Quickly hated wherever I go

[fauxfox]

Has anyone else experienced this?
I was lean and decent looking for the entire time this was happening too.

From grade 2 to grade 8 I was completely shunned and hated by everyone. I had only 1 real friend. I reconnected with that friend a few months ago and he told me he thinks it was fucked up how I was treated, but didn't understand why they treated me that way. They never tried to get physical with me, I tried to join the nerd group but even they rejected me.

I had 3 good friends in highschool but I was hated by a lot of people there too. My friends told me they understood why I was hated but it was hard to put into words, however that same thing made me more likeable to them.

I wasn't even ugly at that time, I was hooking up with random HTB white girls so it wasn't my looks. This isn't an exaggeration/victim mentality. Numerous times I heard about people talking behind my back about how much they hate me.

I've been fired/had to leave multiple jobs and aLL my staff members actually hated me. One time a staff member legit started swinging at me and I had to defend myself. He was a criminal 30 year old Hispanic guy out of jail with an ankle monitor.

No one even stood up for me when it happened, I could tell they wanted him to win.

Even my own mother admitted she understands why people would hate me.

 

[bishōnenmaxxer]

I got a reply to this but I have to go pray.

Ping me.

 

[Sociobiology]

Alpha genes. You probably don't self-deprecate yourself to fit into social groups which makes people subconsciously envy you.

 

[incel194012940]

blud thinks hes count dracula

 

[Sociobiology]

Has anyone else experienced this?
I was lean and decent looking for the entire time this was happening too.

From grade 2 to grade 8 I was completely shunned and hated by everyone. I had only 1 real friend. I reconnected with that friend a few months ago and he told me he thinks it was fucked up how I was treated, but didn't understand why they treated me that way. They never tried to get physical with me, I tried to join the nerd group but even they rejected me.

I had 3 good friends in highschool but I was hated by a lot of people there too. My friends told me they understood why I was hated but it was hard to put into words, however that same thing made me more likeable to them.

I wasn't even ugly at that time, I was hooking up with random HTB white girls so it wasn't my looks. This isn't an exaggeration/victim mentality. Numerous times I heard about people talking behind my back about how much they hate me.

I've been fired/had to leave multiple jobs and aLL my staff members actually hated me. One time a staff member legit started swinging at me and I had to defend myself. He was a criminal 30 year old Hispanic guy out of jail with an ankle monitor.

No one even stood up for me when it happened, I could tell they wanted him to win.

Even my own mother admitted she understands why people would hate me.

Actually how do you treat people? You might just be aspie

 

[Deleted member 24940]

People usually hate other people who they think might hate them.

Your probably not friendly and don't smile at or make eye contact/acknowledge people so they think you hate them and begin to build resentment.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

Has anyone else experienced this?
I was lean and decent looking for the entire time this was happening too.

From grade 2 to grade 8 I was completely shunned and hated by everyone. I had only 1 real friend. I reconnected with that friend a few months ago and he told me he thinks it was fucked up how I was treated, but didn't understand why they treated me that way. They never tried to get physical with me, I tried to join the nerd group but even they rejected me.

I had 3 good friends in highschool but I was hated by a lot of people there too. My friends told me they understood why I was hated but it was hard to put into words, however that same thing made me more likeable to them.

I wasn't even ugly at that time, I was hooking up with random HTB white girls so it wasn't my looks. This isn't an exaggeration/victim mentality. Numerous times I heard about people talking behind my back about how much they hate me.

I've been fired/had to leave multiple jobs and aLL my staff members actually hated me. One time a staff member legit started swinging at me and I had to defend myself. He was a criminal 30 year old Hispanic guy out of jail with an ankle monitor.

No one even stood up for me when it happened, I could tell they wanted him to win.

Even my own mother admitted she understands why people would hate me.

People don't hate or ostracize good looking people unless they're directly causing it lmao. It literally just doesn't happen.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

On the other hand people tend to like others who they think like them.

I know even ugly niggas with many friends because they are nice and sociable and shit. The most popular guy and biggest slayer in my highschool was a 5'9 darkskin Dravidian guy who had maxxed out charisma, confidence, organized every event, and everyone liked him because he was nice to them.

