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[Jensonsahighlander]

I almost believed you and then I saw therapy

that’s like a last option if you’re truly ND and some autism on you or that typa shit just do the rest

 

[Van]

converse nigga, nothing is just going to come to you if your not chad

How can I converse with another person if she doesn't feel comfortable speaking to me

 

[PSLbbc]

Manlet

 

[nitrocell]

How can I converse with another person if she doesn't feel comfortable speaking to me

then drop the girl and move on, if it keeps happening, youll have to improve your looks or money

 

[CorinthianLOX]

Foids have no interest in making man friends if they cannot benefit from you . If they see you are not experienced they will reject you automatically . They dont have time to babysit you they rather spend that time jestering for Chads .

I learnt this the hard way

I forced myself to go to clubs and bars just to experienced nothing other than humiliation . I cringe so hard when i remember those moments . I was so out of place .

I can relate

Every time i want to be more social and go out more i remember how pathetic i am . I know i will just go out there and will sit in the corner like a lunatic . I know i will feel bad and awkward . And this cycle never stops i want to be social but then i remember i will have an awful time that discourage me and i end up doing nothing.

I can definitely relate

 

[FoidSlayer127]

Why would you want to be friends with Foids, they are already annoying even if you fuck them, imagine doing it for free

 

[Van]

Manlet

I have to agree with u Im 5'11 in 2026

 

[magneso]

How do you make female friends, cuz Istg every time I talk to one, with each word I utter they start getting angrier at me

I promise you It's not the contents of our conversation that ruins it for me, but rather I think It's something to do with my mannerisms and way of speech or even diction..idk...

Is the solution exposure therapy because It's been like that forever, it doesn't seem to get better with time

Are women even humans?? I couldn't tell you, as it happens my interactions with ai are more meaningful

Im nd but take medicine and make another personality that you use with girls

 

[Van]

Why would you want to be friends with Foids, they are already annoying even if you fuck them, imagine doing it for free

For the reason that in society you're seen as a freak if you don't have female friends, which significantly lowers your chances of slaying

 

[january]

look normal atleast
dont be awkward
have good social status

 

[Van]

look normal atleast
dont be awkward
have good social status

No social status for my neet ass

 

[january]

No social status for my neet ass

thats the problem lil bro

 

[Marss]

Are women even humans??

Women are foids, foids arent human.

 

[GhenCohen]

chad ramblings

 

[masai jumps enjoyer]

How do you make female friends, cuz Istg every time I talk to one, with each word I utter they start getting angrier at me

I promise you It's not the contents of our conversation that ruins it for me, but rather I think It's something to do with my mannerisms and way of speech or even diction..idk...

Is the solution exposure therapy because It's been like that forever, it doesn't seem to get better with time

Are women even humans?? I couldn't tell you, as it happens my interactions with ai are more meaningful

IF YOU WANT ACTUAL ADVICE READ THIS (used to be the weird asocial up until 9th grade now im the NT cool kid and anyone relatively popular in school knows my name).

-1. Why do you even want to make friends with girls? Trust me they are much less interesting to talk to than guys (most of your convos will be about the most trivial of topics) and just are generally lower IQ it feels like, so unless you have a good reason or just genuinely curious/interested then just dont. Will boost your preselection though
0. Fashionmaxx, haistylemaxx to indicate that youre socially calibrated and NT. Try to control your ND mannerisms, slow down talking pace and try to train yourself to feel comfortable maintaining eye contact. Not being subhuman/lltn is also a prerequisite, noone likes to hang around an ugly individual.
1. build up overall popularity. start by finding a relatively popular friend with whom you can somewhat connect, and tag along with them to parties, walks, collective mall visits, sleepovers etc. Also make sure to always hang out in the bathroom with the vapers. No need to vape just be there for the record and try to laugh at the same stuff others laugh
2. now that youre atleast somewhat recognizeable by other popular NT kids thanks to you just always being there you can start attempting to find female friends. (The reason you shouldnt do it before is that girls really value being NT and sociable so if you're an outcast youre automatically disqualified from their potential friend pool unless you have a lot of matching interests). There probably will be girls in the cool kids group, target the most interesting ones although they are all superficial bitches and dont think you have a chance with them romantically as long as they dont give obvious IOIs which probably wont happen. Otherwise they are reserved for actually NT leader guys and chads. You can also try meeting some less popular ones via mutual acquaintances.
3. At first just do small talk and trivial topics, remember not to look too tryhard as if youre specifically targeting them, girls in general dont like any unnaturally forced or heavy stuff which makes them think so keep it for later once youre actual friends and even then talk about philosophy and other shit very occasionally
4. remember that girls are actual humans too, they also feel anxiety and have insecurities, probably even more than most of us here do. Trust me they are not as fully confident and nonchalant as it first seems
5. once some of the girls warm up to you and you can easily do small talk and it doesnt feel forced build your way up from here, participate in parties they go to and the rest is obvious, eventually they will trust you enough to call you their friend.

gl mate

 

[Van]

that’s like a last option if you’re truly ND and some autism on you or that typa shit just do the rest

How do I convince myself that women aren't superior when in reality disabled women have more smv than me and better life quality overall. I may be a incel but Im not crazy enough to straight up reject reality. Can you interact positively with someone who isn't on equal grounds with u.

 

[Jesus_ist_König]

I dont know

 

[Jensonsahighlander]

How do I convince myself that women aren't superior when in reality disabled women have more smv than me and better life quality overall. I may be a incel but Im not crazy enough to straight up reject reality. Can you interact positively with someone who isn't on equal grounds with u.

women are groomers too

edit: i meant gooners but i find my typo a bit funny im keeping it

 

[Van]

IF YOU WANT ACTUAL ADVICE READ THIS (used to be the weird asocial up until 9th grade now im the NT cool kid and anyone relatively popular in school knows my name).

