Dr. Mog
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This might seem like a bluepill based concept thread.
This is a part of my “be and act more NT” series for socialisation and relationship maintaining strugglers like myself.
This is a part of my “be and act more NT” series for socialisation and relationship maintaining strugglers like myself.
It’s a powerful one too. It’s powerful cause it shows you don’t need them and it doesn’t consume your energy in any way.
Whoever it is around you that you think doesn’t value you enough, here are the exact no BS steps you should follow:-
1) Pretend they don’t exist whenever they are nearby or around you don’t talk to them.(unless it’s only you both in a small room and the silence is getting very awkward, you can give a friendly nod pretending to be alright with them)
2) Stop viewing their Instagram stories and snaps.
Overtime as they don’t see your profile pic under their ‘seen’ list, they are gonna realise it. (This is gonna be faster than you think btw)
3) If there is someone else in the room who holds the same amount of information about a particular thing, that’s the one you should approach.
Even if that 3rd person is a total stranger, cause then it’s gonna be a brutal pill for them to swallow knowing that you rather approach a stranger than him/her.
4) Cut their conversations with the 3rd person.
If you see them talking to someone and that 3rd person is your friend or someone who favours you more; then just go in and cut the convo and talk to that 3rd person about something intriguing you know you both would like.
This is the ultimate brutal pill for them to swallow that they don’t exist for you anymore.
Be careful with this tip and only use it selectively as it could sometimes rebound back with the 3rd person saying “wait, I’m making a convo with him/her, let this person finish”.
This is only gonna increase the ego of the person whom you wanted to subtly mock.
This is only gonna increase the ego of the person whom you wanted to subtly mock.