PTSD caused me to be a incel

[Deleted member 30489]

I was bullied rlly bad up to 8th grade middle school by girls primarily too, I felt like I needed to have sex. Through highschool I had acne and every girl I asked out rejected me except for 1 my junior year. I end up having sex with her and things didn’t end well at all, I ended up being fine as in didn’t get into any trouble but now I’m terrified of girls, I tried to go on a date a few months ago and I couldn’t talk I was so scared being alone with a girl in a romantic setting after the incident. I don’t know if I can get over this I am terrified of sex now

 

[Deleted member 30489]

I was bullied rlly bad up to 8th grade middle school by girls primarily too, I felt like I needed to have sex. Through highschool I had acne and every girl I asked out rejected me except for 1 my junior year. I end up having sex with her and things didn’t end well at all, I ended up being fine as in didn’t get into any trouble but now I’m terrified of girls, I tried to go on a date a few months ago and I couldn’t talk I was so scared being alone with a girl in a romantic setting after the incident. I don’t know if I can get over this I am terrified of sex now

I know I’m not a trucel anymore but idk what to do I just can’t get over my fears

 

[Deleted member 30489]

Bump

 

[Deleted member 30489]

Sorry for trauma dumping

 

[A_H0T_Wombat]

Yeah I'm sorry man best way is to just go on dates so many times and be exposed to girls so much that it fades. Bullying fucks with ur head really bad it also took me a very long time to start being a bit social

 

[Deleted member 109943]

Attend a Real Social Dynamics boot camp.

 

[Deleted member 30489]

Yeah I'm sorry man best way is to just go on dates so many times and be exposed to girls so much that it fades. Bullying fucks with ur head really bad it also took me a very long time to start being a bit social

Well I was starting to get over it and then I almost got in huge trouble form having sex and now I can’t even really talk to girls without thinking about it then I go nonverbal. I also have adhd

 

[Deleted member 30489]

Attend a Real Social Dynamics boot camp.

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Those are so scammy

 

[A_H0T_Wombat]

Well I was starting to get over it and then I almost got in huge trouble form having sex and now I can’t even really talk to girls without thinking about it then I go nonverbal. I also have adhd

What type of trouble lol

 

[Deleted member 30489]

What type of trouble lol

I don’t really wanna say cause I’m super paranoid about it but I got some allegations and I had to take 2 polygraphs to prove I didn’t do anything unconsentual

 

[Deleted member 30489]

What type of trouble lol

Thanks for being nice to me

 

[A_H0T_Wombat]

I don’t really wanna say cause I’m super paranoid about it but I got some allegations and I had to take 2 polygraphs to prove I didn’t do anything unconsentual

Don't be scared of future shit nigga it's prob not gonna go that bad again

 

[A_H0T_Wombat]

Don't be scared of future shit nigga it's prob not gonna go that bad again

Some chick's just like causing trouble

 

[Deleted member 30489]

Some chick's just like causing trouble

Thanks I should probably try to get over it

 

[WrothEnd]

Heard vorinostat is good for such things. Might try it myself.

 

[Deleted member 116989]

PTSD caused you to be an incel
or
being an incel caused you to have PTSD

 

[Deleted member 30489]

PTSD caused you to be an incel
or
being an incel caused you to have PTSD

Well I had sex so at one point I wasn’t

 

[McSkziofren]

I was bullied rlly bad up to 8th grade middle school by girls primarily too, I felt like I needed to have sex. Through highschool I had acne and every girl I asked out rejected me except for 1 my junior year. I end up having sex with her and things didn’t end well at all, I ended up being fine as in didn’t get into any trouble but now I’m terrified of girls, I tried to go on a date a few months ago and I couldn’t talk I was so scared being alone with a girl in a romantic setting after the incident. I don’t know if I can get over this I am terrified of sex now

true deeply experience