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don't be jealous asshole
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Quite a few men around here are convinced that when they get to see things they're normally not allowed to see, something which I won't describe out of decency, they experience some form of symbolic revenge on women or the men having their way with them. After all, it is voyeurism pushed to the extreme, produced and distributed by men, with all the conveniences of infinite choice and modern technology, and when elements of humiliation or violation of privacy are added to this porn, it is hard to see how the one watching is actually the one getting cucked.
Now, if you think women are against pornography, I have news for you: they don't care. Beyond mothers, few wish for porn to be outlawed. Attempts to attack porn in the third-wave feminist movement were all wildly unsuccessful. You rarely see women actively campaigning against something that devalues them and the preciousness of their body. Part of the reason is that young liberal women themselves watch porn once in a while, and they reportedly, with irony, enjoy the exact same videos of humiliation frustrated men tend to enjoy. Part of the reason is that women know that porn is actually a very poor substitute to real intimacy, something they can get on a daily basis if they so choose.
But they also instinctively know that without this possibility of release, this great pacifier and sleeping aid, many more men, especially young nerdy men in university, would harass them continually to get in their pants.
The usual trajectory for a young, unattractive man entering college is hope for actual relationships at the beginning, then failure, then a long streak of porn use to soothe the pain of this failure, then finally the realization that porn does not solve anything and the feeling of failure, loneliness and lack of actual sexual experience is still there. This trajectory is usually very lengthy; sometimes porn acted as a pacifier for three years or more. This effectively renders these men inoffensive, harmless, and most importantly less annoying. Incel men who cope with PUA in college are actually very rare. The vast majority cope with porn and think they'll try their chances later or betabux. They are effectively "out of the system", parked away. And women love this.
Now, if you think women are against pornography, I have news for you: they don't care. Beyond mothers, few wish for porn to be outlawed. Attempts to attack porn in the third-wave feminist movement were all wildly unsuccessful. You rarely see women actively campaigning against something that devalues them and the preciousness of their body. Part of the reason is that young liberal women themselves watch porn once in a while, and they reportedly, with irony, enjoy the exact same videos of humiliation frustrated men tend to enjoy. Part of the reason is that women know that porn is actually a very poor substitute to real intimacy, something they can get on a daily basis if they so choose.
But they also instinctively know that without this possibility of release, this great pacifier and sleeping aid, many more men, especially young nerdy men in university, would harass them continually to get in their pants.
The usual trajectory for a young, unattractive man entering college is hope for actual relationships at the beginning, then failure, then a long streak of porn use to soothe the pain of this failure, then finally the realization that porn does not solve anything and the feeling of failure, loneliness and lack of actual sexual experience is still there. This trajectory is usually very lengthy; sometimes porn acted as a pacifier for three years or more. This effectively renders these men inoffensive, harmless, and most importantly less annoying. Incel men who cope with PUA in college are actually very rare. The vast majority cope with porn and think they'll try their chances later or betabux. They are effectively "out of the system", parked away. And women love this.
