Rant about my 9 month talking stage

[slimester]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

 

[Deleted member 306147]

I take it back. You and I are alike.

 

[Bryce]

thank u guys for reading

 

[Panchitosbroncs]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

Your fault.

 

[slimester]

Your fault.

I wouldn’t change a thing

 

[htn from the staes]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

This is gay asf

 

[sayonara]

Dnr

 

[bojacke]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

9 month talking stage was the first sign

 

[afroheadluke]

 

[Th3Man]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

Dnr

 

[annenisikeyim]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

9 months talking stage is diabolical. dnr btw

 

[tuktukdriver]

imagine feeling like this to a talking stage, and 9 months at that, you are a fag and you gotta fuck more girls

 

[AbelMakkonenTesfa]

idk why people are shitting on you lol the long talking stage thing isnt that uncommon now and seems like your situation with her wasnt simple as just "fall in love with eachother then date" with you saying you were talking to other people during it and her mixed signals of course you guys didnt date but honestly if its kind of a situation where you did her wrong by being unloyal in a sense and then it got messy/ended at the fault of you being ignorant or just not knowing how to treat her with you saying you never had a gf but honestly anyone with common sense would know not to mess or talk to other girls at all if they care about the one they are already talking to so in that case would 100% honestly be your fault but not in a like "your fault jackass get over it" kinda way its alright to miss people just remember what you did wrong and what you could have done better hopefully if it should have worked out you guys can talk again one day cant say much else tbh not alot of backstory could be 100% her fault who knows keep that head up bro

 

[Don Alejo Garza]

Young niggas here have to know that a guy gets labeled as "dating material" in the first seconds of interaction.

 

[Veridic]

Just up late reminiscing on my 9 month talking stage. It’s been a year since we started talking and it was on and off up until November so more like 5 months all together.

She wasn’t even that attractive. But like her personality brought it all together. We were kind of friends and then one of my friends told her I liked her. And then for Valentine’s Day 2025 I bought her a card and some chocolate.

I’ve never had a gf. I genuinely don’t know why. Maybe because after a previous failed talking stage I just became a manwhore. But for the few months I was loyal it was great.

I often look back at our texts and times we would call. Like genuinely reminiscing. She would send really bad mixed signals and I think that’s what made me fall for her more. I often wonder what we would’ve been if I didn’t talk to other girls while talking to her. Or if she wasn’t so indecisive. Anyway just a vent thank u guys for reading

Why would you ever talk for 9 months without making a move to make it official