just thinking about it
the girl would bring me too much stress

 

[LowTierBateman]

Fuck her

 

[BeanCelll]

This doesn't end well if you want to ltr

 

[hopecel]

Well your choice at the end of the day
making me cringe just thinking about it
the girl would bring me too much stress

yeah but her smile makes my day that makes up for all the stress she causes

 

[SecularIslamist]

@SecularIslamist give me your opinion habibi

LMAO I was literally about to post a thread with a similar situation hahahaha. I will tag you.

Anyway since you are early stage it's best to keep flirting until it's obvious you are her first choice. Maybe she mentions past coz of trauma and bad experiences not because she still years for chad. I've spoken to so many women and it's obvious when you're just an orbitor. I am usually an orbitor

Most (non femcel) women have had interest. Mentioning past guys isn't automatically a red flag. Depends what she's saying tbh.

 

[hopecel]

Fuck her

she's not a hoe

This doesn't end well if you want to ltr

how do you know that? she's not some baddie sir, this girl wants to get married asap

 

[Desirable]

yeah but her smile makes my day that makes up for all the stress she causes

Whatever floats your boat

 

[BeanCelll]

how do you know that? she's not some baddie sir, this girl wants to get married asap

I'm not saying she's a whore or anything her perspective is rational
and fair

I just wouldn't put yourself in the position where you’ll have to compete for someone’s affection in that manner. She needs to figure out who she wants and make up her mind running around like a lapdog is going to drive you insane.

Only red flag is whether she actively seeks and enjoys the attention from everyone else that's a character issue that might not go away.

 

[hollowed]

If you have any dignity dnr that slut

 

[alladinbvs]

dnr her
never be an option