shandingo
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Porn is the single most pernicious addiction in the 21st century. And yes it is an addiction. I can not remember the last time I went without watching porn for more than 2 weeks. I started watching it at age 10/11 and now have been consistently watching it for over a decade. You think because it is just pixels on a screen that it is trivial and surely can't be that bad.
Porn , unless it is a true addiction i.e men who can't function in society due to their addiction , has no obvious adverse effect. I still have a good job and go to the gym , my motivation and desire for sex has not decreased, and my dick remains hard. So what is the biggest adverse effect then ?
It is this : With frequent exposure, the brain may become less sensitive to dopamine. This can lead to needing more stimulation (e.g., more extreme or novel content) to achieve the same level of excitement.
I have already noticed this in myself I started watching extreme porn like puke content and a little bit of scat too. But the logical conclusion ends up like this :
This is the future for the most porn addicted generation of all time. We are going to have greater than ever numbers of PDF files . If this is not motivation to stop then I don't know what is. We have to work together to keep the kids of the future safe.
Even worse , all though future serial killers are unlikely to exist due to advancements in forensics , even 1 death is one too many and here is what Ted Bundy had to say about the so called trivial addiction that is porn:
I would also like to state that porn addiction in most cases is not your fault. All lot of mainstream media will blame men of course , however they mix cause and effect. Most men watch porn because they are incel , not the other way around. Are they so braindead to think that most porn addicted men would not give up their porn in second for a IRL relationship.
Of course , you are going to watch porn if you can not get into a LTR/STR , every man with healthy testosterone has needs that need to be met. This is why I don't see a solution , because the problem is hypergamy which can not be solved. As sexlessness keeps rising , so will porn addictions so will OnlyFans and so will all the less so obvious at first look problems that come with it.
Imo the best solution beta buxx and oofy doofy your way into a LTR if you can. If you haven't got the resources or in the meantime jerk off to less and less hardcore porn. Start off with stop watching hardcore , then BG , then solo content , then bikini , then TikTok/Insta and at last you are left with your imagination. No fap is cope , but de-escalating your porn addiction is not.
What are yall thoughts and experiences ?
Porn , unless it is a true addiction i.e men who can't function in society due to their addiction , has no obvious adverse effect. I still have a good job and go to the gym , my motivation and desire for sex has not decreased, and my dick remains hard. So what is the biggest adverse effect then ?
It is this : With frequent exposure, the brain may become less sensitive to dopamine. This can lead to needing more stimulation (e.g., more extreme or novel content) to achieve the same level of excitement.
I have already noticed this in myself I started watching extreme porn like puke content and a little bit of scat too. But the logical conclusion ends up like this :
This is the future for the most porn addicted generation of all time. We are going to have greater than ever numbers of PDF files . If this is not motivation to stop then I don't know what is. We have to work together to keep the kids of the future safe.
Even worse , all though future serial killers are unlikely to exist due to advancements in forensics , even 1 death is one too many and here is what Ted Bundy had to say about the so called trivial addiction that is porn:
I would also like to state that porn addiction in most cases is not your fault. All lot of mainstream media will blame men of course , however they mix cause and effect. Most men watch porn because they are incel , not the other way around. Are they so braindead to think that most porn addicted men would not give up their porn in second for a IRL relationship.
Of course , you are going to watch porn if you can not get into a LTR/STR , every man with healthy testosterone has needs that need to be met. This is why I don't see a solution , because the problem is hypergamy which can not be solved. As sexlessness keeps rising , so will porn addictions so will OnlyFans and so will all the less so obvious at first look problems that come with it.
Imo the best solution beta buxx and oofy doofy your way into a LTR if you can. If you haven't got the resources or in the meantime jerk off to less and less hardcore porn. Start off with stop watching hardcore , then BG , then solo content , then bikini , then TikTok/Insta and at last you are left with your imagination. No fap is cope , but de-escalating your porn addiction is not.
What are yall thoughts and experiences ?
