purpose pf being alive

[ydrrrkabi]

what is the purpose of being alive if i can’t be happy? since when i realized the reason i couldn’t experience love was my looks my life has been shit, now i am so insecure, i’m obviously trying everything i can to change it, but there are too many things like my own family that makes me feel want to be dead. how can i be really happy? how do i stop being disgusted by myself even tough it’s been months i’m giving my best but feel the same, if there was at least one person that cared about me, but even my own family seems to not want me.

 

[eternallyugly]

Read philipp mainlanders will to die philosophy

 

[kjhcfad]

 

[AutistKhan]

to reproduce and conquer and live

 

[#1chadinturkey]

if your gonna take suicide take a bunch of bad people with you

 

[witedudzz]

what is the purpose of being alive if i can’t be happy? since when i realized the reason i couldn’t experience love was my looks my life has been shit, now i am so insecure, i’m obviously trying everything i can to change it, but there are too many things like my own family that makes me feel want to be dead. how can i be really happy? how do i stop being disgusted by myself even tough it’s been months i’m giving my best but feel the same, if there was at least one person that cared about me, but even my own family seems to not want me.

you might want to start looking for stuff that makes you happy... try approaching random people and talking to them. homeless ppl are very open to talking a lot of times... especially if you give em some food or ask them for advice. try reading books and enjoying nature, reconnecting with what used to make you happy. life is a quest for happiness, not the state of happiness. you truly attain happiness when you understand it doesn't matter.

look at the world with a wider fov to be able to enjoy its details. try and understand who around you is nice whether or not you know them well. if you're just looking for a good time... priests and old people can be really insightful.

 

[witedudzz]

if your gonna take suicide take a bunch of bad people with you

i stand by the opinion all suicidal people should go for extreme sports and record breaking attempts. if you have nothing to lose might as well go for a high risk high reward incentive like breaking a cliffjumping record or shi like that.

 

[osteoblasst]

if your gonna take suicide take a bunch of bad people with you

great point

 

[#1chadinturkey]

i stand by the opinion all suicidal people should go for extreme sports and record breaking attempts. if you have nothing to lose might as well go for a high risk high reward incentive like breaking a cliffjumping record or shi like that.

i kind of agree, i think the worst thing is when you die unhappy, so do what makes you happy before you die.

 

[Gandy]

My take is we are nothing but sentient apes and animals.

Our only deeper purpose is having kids and attempting to give them a better foundation for life than what we had as kids.

Then if we are lucky they do the same to their kids and happiness increases exponentially.
Of course, real life isn't that simple and all kinds of wars, natural disasters and scams can ruin your legacy in 1 day. Stupid heirs can waste 200 years of inheritance in 6 months.

I started looksmaxing swearing I'd never settle down or have a family, and yet 10+ years later I do have 2 kids now.
When you become 30+, almost everything except family starts feeling like a major cope.

 

[ydrrrkabi]

My take is we are nothing but sentient apes and animals.

Our only deeper purpose is having kids and attempting to give them a better foundation for life than what we had as kids.

Then if we are lucky they do the same to their kids and happiness increases exponentially.
Of course, real life isn't that simple and all kinds of wars, natural disasters and scams can ruin your legacy in 1 day. Stupid heirs can waste 200 years of inheritance in 6 months.

I started looksmaxing swearing I'd never settle down or have a family, and yet 10+ years later I do have 2 kids now.
When you become 30+, almost everything except family starts feeling like a major cope.

i dont even know the real reason i feel like this but i think it’s because i never felt loved or sum shi like that, my best friend and i lost weight together yet he became so handsome (i mean objectively) when i made hin know some of my friends some girls where like give me his ig and i think thats when it all started, for me he is living my dream life, i am sure what i want is not girls, but maybe just feel free, feel that people search for me and need me, but i dont know, i cant just give uo on this it would hurt too much see everyone like my best friend be like that and not me, if i continue giving my best i can really become who ineant? should i just try to make money so i can really be free and maybe even become more handsome through operations? im 14 btw so i dont even have money for creams and shit and thats one of the reasons i feel like this because no matter what i might not be able to get tret etc… bevause of my family, im trying to make my own money tho

 

[lowltn222]

what is the purpose of being alive if i can’t be happy? since when i realized the reason i couldn’t experience love was my looks my life has been shit, now i am so insecure, i’m obviously trying everything i can to change it, but there are too many things like my own family that makes me feel want to be dead. how can i be really happy? how do i stop being disgusted by myself even tough it’s been months i’m giving my best but feel the same, if there was at least one person that cared about me, but even my own family seems to not want me.

what an interesting question about looksmaxxing! its not as if there is another channel called offtopic which you could find the answer you seek