Question for the UKcels who are 16+

[Deleted member 66591]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

 

[ascension]

Just be kind and help people. That's how you mog

 

[Deleted member 66591]

Just be kind and help people. That's how you mog

Will helping the kid getting bullied also help me mog?

 

[Deleted member 43058]

do you know anyone from your secondary school?

 

[ascension]

Will helping the kid getting bullied also help me mog?

Yep. If you see someone getting bullied, stand in between them and the bullies. Then firmly tell them to "stop". Ask them to reconsider their actions. Ask them how they'd feel if they were treated in that way. Bullying is often a reaction to struggles in the bullies life - respectfully ask them to perhaps seek therapy.

 

[Deleted member 66591]

do you know anyone from your secondary school?

None of my friends are going there, but i have one friend who will be in year 13 by the time I'm in year 12, do year 12 and 13 mix in 6th form?

 

[Deleted member 43058]

None of my friends are going there, but i have one friend who will be in year 13 by the time I'm in year 12, do year 12 and 13 mix in 6th form?

nope not really. don’t have any advice for your scenario

 

[Notcel]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

I don't know too much about the uk but I'd say you should join any clubs/activities if you guys have them over there. it might help so you can meet new people near you and try to train so eventually you can join a sport if you want to be recognized

 

[Deleted member 66591]

I don't know too much about the uk but I'd say you should join any clubs/activities if you guys have them over there. it might help so you can meet new people near you and try to train so eventually you can join a sport if you want to be recognized

Can i join the football(soccer) team if I'm shit at football?

 

[Deleted member 46507]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

ur doing gcses now too?

 

[Deleted member 66591]

ur doing gcses now too?

Yes but I'm almost done with them

 

[Deleted member 54067]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

 

[Deleted member 46507]

Yes but I'm almost done with them

bro iv still got 2weeks of exams left

 

[Deleted member 69082]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

You don’t

 

[Deleted member 66591]

You don’t

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

ovER

 

[try2beme]

I would give anything to go back to six form. Peak of my life, better than uni

 

[try2beme]

Ppl are coping hard. Just befriend NT people, some giga nt individual befriended me cuz of my style and she was responsible for my circle in those years deadass she even gave me friends out of school

 

[Notcel]

Can i join the football(soccer) team if I'm shit at football?

if you don't have a close knit school then you can try but I'd recommend something like rowing or low contact sport if you're just trying it out just so you can be inside the group and not have anyone talk badly about your skill level

 

[Deleted member 69082]

You can’t. Making friends past 15-16 is borderline impossible unless you’re some sort of hyper popular ntfag which I doubt you are if you are on this forum

Making friends at any age is borderline impossible if you’re autistic. I was lonely when I was 5 and still am to this day

 

[Deleted member 66591]

Ppl are coping hard. Just befriend NT people, some giga nt individual befriended me cuz of my style and she was responsible for my circle in those years deadass she even gave me friends out of school

LifeFuel

 

[try2beme]

LifeFuel

Also im not saying dont befriend non nt people, but emphasize nt ones

 

[Deleted member 66591]

Also im not saying dont befriend non nt people, but emphasize nt ones

I have one friend who is NT but he will be in year 13 while ill be in year 12, do the two years mix together in friend groups or not?

 

[try2beme]

I have one friend who is NT but he will be in year 13 while ill be in year 12, do the two years mix together in friend groups or not?

You can more likely if you have the same common room vs if year 12 and 13 get seperated hella. For us we mixed a lot so it was fine and if u hang outside during ur breaks it makes no diff

 

[Deleted member 54067]

I would give anything to go back to six form. Peak of my life, better than uni

I used to think this is an incel trait but then I remembered my life peaked at 14 or even 12, absolute bottom tier trait

 

[try2beme]

I used to think this is an incel trait but then I remembered my life peaked at 14 or even 12, absolute bottom tier trait

It really is whatever

 

[Deleted member 63212]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

Shouldn’t need to ask this tbh just start a general convo like what secondary school did u go then progress and shi

 

[Deleted member 66591]

Shouldn’t need to ask this tbh just start a general convo like what secondary school did u go then progress and shi

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

 

[Deleted member 63212]

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

Whenever u want, in lessons would be easier
+ a freind u make can alr have another friend group which he may let u hang around with it’s too hard to jump into a random friend group like that and awkward without a mutual friend

 

[SecularIslamist]

If you're not main character in your social circle you rely on them.

 

[Deleted member 43058]

should i start convos in lessons or during break? also my main goal is to find a big friend group so how could i get close enough with some of them to join ?

both

 

[Deleted member 66591]

If you're not main character in your social circle you rely on them.

Ill need to build a social circle first because i won’t have one

 

[belisa14]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

people usually go into 6 form with people they’re already friends with.
Just speak to people in your class.

 

[SecularIslamist]

Ill need to build a social circle first because i won’t have one

It's over. If you aren't taking mates from secondary school. Staring from 0 is suifeul. I did this only when I went uni. I spent most of it friendless.

First couple/few weeks are crucial. Making friends after people have made their circles is the losers path. You may still do it - but you'll be paired with other losers too. Maybe that's you're natural place though, with other losers - no offence.

 

[Deleted member 66591]

people usually go into 6 form with people they’re already friends with.
Just speak to people in your class.

Everyone is gonna be with their friends from high school while ill just be running around having awkward convos with randoms

 

[Deleted member 66591]

It's over. If you aren't taking mates from secondary school. Staring from 0 is suifeul. I did this only when I went uni. I spent most of it friendless.

First couple/few weeks are crucial. Making friends after people have made their circles is the losers path. You may still do it - but you'll be paired with other losers too. Maybe that's you're natural place though, with other losers - no offence.

Or maybe I could fruad being NT with alcohol for the first week

 

[Kelly Oubre Jr]

How do you make as many friends as possible on the first few days of 6th form

trust me dont worry about sixth form just ascend for uni

 

[Neph]

it’s going to sound weird. but you need to play socially aggressive. this means being hyper nt, jumping on a chance before others, and being able to meet people and find a means to stay in contact with them after the first interaction (insta or snap). if you aren’t aggressive when it comes to making friends, you will be left with no one apart from the outcasts. and outcasts don’t mix with outcasts. at that point it’s over for sixth form. just remember the early weeks are so important for socialising. study later if you really need to. sorry for the shit spelling my phone is on all caps lower for some reason.