Question Of The Day #8 - biggest regrets

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dont larp
 
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eating like shit when i was young, ive always been underweight
 
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My biggest regret is not joining the forum earlier and I learned that rotting is law
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?
The grass isn't always greener on the other side.

In 2023 I was given a choice to move to italy from poland, and I was up for the challenge (i also liked the idea of getting a lot of attention for being the guy thats leaving the school, my crush hugged me goodbye). Around a month before I officially moved out, i started really thinking about what I was doing, but by then the decision was already finalized. We moved to italy, I started doing online school, and that begun my downfall from being the guy who hosts parties every fridays, to now a friendless rotter who's only hobby is browsing forums & playing video games.

If I had a magic wand I'd go back in time and stay in poland, I think my development & social life would be 10,000x better than what it is right now. But oh well, it is what it is.
 
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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
Not doing nicotine earlier

Shit is peak
 
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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
probably eating sub 1.5k cals to loose weight got skinny fat then took me a year too change or getting back with my ex
 
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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
My only friend got killed because of me, i still regret this to this day, idk really how im still alive, i should've rope that day because of guilt, but i cant do anything but praying for him, i learned that dont trust anyone in this life, they can ruin your life in one night, i said this because some people i trusted them killed him, always keep a wepon in your pocket before you leave the house kids:feelsokman: you dont want to experience what i did (dont call me attention seeker pls)
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?
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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
To not be passive and not wait 4 the perfect moment. I realized it when I hanged out witha group of friends ant there was this frien of a friend, we talked, we had fun and it was like we knew eachother for years. I liked her, but i let her go. I never asked for a number, ig or shit (im a dumbass:feelskek:) 2 months later i finally get the balls to text her and she brutally leaves me on read, while i just asked to be friends:pepefrown:

Now i still like her and even as a friend it would be cool for me but from now on i've learnt to be always reactive in life in general unlike my past self

(I still lowk miss her:pepefrown:)
 
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ur joking nigga wtf

did u get her preg? you can sue her for that shit unironically :feelswhat:
she had the implant but if she didn’t then yeah probably she would’ve got pregnant (i was 16) at the time
 
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Not listening to what i told myself last year..:feelsmage:
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dang man some bitches are crazy, glad nothing happened, your life would be fucked



me too, blessing and a curse.. mostly a curse though.
I was also extremely low inhib then, when jt happened i got hardstruck fr, fortunately she isn't too attractive or i would've been even worse jfl
 
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We're all going to die, and make use of that time which remains. Put your hands on that mirror and move towards greater knowledge of what you can become. Greatness is in the mind and in the fist. We can be great again. But the first thing that we have to do is to say, I walk towards the tunnels, and I'm on my own, and I'm not afraid, and I have no regrets.

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my biggest regret is not fucking my dog when he was still alive, though he gave me good heads ngl but now i have no dih
 
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We're all going to die, and make use of that time which remains. Put your hands on that mirror and move towards greater knowledge of what you can become. Greatness is in the mind and in the fist. We can be great again. But the first thing that we have to do is to say, I walk towards the tunnels, and I'm on my own, and I'm not afraid, and I have no regrets.

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Probably not spending more time with my grandma while she was on her deathbed. It was just a lose lose situation. I just couldn’t stand seeing her crying because I had to see her that way. Feel like pussy for not visiting more often

Spend more time with the people that love you bhais:Comfy:
 
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my biggest regret is not fucking my dog when he was still alive, though he gave me good heads ngl but now i have no dih
NIGGA WHAT???
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?
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I forgot
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?

That I rejected my crush from fifth grade when she unexpectedly came up to me at my desk and asked me if I wanted a girlfriend, during the last class of the day, because we already got along very well, and she knew I had a crush on her, but she could see that I didn't want to escalate things, so she took the initiative..

I didn't learn anything apparently, because.. I have continued to reject it until today..