 

[fauxfox]

Alpha genes. You probably don't self-deprecate yourself to fit into social groups which makes people subconsciously envy you.

I thought this at first but it might be cope.
I think I give off a sense that I think I'm superior to others. Like in the first week of highschool the hierarchy was already clear. Idk what I did but instantly people upper in the hierarchy made it known that they hate me ( I legit never even spoke to these people) and the people below them in the hierarchy hated me too. It was seen as bad to be around or associating with me even. I wasn't a nerd or ugly or anything. I did start 1 fight but that's it.

People usually hate other people who they think might hate them.

Your probably not friendly and don't smile at or make eye contact/acknowledge people so they think you hate them and begin to build resentment.

If anything I was the opposite. Constantly laughing and smiling, maybe people thought I was mocking them? I got depressed afterwards once I ditched me friend group because they revealed they didn't respect me at all. When I worked shitty part time jobs I just kept to myself yet that Hispanic convict and everyone else hated my guts. It's so fucking over man I can't even identify the problem. Even my own mother sees it.

 

[fauxfox]

People don't hate or ostracize good looking people unless they're directly causing it lmao. It literally just doesn't happen.

True. I wasn't good looking though. I was maybe slightly above average facially with wide shoulders halo + 5'11. If I was Tyrone it wouldn't have happened. I just don't understand why I've been despised by so many random people even since I was a child. There must be something intrinsically wrong with me.

I remember someone telling me my movements are so artificial/weird. Like I act how an alien studying humans would act. Things don't come naturally at all and I instantly kill the vibe.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

If anything I was the opposite. Constantly laughing and smiling, maybe people thought I was mocking them? I got depressed afterwards once I ditched me friend group because they revealed they didn't respect me at all. When I worked shitty part time jobs I just kept to myself yet that Hispanic convict and everyone else hated my guts. It's so fucking over man I can't even identify the problem. Even my own mother sees it.

You probably had shitty friends then, were they incel losers? Maybe they were just taking out their frustrations on you due to being low on the pecking order or something.

For the second part being "reserved" at work makes people dislike you since they think you hate them. You need to do the normie shit of smiling and saying hello and making eye contact with everyone, then make small talk.

 

[fauxfox]

On the other hand people tend to like others who they think like them.

I know even ugly niggas with many friends because they are nice and sociable and shit. The most popular guy and biggest slayer in my highschool was a 5'9 darkskin Dravidian guy who had maxxed out charisma, confidence, organized every event, and everyone liked him because he was nice to them.

Yeah I'm pretty different from that guy. If I'm not with my close friends ain't very awkward and act unnatural. When I'm with my close friends though I've heard I'm great to be around. I remember my closest friend telling me if I acted the way I acted with him with everyone else people would love me.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

True. I wasn't good looking though. I was maybe slightly above average facially with wide shoulders halo + 5'11. If I was Tyrone it wouldn't have happened. I just don't understand why I've been despised by so many random people even since I was a child. There must be something intrinsically wrong with me.

I remember someone telling me my movements are so artificial/weird. Like I act how an alien studying humans would act. Things don't come naturally at all and I instantly kill the vibe.

People hate interacting with the ugly or deformed. It kills the mood, it makes them feel bad, and they have a constant loser aura surrounding them. It's like a target drawn on someone's face that labels them as bottom on the totempole. They have to be turbo NT or lucky to get around that. Average to good looking people are either unremarkable or pleasant to look at which gets them higher on the social hierarchy. They're also typically more NT because of positive reinforcement in their upbringing.

 

[fauxfox]

You probably had shitty friends then, were they incel losers? Maybe they were just taking out their frustrations on you due to being low on the pecking order or something.

For the second part being "reserved" at work makes people dislike you since they think you hate them. You need to do the normie shit of smiling and saying hello and making eye contact with everyone, then make small talk.

My friends were dead middle of the food chain. They had connections to the top of the Food Chain but we were dead center. None of them were too good looking tbh. I unironically facemogged them all. It was a pretty diverse group, Somali, Ethiopians, White, Asian, Bangladeshi.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

On the other hand people tend to like others who they think like them.

I know even ugly niggas with many friends because they are nice and sociable and shit. The most popular guy and biggest slayer in my highschool was a 5'9 darkskin Dravidian guy who had maxxed out charisma, confidence, organized every event, and everyone liked him because he was nice to them.

