
far336
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I've been reading some of the feedback users receive when they get rated. Some of it is honest and respectful, for example "Your nose is too big" , "your eyes are too far apart", "your jaw looks round, try losing weight". In my opinion, this is good feedback because if the comment is "Your nose is too big", then OP might consider getting it reduced, and now he is one step closer to his goal.
Some of it are just plain insults. For example "You are ugly and there is no hope for you", "Your nose is fucked", "Your eyes are terrible". This is just insulting, how will OP know how to improve his looks if he sees a comment like "Your eyes are terrible"?
Remember, when you give feedback to OP, OP is a human being with emotions. If OP is on a looksmax forum, then he's having issues with life already, throwing insults at him will just make things worse. On bad days, insults like that might just be enough to push him to cause some serious damage to himself or to others. There are no benefits to insulting others, but there negative outcomes for it.
You may say, "This is the internet, what do you expect, people are going to be rude. If OP is sensitive to insults, he should get off the internet", that doesn't make it okay for people on this forum to throw insults at each other.
Everyone on this forum is going through the same issue. If we can be respectful and cooperate with each other, we can reach our desired goals faster. I've been talking with users on this forum, and some of them are mature and respectful, and I've been able to gain a lot of knowledge from them. Knowledge that I would not have been able to gain on my own, which has put me closer to my goals. Isn't it nice when you're one step closer to your goals?
Some of it are just plain insults. For example "You are ugly and there is no hope for you", "Your nose is fucked", "Your eyes are terrible". This is just insulting, how will OP know how to improve his looks if he sees a comment like "Your eyes are terrible"?
Remember, when you give feedback to OP, OP is a human being with emotions. If OP is on a looksmax forum, then he's having issues with life already, throwing insults at him will just make things worse. On bad days, insults like that might just be enough to push him to cause some serious damage to himself or to others. There are no benefits to insulting others, but there negative outcomes for it.
You may say, "This is the internet, what do you expect, people are going to be rude. If OP is sensitive to insults, he should get off the internet", that doesn't make it okay for people on this forum to throw insults at each other.
Everyone on this forum is going through the same issue. If we can be respectful and cooperate with each other, we can reach our desired goals faster. I've been talking with users on this forum, and some of them are mature and respectful, and I've been able to gain a lot of knowledge from them. Knowledge that I would not have been able to gain on my own, which has put me closer to my goals. Isn't it nice when you're one step closer to your goals?