Range of positive states you can be in when socialising

[Deleted member 16501]

This is rougly the levels of POSITIVE states you can be in socially, in ascending order.

-Clear headed.
You're not in your head. Or atleast you're head/thoughts are not primarily operating you. You're in the moment

-Feeling good when clear headed.
Not only are you out of your head, but you're starting to feel the natural endorphins of being present, being around people and being 'one of those people who are out'.

-Being outside of yourself while clear headed.
This is when you have switched to 'the doer', the actor ie in acting mode. Your focus and energy has moved below your head into your body. You are just in natural action, you are coming into being your true self, your best self.
You can be looking the same as in the first state, but you will start to get more IOIs.
Eg right now I am in a mall sitting down yet 2 chicks have been hovering around me. One MENA Milf, one dumpy ass white girl. I.am sort of in this state now.



-Charged with intent while being clear headed- you're coming into your will and making the play.
This is when your physical intent is absolutely at the forefront. You are aggressively enforcing yourself on the environment, you are the predator.
I used to be a master of this during nightgame.


These levels aresomething that can only be practiced WHEN OUT SOCIALLY. You cannot get this by intellectualising or even by 'being chadlite'

I have absolutely no practice at this because I've barely socialized the past decade, but I used to be naturally very good at this.

This is not an essay as I do not have the authority to write properly about this. Maybe if I practice every day for 6 months I could be a non-shit level

Point I'm getting across is this is how you get out of social retardation, by practicing being in better state.

Also if you ever get into a bad state when out...ie feeling insecure, feeling mogged etc...start at the beginning...aim to get back to the clear headed state again. Don't try and desperately reach for external validation to get you back in state.. it will only send you further crashing down.

Inb4 reported for autism

Edit: Ok maybe the white girl wasn't orbiting me. It seems she was waiting for an appointment in the shop behind me.

 

[PYT]

you’re appreciated bro keep up the good work

 

[pantone]

good post my nigga, except for the part about the girls hovering around you

 

[Deleted member 16501]

good post my nigga, except for the part about the girls hovering around you

No I was getting iois and some hotmena milf was behaving weirdly right next to me

Lot of guys here don't understand vibe and energy...irl sex appeal and vibe matters. But I won't explain further until I put it into practice

 

[Deleted member 19301]

Love this post

im "clear headed" 80% of the time its ok conversationally but meh and uncharismatic. Only rarely ascend to "outside yourself" and beyond but then i get crazy IOI's and i also feel really good how do i ascend more often??
introverted incel brain doesnt want to give me endorphins

 

[Deleted member 16501]

Love this post

im "clear headed" 80% of the time its ok conversationally but meh and uncharismatic. Only rarely ascend to "outside yourself" and beyond but then i get crazy IOI's and i also feel really good how do i ascend more often??
introverted incel brain doesnt want to give me endorphins

Look at everything in your life that can give you more energy.

-improve diet- more vegetables, more vitamins, nutrient rich foods
-wake up earlier if you have bad sleeping patterns (4.30am-6.30am is best)
-drop resentments and negative thoughts
-start focussing on what you want and visualizing it as if you've got it
-stop letting women live in your head. Remove simp attitude if you have it


Then practice moving deeper and deeper into the body when out socially.
Literally go to a social area every day for 20-30 minutes atleast, and practice making that switch.
As I said, this ONLY comes from practice. If you do it for 20-30 minutes a day for 6 months, you will be good at it.

 

[Deleted member 19301]

-drop resentments and negative thoughts

-stop letting women live in your head. Remove simp attitude if you have it

i actually stopped having these at all for a good while and its related to what it says in your signature, its cool

didn't fix everything though

 

[Chadethnic101]

This is legit

I've found it hard to articulate but you've explained it here

Saved this

 

[the BULL]

This is legit

I've found it hard to articulate but you've explained it here

Saved this

Just sent dicpic to my 2021 oneitis

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those are the ppl writing this pile of shit

 

[isis_Bleach]

This is rougly the levels of POSITIVE states you can be in socially, in ascending order.

-Clear headed.
You're not in your head. Or atleast you're head/thoughts are not primarily operating you. You're in the moment

-Feeling good when clear headed.
Not only are you out of your head, but you're starting to feel the natural endorphins of being present, being around people and being 'one of those people who are out'.

-Being outside of yourself while clear headed.
This is when you have switched to 'the doer', the actor ie in acting mode. Your focus and energy has moved below your head into your body. You are just in natural action, you are coming into being your true self, your best self.
You can be looking the same as in the first state, but you will start to get more IOIs.
Eg right now I am in a mall sitting down yet 2 chicks have been hovering around me. One MENA Milf, one dumpy ass white girl. I.am sort of in this state now.



-Charged with intent while being clear headed- you're coming into your will and making the play.
This is when your physical intent is absolutely at the forefront. You are aggressively enforcing yourself on the environment, you are the predator.
I used to be a master of this during nightgame.


These levels aresomething that can only be practiced WHEN OUT SOCIALLY. You cannot get this by intellectualising or even by 'being chadlite'

I have absolutely no practice at this because I've barely socialized the past decade, but I used to be naturally very good at this.

This is not an essay as I do not have the authority to write properly about this. Maybe if I practice every day for 6 months I could be a non-shit level

Point I'm getting across is this is how you get out of social retardation, by practicing being in better state.

Also if you ever get into a bad state when out...ie feeling insecure, feeling mogged etc...start at the beginning...aim to get back to the clear headed state again. Don't try and desperately reach for external validation to get you back in state.. it will only send you further crashing down.

Inb4 reported for autism

Edit: Ok maybe the white girl wasn't orbiting me. It seems she was waiting for an appointment in the shop behind me.

Bro I know exactly what you’re saying but when I’m with certain people it is just impossible for me to loosen up. Especially my family
I have spent sometimes months of my life never being clear headed
It’s very important u are with people u like in the first place to even allow urself to become clear headed and charismatic