- High school crush who eventually made a move on me

- The girl I lost my virginity to during the summer break between high school and college

- A cute girl from my first year at university who asked me if I wanted to go to church with her

- 3 fucking girls from my first job ever who all made moves towards me one after the other..

- A skinny model-looking girl at my current workplace, to whom I once opened a door, and then she smiled at me in the hallway and looked at me in a certain way, waiting for me to go to her and do smt about it.. (I obv didn't)

Brutal for overthinking & too smart cels, who think too far ahead, and don't just live in the present at the risk of losing everything like any normie is doing without any worry..
 
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That I rejected my crush from fifth grade when she unexpectedly came up to me at my desk and asked me if I wanted a girlfriend, during the last class of the day, because we already got along very well, and she knew I had a crush on her, but she could see that I didn't want to escalate things, so he took the initiative..

I didn't learn anything apparently, because.. I have continued to reject it until today..

- High school crush who eventually made a move on me

- The girl I lost my virginity to during the summer break between high school and college

- A cute girl from my first year at university who asked me if I wanted to go to church with her

- 3 fucking girls from my first job ever who all made moves towards me one after the other..

- A skinny model-looking girl at my current workplace, to whom I once opened a door, and then she smiled at me in the hallway and looked at me in a certain way, waiting for me to go to her and do smt about it.. (I obv didn't)

Brutal for overthinking & too smart cels, who think too far ahead, and don't just live in the present at the risk of losing everything like any normie is doing without any worry..
you need to learn to settle my man

especialy the last girl.. lost a gold mine
 
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I think this is one of the toughest questions we got to answer here yet.
With every choice taken there come consequences, its about making the best out of that choice everyday

and often wouldnt a different choice lead to a better outcome BUT

nonetheless i want to share my biggest regret here:

So my biggest regret for sure comes down to the socialising i did, which wasn't a lot.

In elementary i sometimes didn't have it particulary easy, i wouldnt say i was bullied tbh, but i still was a bit of an outcast.

So after i completed elementary school i was someone who was very bad at socialising, especially with girls, since i went to a elementary school in my small village ( there were zero girls in my class jfl ).

So that resulted in the fact that when i started secondary school i basically only had two-three friends, and i really didnt try to get that number up.

With covid my socialising skills went even worse, and i became a video games addict.

Im no longer really addicted to video games / screens, and i became better with my talking skills, also with girls. But im still not anywhere near to where i aim to be, since i still didnt even have a female friend or even a gf in my entire life.

Now im trying my absolute best to change my life, but in the end it will always be our own responsibility to accountability for the repercussions of OUR decision no matter how hard they may be.

Every decision counts.

Elkkkk out :)
 
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That I rejected my crush from fifth grade when she unexpectedly came up to me at my desk and asked me if I wanted a girlfriend, during the last class of the day, because we already got along very well, and she knew I had a crush on her, but she could see that I didn't want to escalate things, so she took the initiative..

I didn't learn anything apparently, because.. I have continued to reject it until today..

- High school crush who eventually made a move on me

- The girl I lost my virginity to during the summer break between high school and college

- A cute girl from my first year at university who asked me if I wanted to go to church with her

- 3 fucking girls from my first job ever who all made moves towards me one after the other..

- A skinny model-looking girl at my current workplace, to whom I once opened a door, and then she smiled at me in the hallway and looked at me in a certain way, waiting for me to go to her and do smt about it.. (I obv didn't)

Brutal for overthinking & too smart cels, who think too far ahead, and don't just live in the present at the risk of losing everything like any normie is doing without any worry..
life is too big to regret shit, regret won't solve anything, whatever happened, happened

you will get other opportunities sooner or later, don't stress it bb
 
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can you give me your dih i need a big juicy veiny nigger dih transplant my dog ate mine
Sure, only downside it that I have a bwc :dafuckfeels:
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?
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My biggest regret was not fucking my cousin when I had multiple chances to do so
 
