PSA (important for all incels)

[Deleted member 26289]

I see lots of people on here doing exactly what i did.

you see people fucking, and you just want to skip to the point as soon as possible.
But, it doesn't matter how much porn you've watched, it (usually) doesn't matter how ready you think you are,

even if you're a complete chad that oozes sex appeal going straight for the homerun if you haven't got to 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base already will (most likely) be a fools mission.

I know, because i tried. I spent ages 18-22 seeing dudes get girls like it was nothing. i kept trying to skip to the point but it never worked out, and was sure there's something wrong with me. without knowing it, I had to go through all the bases,

starting with making out w a girl,
then making out w AND feeling up a girl,
then fingering,
and then i knew i was ready for the real thing.

before all these, even tho one girl literally dragged me by the hand to her bedroom and opened her legs to me and told me to fuck her, i was incapable of it. i just embarrassed myself and wussed out.

i got to each one and was only disappointed that i must've done something wrong, or how stupid i was not to fuck, when she was clearly into me. but, this was natural and it had to happen this way. The first time you touch a vagina irl it will probably blow your mind. unless you're absolutely thoughtless unless you take a ton of viagra and force your way through, theres no way you're gona be able to stick your dick inside it, and still no way you do well first time. no amount of watching porn will prepare you for the real thing. porn isn't real anyways.

most dudes dont even talk about this anymore in their 20s, bc it happened long ago during their normal socialization process in middle or high school. like me, you were left behind and now you never see men who are still in the preliminary stages. for the majority of normies (who talk the loudest) its just sex bc they went thru the preliminary stages long ago.

but take my advice, and take it slow. one doesn't go from kissless virgin to home run just bc they ascended with looks, or sex appeal.

I know this isnt what you want to hear but it's the truth. take it slow.

there's some examples I'm sure where dudes get the home run first try, but these are anomalies, and possibly just stories they tell to try to flex.

 

[juste]

dn rd shit

 

[Deleted member 26289]

dn rd shit

 

[pardocel]

Not a single sentence was read.

 

[Deleted member 24712]

theres no way you're gona be able to stick your dick inside it

how?
like what could go wrong.. ur hard and theres a hole how can u fail to stick it in brah

 

[juste]

and HE LOVED HER

cant be more cuck than this guy

 

[pardocel]

dn rd shit

your signature is so fucking funny.

 

[juste]

your signature is so fucking funny.

good girl

 

[Deleted member 26289]

how?
like what could go wrong.. ur hard and theres a hole how can u fail to stick it in brah

getting ahead of yourself, it won't work. seems like it will but it probably won't

porn doesn't prepare you for the real thing

it's like someone saying you have to practice guitar before you're able to play anything
"but why don't you just smash a sick solo? you want to and the guitar is able so why not?"

doesn't work that way unless you're black

 

[Deleted member 24712]

getting ahead of yourself, it won't work. seems like it will but it probably won't

porn doesn't prepare you for real sex

ok but like tell me what could go wrong.. i know some ppl say they get too nervous and get limp dick but other than that what can actually go wrong?

 

[Deleted member 23218]

I’ll just get an escort flr
The first time and pop lots of viagra

 

[Deleted member 26289]

ok but like tell me what could go wrong.. i know some ppl say they get too nervous and get limp dick but other than that what can actually go wrong?

that but also the first time you feel the inside of a vagina you won't know what to think of it. the first time you feel the area down there it's like walking on an alien planet. It seem's like itd be simple in theory, we all know how it's supposed to work, but its not that simple

 

[Deleted member 24712]

that but also the first time you feel the inside of a vagina you won't know what to think of it. the first time you feel the area down there it's like walking on an alien planet. It seem's like itd be simple in theory, but it really isn't

so feeling/doing something new for the first time makes u insta-fail?
seems like a u problem tbh

like u keep saying it seems simple but really isnt, but it does seem simple... u stick it in and stick it out, thats literally all u will probably do during ur first time

 

[Deleted member 26289]

so feeling/doing something new for the first time makes u insta-fail?
seems like a u problem tbh

like u keep saying it seems simple but really isnt, but it does seem simple... u stick it in and stick it out, thats literally all u will probably do during ur first time

then go for it, i see tons of posts on here or other forums from guys tho wondering why sex doesn't happen from dates, or why they get anxious and underperform or cant get hard.

also its the nuance. if you don't know how to nuance making out or feeling a girl up, how can you hope to nuance actual intercourse?

if you even get dates if you try to force your way to intercourse, you will be overwhelmed and have no idea what you're doing. although theres a much smaller chance you make a fool of yourself and ruin the date if you first start by only strategising on getting to making out.

and then once you get there, make your strategy about feeling them up.

etc.

much less chance of failure and constant failure is terrible for self esteem.

 

[St.TikTokcel]

I see lots of people on here doing exactly what i did.

you see people fucking, and you just want to skip to the point as soon as possible.
But, it doesn't matter how much porn you've watched, it (usually) doesn't matter how ready you think you are,

even if you're a complete chad that oozes sex appeal going straight for the homerun if you haven't got to 1st, 2nd, and 3rd base already will (most likely) be a fools mission.

I know, because i tried. I spent ages 18-22 seeing dudes get girls like it was nothing. i kept trying to skip to the point but it never worked out, and was sure there's something wrong with me. without knowing it, I had to go through all the bases,

starting with making out w a girl,
then making out w AND feeling up a girl,
then fingering,
and then i knew i was ready for the real thing.

before all these, even tho one girl literally dragged me by the hand to her bedroom and opened her legs to me and told me to fuck her, i was incapable of it. i just embarrassed myself and wussed out.

i got to each one and was only disappointed that i must've done something wrong, or how stupid i was not to fuck, when she was clearly into me. but, this was natural and it had to happen this way. The first time you touch a vagina irl it will probably blow your mind. unless you're absolutely thoughtless unless you take a ton of viagra and force your way through, theres no way you're gona be able to stick your dick inside it, and still no way you do well first time. no amount of watching porn will prepare you for the real thing. porn isn't real anyways.

most dudes dont even talk about this anymore in their 20s, bc it happened long ago during their normal socialization process in middle or high school. like me, you were left behind and now you never see men who are still in the preliminary stages. for the majority of normies (who talk the loudest) its just sex bc they went thru the preliminary stages long ago.

but take my advice, and take it slow. one doesn't go from kissless virgin to home run just bc they ascended with looks, or sex appeal.

I know this isnt what you want to hear but it's the truth. take it slow.

there's some examples I'm sure where dudes get the home run first try, but these are anomalies, and possibly just stories they tell to try to flex.

 

[Deleted member 19453]

great thread!

 

[Deleted member 24712]

then go for it, i see tons of posts on here or other forums from guys tho wondering why sex doesn't happen from dates, or why they get anxious and underperform or cant get hard.

also its the nuance. if you don't know how to nuance making out or feeling a girl up, how can you hope to nuance actual intercourse?

if you even get dates if you try to force your way to intercourse, you will be overwhelmed and have no idea what you're doing. although theres a much smaller chance you make a fool of yourself and ruin the date if you first start by only strategising on getting to making out.

and then once you get there, make your strategy about feeling them up.

etc.

much less chance of failure and constant failure is terrible for self esteem.

Wdym