"I know this 5'2 balding Indian janitor who's a massssive slayerrr!!!!"

Just ignore that every forum populated by the ugly is filled to the brim with social rejects and mental basketcases.

 

[fauxfox]

People hate interacting with the ugly or deformed. It kills the mood, it makes them feel bad, and they have a constant loser aura surrounding them. It's like a target drawn on someone's face that labels them as bottom on the totempole. They have to be turbo NT or lucky to get around that. Average to good looking people are either unremarkable or pleasant to look at which gets them higher on the social hierarchy. They're also typically more NT because of positive reinforcement in their upbringing.

I'm not ugly or deformed though.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

People hate interacting with the ugly or deformed. It kills the mood, it makes them feel bad, and they have a constant loser aura surrounding them. It's like a target drawn on someone's face that labels them as bottom on the totempole. They have to be turbo NT or lucky to get around that. Average to good looking people are either unremarkable or pleasant to look at which gets them higher on the social hierarchy. They're also typically more NT because of positive reinforcement in their upbringing.

I had like 4 ugly guys at my work who were pretty popular because they were hyper NT. One guy was a 5'6 giga-confident manlet.

 

[Bushman]

Did they hate you behind your back for the most part?
Or was it direct?

 

[Deleted member 29710]

I'm not ugly or deformed though.

Average looking people who don't stand out just get ignored. You are either leaving things out in this story or are just ugly and in denial.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Incel Yuta Okkotsu


Kinda badass

 

[fauxfox]

Did they hate you behind your back for the most part?
Or was it direct?

It was all behind my back, they acted like we were cool and dapped me up. Never confronted me for some reason. I had to confront and cut them off.

Average looking people who don't stand out just get ignored. You are either leaving things out in this story or are just ugly and in denial.

I mean, you've already seen my face.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

I had like 4 ugly guys at my work who were pretty popular because they were hyper NT. One guy was a 5'6 giga-confident manlet.

The #1 complaint on every forum for social outcasts is about being ugly. There's a very strong connection between the two.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

The #1 complaint on every forum for social outcasts is about being ugly. There's a very strong connection between the two.

Usually because they are also shy and quiet, but from my own anecdotal experience I've known "ugly guys" who are low inhib and NT do well in life.

 

[Bushman]

What do your eyes look like, OP?
People subconsciously judge others’ personality based on their eye area


if you have serial killer eyes, people might think you are angry or scary.


My resting face looks like a death glare. A random girl said hi to me first, but got frightened bc I gave her a “funny look” after her greeting.

 

[fauxfox]

What do your eyes look like, OP?
People subconsciously judge others’ personality based on their eye area


if you have serial killer eyes, people might think you are angry or scary.


My resting face looks like a death glare. A random girl said hi to me first, but got frightened bc I gave her a “funny look” after her greeting.

Spoiler: Me

5'11 with 23" bideltoid so I looked quite broad framed

 

[Bushman]

It was all behind my back, they acted like we were cool and dapped me up. Never confronted me for some reason. I had to confront and cut them off.

I mean, you've already seen my face.

If it was behind your back, you probably weren’t ugly to them. People disrespect ugly people to their face.
Were you at the top of the class? People nearly always hate people that appear smarter than them.

 

[fauxfox]

If it was behind your back, you probably weren’t ugly to them. People disrespect ugly people to their face.
Were you at the top of the class? People nearly always hate people that appear smarter than them.

Another guy and I in the group were the only ones taking AP classes, but he was widely liked tbh. I was pretty verbose though and people thought I was showing off. I think I gave off a bad vibe. I read books from 2nd to 8th grade rather than socializing.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

If it was behind your back, you probably weren’t ugly to them. People disrespect ugly people to their face.
Were you at the top of the class? People nearly always hate people that appear smarter than them.

I mean, not really. ER was a turbo autist and ugly but even then most people were pretty polite and understanding with him. Most of his problems with people were perceived slights or his perceived social status in the hierarchy.

 

[Deleted member 19174]

You're one of the most confusing users on this website

 

[fauxfox]

You're one of the most confusing users on this website

In what way? I'm genuinely curious

 

[fauxfox]

I mean, not really. ER was a turbo autist and ugly but even then most people were pretty polite and understanding with him. Most of his problems with people were perceived slights or his perceived social status in the hierarchy.