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you need to learn to settle my man

especialy the last girl.. lost a gold mine
you will get other opportunities sooner or later, don't stress it bb

Opportunities are likely to keep coming as long as I stay athletic and young looking, as I am now

The problem is that I don't currently have a job, material resources, or human resources that are satisfactory enough and that I am personally happy with, and with which I feel I can escalate things towards a relationship that will work in the medium and long term (as the English people would say, ''to have your shit together''), and these things are due to circumstances that life has thrown at me and that I cannot control

So bc of that I don't even get involved in short-term relationships because I feel like I would be wasting the girl's time, it wouldn't be respectful (to lie to her or promise her things that I am not sure will happen), and in that time she could find a guy who already has those resources, or is close to having them

Any girl who makes moves on me, I know that in her mind she believes I have these resources or the potential to obtain them, but unfortunately my realism tells me that it won't happen, so I don't even start something that I know will eventually end, and it won't be because of my behavior or smt

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So bc of that I don't even get involved in short-term relationships because I feel like I would be wasting the girl's time, it wouldn't be respectful (to lie to her or promise her things that I am not sure will happen), and in that time she could find a guy who already has those resources, or is close to having them
short term relationships (/casual relationships) are overally shit

IMO, date when ur ready and date only long term. thats the way to true happiness.

GL with your goals labubu
 
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Opportunities are likely to keep coming as long as I stay athletic and young looking, as I am now

The problem is that I don't currently have a job, material resources, or human resources that are satisfactory enough and that I am personally happy with, and with which I feel I can escalate things towards a relationship that will work in the medium and long term (as the English people would say, ''to have your shit together''), and these things are due to circumstances that life has thrown at me and that I cannot control

So bc of that I don't even get involved in short-term relationships because I feel like I would be wasting the girl's time, it wouldn't be respectful (to lie to her or promise her things that I am not sure will happen), and in that time she could find a guy who already has those resources, or is close to having them

Any girl who makes moves on me, I know that in her mind she believes I have these resources or the potential to obtain them, but unfortunately my realism tells me that it won't happen, so I don't even start something that I know will eventually end, and it won't be because of my behavior or smt

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u seem like a great guy tbh, focus on getting the things u need first then when the time comes u will get the girl u need and want alongside it, don't stress abt thing u can't control bc what can u do about it?
If it's in ur control, do it, everything will be fine bhai, this is a part of life everyone goes through, don't stress it
you will succeed
 
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WHAT'S YOUR BIGGEST REGRET, AND WHAT DID YOU LEARN FROM IT?
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@luca_.

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Im glad many users enjoy the company you get here, and hopefully everyone here finds comfort within these walls soon enough.



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@elkkkk @Orka @Daddy's Home @PsiIocybin
Ts just a huge repfarm.:lul:
Still interesting :feelsokman:
 
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Ts just a huge repfarm.:lul:
Still interesting :feelsokman:
nah.

mods are fine with it and i asked the community before whether they'd want qotds or not, so why not. it creates well needed engagment plus im giving away subscribtions for it.
 
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Opportunities are likely to keep coming as long as I stay athletic and young looking, as I am now

The problem is that I don't currently have a job, material resources, or human resources that are satisfactory enough and that I am personally happy with, and with which I feel I can escalate things towards a relationship that will work in the medium and long term (as the English people would say, ''to have your shit together''), and these things are due to circumstances that life has thrown at me and that I cannot control

So bc of that I don't even get involved in short-term relationships because I feel like I would be wasting the girl's time, it wouldn't be respectful (to lie to her or promise her things that I am not sure will happen), and in that time she could find a guy who already has those resources, or is close to having them

Any girl who makes moves on me, I know that in her mind she believes I have these resources or the potential to obtain them, but unfortunately my realism tells me that it won't happen, so I don't even start something that I know will eventually end, and it won't be because of my behavior or smt

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Who needs women when you can cum tribute to egirls. Oricum romancele sunt și proaste și urate
 
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