poor social skills

[mentalmaxxing]

What should I do if my social skills are so poor that I literally can't hold a conversation with the opposite gender? Just today, a female classmate asked me about my birthday - she seemed interested and wanted to strike up a conversation, but I mumbled the answer so quietly and haltingly that she had to ask me to repeat it and she must have thought I was a freak, and i think she lost interest. Honestly, I’ve never taken the initiative or approached anyone first in my entire life. Right now, I feel like a total weirdo. Literally i live like ER yearning for some woman to love me and take initiative. What can I do about this? Pls help and no jokes

 

[softmaxerr]

shi try taking something like pregab for the mental awkwardness and maybe combine with propranalol if u wanna get rid of the physical signs of anxiety. do ur own research on this stuff tho it has risks, same as anything else.

 

[mentalmaxxing]

shi try taking something like pregab for the mental awkwardness and maybe combine with propranalol if u wanna get rid of the physical signs of anxiety. do ur own research on this stuff tho it has risks, same as anything else.

that shi is temporary and causes addiction

 

[foidslayer501]

just keep trying to talk to girls eventually youll become better at it

 

[softmaxerr]

u can get addicted to anything so ofc dont try it if u get addicted to stuff easily, regarding the temporary part tho i would argue that by trying it u would get a a kind of ,,baseplate'' and an idea of how u can socialize and this could help u by giving u an idea on how to act when ,,sober''. this kind of happened to me after drinking a few times, now im way more social compared to when i was an alcohol virgin xd

 

[softmaxerr]

u can get addicted to anything so ofc dont try it if u get addicted to stuff easily, regarding the temporary part tho i would argue that by trying it u would get a a kind of ,,baseplate'' and an idea of how u can socialize and this could help u by giving u an idea on how to act when ,,sober''. this kind of happened to me after drinking a few times, now im way more social compared to when i was an alcohol virgin xd

this was meant to be a reply btw my bad

 

[mentalmaxxing]

thx

 

[iLoveCavan]

take tren

 

[mentalmaxxing]

bump