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ER looked very weak and abusable tbh, and acted like it too. He looks like a target. I don't think I look vulnerable like him. Most people would insult this guy to his face IRL.

 

[Deleted member 27751]

Has anyone else experienced this?
I was lean and decent looking for the entire time this was happening too.

From grade 2 to grade 8 I was completely shunned and hated by everyone. I had only 1 real friend. I reconnected with that friend a few months ago and he told me he thinks it was fucked up how I was treated, but didn't understand why they treated me that way. They never tried to get physical with me, I tried to join the nerd group but even they rejected me.

I had 3 good friends in highschool but I was hated by a lot of people there too. My friends told me they understood why I was hated but it was hard to put into words, however that same thing made me more likeable to them.

I wasn't even ugly at that time, I was hooking up with random HTB white girls so it wasn't my looks. This isn't an exaggeration/victim mentality. Numerous times I heard about people talking behind my back about how much they hate me.

I've been fired/had to leave multiple jobs and aLL my staff members actually hated me. One time a staff member legit started swinging at me and I had to defend myself. He was a criminal 30 year old Hispanic guy out of jail with an ankle monitor.

No one even stood up for me when it happened, I could tell they wanted him to win.

Even my own mother admitted she understands why people would hate me.

Exactly even everyone in this forum hate me

 

[Deleted member 19174]

In what way? I'm genuinely curious

Your posts are just extremely confusing. Last post I read you were talking about rotting on MMOs all day, and I've seen your current photos, you're still a fatass and I just picture this incel that sits inside all day playing WoW.

In this post however, you talk about fucking white HTBs in high school, but before I remember you made a post of about freaking out with meeting a girl off discord.

Also in this post you talk about how literally everyone hates you and people say they understand why people hate you, but all your years of living you still do not know the reason.

I just don't get you.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

ER looked very weak and abusable tbh, and acted like it too. He looks like a target. I don't think I look vulnerable like him. Most people would insult this guy to his face IRL.

You look like a darker version of him. It's actually uncanny.

 

[fauxfox]

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You look like a darker version of him. It's actually uncanny.

Wait wtf, I actually see the similarity...
Our nose and eyes are different, and my jaw is more prominent. All other facial features are very similar though. But I notice when you're black people don't really fuck with you as much. I've done shit that would've gotten my ass beat if I was 5'6 ER.

 

[Deleted member 24940]

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You look like a darker version of him. It's actually uncanny.

If only ER waited a bit till the kpop craze he could've slayed like crazy.

 

[Deleted member 19174]

If only ER waited a bit till the kpop craze he could've slayed like crazy.

no he wouldn't

 

[BigBoy]

I mean, not really. ER was a turbo autist and ugly but even then most people were pretty polite and understanding with him. Most of his problems with people were perceived slights or his perceived social status in the hierarchy.

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ER was a 6/10, he got bullied cuz of his autism. Autism was the reason he was low social status and incel.

 

[Bushman]

Another guy and I in the group were the only ones taking AP classes, but he was widely liked tbh. I was pretty verbose though and people thought I was showing off. I think I gave off a bad vibe. I read books from 2nd to 8th grade rather than socializing.

Lmao. that was the reason. It probably had nothing to do with your looks. From my experience, People really hate people that seem smarter than them. They probably also viewed you as elitist since you didn’t interact with them.

A recent example:

A roommate of mine got visibly miffed when I corrected him on a historical matter regarding the Roman Presence in Germania. I should have probably kept my mouth shut.

 

[fauxfox]

Your posts are just extremely confusing. Last post I read you were talking about rotting on MMOs all day, and I've seen your current photos, you're still a fatass and I just picture this incel that sits inside all day playing WoW.

In this post however, you talk about fucking white HTBs in high school, but before I remember you made a post of about freaking out with meeting a girl off discord.

Also in this post you talk about how literally everyone hates you and people say they understand why people hate you, but all your years of living you still do not know the reason.

I just don't get you.

Basically when I was lean and younger I was starter for my highschool's lacrosse team and was in great shape. I installed Yubo and fucked a bunch of girls.
Now, it's been years since I've gotten pussy. My social skills and deteriorated. COVID did a number on me and ai never recovered. Something that would come as easily to me as chatting up a girl now makes me sweat and stare at my feet.