-1. Why do you even want to make friends with girls? Trust me they are much less interesting to talk to than guys (most of your convos will be about the most trivial of topics) and just are generally lower IQ it feels like, so unless you have a good reason or just genuinely curious/interested then just dont. Will boost your preselection though
0. Fashionmaxx, haistylemaxx to indicate that youre socially calibrated and NT. Try to control your ND mannerisms, slow down talking pace and try to train yourself to feel comfortable maintaining eye contact. Not being subhuman/lltn is also a prerequisite, noone likes to hang around an ugly individual.
1. build up overall popularity. start by finding a relatively popular friend with whom you can somewhat connect, and tag along with them to parties, walks, collective mall visits, sleepovers etc. Also make sure to always hang out in the bathroom with the vapers. No need to vape just be there for the record and try to laugh at the same stuff others laugh
2. now that youre atleast somewhat recognizeable by other popular NT kids thanks to you just always being there you can start attempting to find female friends. (The reason you shouldnt do it before is that girls really value being NT and sociable so if you're an outcast youre automatically disqualified from their potential friend pool unless you have a lot of matching interests). There probably will be girls in the cool kids group, target the most interesting ones although they are all superficial bitches and dont think you have a chance with them romantically as long as they dont give obvious IOIs which probably wont happen. Otherwise they are reserved for actually NT leader guys and chads. You can also try meeting some less popular ones via mutual acquaintances.
3. At first just do small talk and trivial topics, remember not to look too tryhard as if youre specifically targeting them, girls in general dont like any unnaturally forced or heavy stuff which makes them think so keep it for later once youre actual friends and even then talk about philosophy and other shit very occasionally
4. remember that girls are actual humans too, they also feel anxiety and have insecurities, probably even more than most of us here do. Trust me they are not as fully confident and nonchalant as it first seems
5. once some of the girls warm up to you and you can easily do small talk and it doesnt feel forced build your way up from here, participate in parties they go to and the rest is obvious, eventually they will trust you enough to call you their friend.

gl mate

Interesting points, unfortunately most of this stuff doesn't apply to me because I am past highschool.

 

[GynoGladiator]

foids want total male death

 

[soapbubble]

I promise you It's not the contents of our conversation that ruins it for me, but rather I think It's something to do with my mannerisms and way of speech or even diction..idk...

.org rating?

how are you approaching them?

send recording of yourself talking if you can as well

 

[masai jumps enjoyer]

Interesting points, unfortunately most of this stuff doesn't apply to me because I am past highschool.

if youre in uni/college most of what i said can be adapted almost 1:1 anyway. If not then making friends when youre not a part of some big institution with a lot of people your age is generally much harder, hence most people make less friends during adulthood as compared to HS/Uni

 

[Ruinedbyfaceshape]

6'0 NT MTN fucks every LTB in sight

 

[Van]

foids want total male death

I think you nailed it

 

[Jensonsahighlander]

How do I convince myself that women aren't superior when in reality disabled women have more smv than me and better life quality overall. I may be a incel but Im not crazy enough to straight up reject reality. Can you interact positively with someone who isn't on equal grounds with u.

i have done some thinking here is a fully serious response

you have brainwashed yourself with the mindset that you’re a girls slave and that’s all that’s what causing you to internally panic when talking to one you can interact positively and normally with girls no they aren’t superior the one you’re talking to is probably a normal person

convince yourself to just not care at all oh she’s superior in your eyes at least then just stop caring tbh view it as a small talk background conversation not anything life changing just stop caring is all i have to say

 

[Van]

i have done some thinking here is a fully serious response

you have brainwashed yourself with the mindset that you’re a girls slave and that’s all that’s what causing you to internally panic when talking to one you can interact positively and normally with girls no they aren’t superior the one you’re talking to is probably a normal person

convince yourself to just not care at all oh she’s superior in your eyes at least then just stop caring tbh view it as a small talk background conversation not anything life changing just stop caring is all i have to say

There are many books that have been written on this topic of not giving a fuck. It sounds easy on paper but when shit hits the fan I still panic and manage to screw up.

 

[ToDelirium]

How do you make female friends, cuz Istg every time I talk to one, with each word I utter they start getting angrier at me

I promise you It's not the contents of our conversation that ruins it for me, but rather I think It's something to do with my mannerisms and way of speech or even diction..idk...

Is the solution exposure therapy because It's been like that forever, it doesn't seem to get better with time

Are women even humans?? I couldn't tell you, as it happens my interactions with ai are more meaningful

I understand girls becoming less and less interested, but angry what are you saying?

 

[kash Register]

DNRD faggot

Niggas hate for no reason

 

[Societal Reject]

Its easy. Dont be subhuman and dont be an ogre.

 

[New Poster]

Tfw reading thread title

 

[Foidmaxxer]

Ur either sub hmtn or autist unfortunately.

 

[karmacitathugmaxx]

There are many books that have been written on this topic of not giving a fuck. It sounds easy on paper but when shit hits the fan I still panic and manage to screw up.

aight im gonna say the line bro

whats your bmi and bodyfat %

 

[PrettyLights]

HOW HAS NOBODY ASKED THIS NIGGA WHY HE WANTS FEMALE FRIENDS IN THE FIRST PLACE. LIKE… WHY WOULD YOU WANT THAT ???