All my life I've been a very divisive person, I'm either hated or liked (mostly hated). I'm not gonna give some generic answer like "it's because I said things like they are". I genuinely do not understand why people IRL feel such strong feelings towards me and it bothers me.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

ER was a 6/10, he got bullied cuz of his autism. Autism was the reason he was low social status and incel.

This Hindu forum unironically can't rate if you people think ER was good looking. The average milquetoast white guy mogs him to hell and back. Women literally treated him as invisible all his life jfl

 

[fauxfox]

Lmao. that was the reason. It probably had nothing to do with your looks. From my experience, People really hate people that seem smarter than them. They probably also viewed you as elitist since you didn’t interact with them.

A recent example:

A roommate of mine got visibly miffed when I corrected him on a historical matter regarding the Roman Presence in Germania. I should have probably kept my mouth shut.

Based on just my looks, how do you think people would treat me? How would I be viewed?

 

[BigBoy]

This Hindu forum unironically can't rate if you people think ER was good looking. The average milquetoast white guy mogs him to hell and back. Women literally treated him as invisible all his life jfl

Theres been normies who've rated him and they put him around a 6.

You genuinely have autism if you think his autism wasnt holding him back. He was invisible because he was autistic. In fact all the major incel mass shooters had autism, if that doesnt clarify things to you idk what will.

 

[Bushman]

Based on just my looks, how do you think people would treat me? How would I be viewed?

If that’s what you looked like in high school, people probably didn’t hate you for your looks. They probably had a positive first impression of you(you look friendly) that quickly deteriorated when you started speaking.
Smarts, especially hard science and book smarts, don’t halo people like looks do. People are inclined to hate people smarter than them.

 

[fukmylyf]

you're not NT. It could be your body language, conversation skills, high inhib, or a number of things. But they sense something is off about you. Even @Amnesia has this problem. I remember he said one girl hated talking to him, but she couldn't explain why.

 

[fauxfox]

you're not NT. It could be your body language, conversation skills, high inhib, or a number of things. But they sense something is off about you. Even @Amnesia has this problem. I remember he said one girl hated talking to him, but she couldn't explain why.

I'm a complete vibe killer. I have no rhythm/can't dance. These things don't come easy to me for some reason. I make normal situations very uncomfortable without saying a word. I've seen people start sweating and stressing out because of this. It's like I have an aura that just makes people feel like shit.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

Theres been normies who've rated him and they put him around a 6.

You genuinely have autism if you think his autism wasnt holding him back. He was invisible because he was autistic. In fact all the major incel mass shooters had autism, if that doesnt clarify things to you idk what will.

Normies are virtue signaling to discredit his ideology. He wasn't a 6. This is what 6-7 range looks like. And yes, his autism probably was the nail that sealed in the coffin, but his cucked looks and height were doing 80-90% of the work to get him into that coffin to begin with. You're actually bluepilled if you don't realize that.

 

[BigBoy]

Normies are virtue signaling to discredit his ideology. He wasn't a 6. This is what 6-7 range looks like. And yes, his autism probably was the nail that sealed in the coffin, but his cucked looks and height were doing 80-90% of the work to get him into that coffin to begin with. You're actually bluepilled if you don't realize that.

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That’s like a 7-7.5 irl son, you’re underrating them.

ER was also very annoying to deal with and unironically had a shitty personality. He thought he was better than everyone else despite being an autistic incel. Yea ofc he would be a loner and low social status.

 

[Deleted member 29710]

If that’s what you looked like in high school, people probably didn’t hate you for your looks. They probably had a positive first impression of you(you look friendly) that quickly deteriorated when you started speaking.
Smarts, especially hard science and book smarts, don’t halo people like looks do. People are inclined to hate people smarter than them.

I'm extremely confident in saying that this was looks, being ethnic and non-NT (too much interest in autistic things like reading) and that's why he ultimately ended up an outcast.

 

[fauxfox]

I'm extremely confident in saying that this was looks, being ethnic and non-NT (too much interest in autistic things like reading) and that's why he ultimately ended up an outcast.

Outcast/bullied = not robust/short